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Forum: Mental Health February 23rd 2022, 09:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 5,488
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Favorite coping mechanisms

The 5-4-3-2-1 is one of my favourite things I do !
Or just tapping my fingers, listening to music (like very loud and singing), belly breathing or just drawing with watercolor, apps like...
Forum: Self Harm February 9th 2012, 08:27 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering (SH): Best friend cuts.
Views: 1,074
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Best friend cuts.

Thank you so much and I'm sorry to hear that you are going through the exact same thing.. 3 years ..wow. :x Can imagine how hard it has to be for you.

I'll never give up on him,no worries :) It's...
Forum: Self Harm February 8th 2012, 11:35 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering (SH): Best friend cuts.
Views: 1,074
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Best friend cuts.

Thanks, so I should just go on like that ?x
I won't give up on him. <3
Forum: Self Harm February 8th 2012, 10:26 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering (SH): Best friend cuts.
Views: 1,074
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Unhappy Best friend cuts.

So,I don't really know what to do..
My best friend started to cut and I finally,after 7 years,stopped. Whatever I tell him,he just says he can't stop. I really know the feeling,but I do NOT...
Forum: Self Harm July 6th 2011, 08:56 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): big problem with a friend
Views: 927
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: big problem with a friend

Thank you :)
Honestly,I doubt that he is really in love with me. Like EnriqueFan said, those hurtful things.. he wouldn't say that if he was in love with me.
Today he apologized again, and it was...
Forum: Self Harm July 5th 2011, 06:54 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): big problem with a friend
Views: 927
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
big problem with a friend

Sooo here's the problem.. There is one guy who is a good mate but recently I found out that he is actually in love with me. So far,no problem.. I can deal with it.
He knows about my issues with my...
Forum: Self Harm April 17th 2011, 08:28 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): wanna cut
Views: 943
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Unhappy wanna cut

yesterday i had a little fight with a friend.. he drank a bit alcohol and then he started to make fun of me. it really hurt me and he didn't want to stop making jokes of me in front of other...
Forum: Self Harm January 23rd 2010, 03:31 PM
Replies: 21,270
Views: 869,566
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Self harm free!

2 months and 4 days ((:
Forum: General Health December 10th 2009, 05:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,140
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: pain in the spine

today it got worse. in school i tasted blood in my mouth, but there wasnt blood..:S and i forgot to mention that i am tired all the time. really, all the time. it's so annoying..
i think i'll go...
Forum: General Health December 9th 2009, 06:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,140
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Question pain in the spine

It's really scary and I don't know why I have this.
Suddenly my spine began to hurt all day and that was 2 weeks ago.
I can't lay down without feeling pain in my spine, it's really bad. I can't...
Forum: Friends and Family November 9th 2009, 07:49 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Suicide): friend wants to die. nothing works.
Views: 1,219
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: friend wants to die. nothing works.

i dunno.. i mean i just stopped it and i dont want him to cut himself or anything. i just want him to live.
Forum: Self Harm November 9th 2009, 07:31 PM
Replies: 21,270
Views: 869,566
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Self harm free!

since last week. (:
Forum: Friends and Family November 9th 2009, 07:28 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Suicide): friend wants to die. nothing works.
Views: 1,219
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Exclamation friend wants to die. nothing works.

a friend of mine wants to kill himself. i'm talkin to him, another friend is talkin to him aswell but nothin works. i told him why he shouldnt do that and the reason why he should stick to hope but...
Forum: Rape and Abuse October 25th 2009, 12:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,224
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: what can i do? need help

Heya,
I already talked to my mum and i dunno if it helped.
Right now everything's ok. I hope it will stay like this.
Forum: Rape and Abuse October 14th 2009, 05:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,224
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Exclamation what can i do? need help

This is kinda hard to talk about it, i dunno why but well,
3 years ago my dad started to abuse me emotionally.
my mum knows it but she doesnt really do something against it.
last time it got so...
Forum: Rape and Abuse September 7th 2009, 07:33 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering: sexual abuse?
Views: 1,318
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: sexual abuse?

Oh, now I understand it !
Thank you (:
I will try it when I have a flashback next time .. thanks for the tip :)

Bella x
Forum: Rape and Abuse September 7th 2009, 06:20 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering: sexual abuse?
Views: 1,318
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: sexual abuse?

Thank you so much for your answers..
When it happened to me,no one believed me and my formteacher even laughed about it.

I never forgot it and sometimes it makes me sick thinking about it. ...
Forum: Rape and Abuse September 5th 2009, 02:34 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering: sexual abuse?
Views: 1,318
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Question sexual abuse?

it might be triggering,i dunno..

when i was in first grade in school,so i was 6 years old, i saw a man who was an exhibitionist. now i just read that in front of children it's a form of sexual...
Forum: Self Harm September 1st 2009, 08:23 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

i guess i can be proud of myself... 1 week since i last cut :)
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 08:30 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

i am too afraid to say that. i will just try to stop and then i will see.. if its not getting any better i will try and see one..

and just wanted to say thank you for your help, everyone x
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 08:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

if they find out it would be a bad thing. really.

last time they found out it was horrible. my dad yelled at me, saying i should just attempt suicide and my mum didnt understand me and ignored me....
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 08:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

erm i dont even know if we have some counselors here in germany :D

how can i be not stupid ? i make my boyfriend and best friend cry and worry about me. :(
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 07:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

i cant go and see a counselor, my parents will find out then :/ that would be really bad..
well, actually, i wanna go and see one...

yep, i am stupid. i know.
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 06:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

well, i have to live here, i cant go. i am too afraid to do sth, i dont know what he would do :(
i still feel the same way about my boyfriend, i really love him. i dont want to hurt him with my SI...
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 06:24 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: After 2 years.. cutted again :/

my dad kinda hates me, ignores me sometimes, says i should die and my friend ignores me again. thats why i started.

i dont even remember how i stopped, i just know that my parents found out and...
Forum: Self Harm August 20th 2009, 01:12 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 959
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
After 2 years.. cutted again :/

3 days ago i started cutting again, my legs are full of cuts. i get angry when i see the cuts are slowly fading so i make new ones. when i am bored i cut. :/
i guess the knife is my new best friend...
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 28th 2009, 09:29 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 681
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: depression?

the thing is , i talked to my dad but he just got angrier.. so there is no point. its like talking with a wall. he doesnt listen and never will.
i guess i have to live with that.
2 more years and...
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 27th 2009, 09:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 681
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Unhappy depression?

dunno where to put this, sorry..
i know this is stupid but i need to say this.. i think i am depressed but i dunno..

i dont know what is happening to me.. it freaks me out.. my dad hates me i...
Forum: Friends and Family May 5th 2009, 08:29 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 906
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: i cant stop thinking about it

omg.. thank you (:
but i just had a big argument with my parents and now they're ignoring me. this was just too much.. the words again and now being ignored.. i had the razor in my hand. but i...
Forum: Friends and Family May 4th 2009, 08:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 906
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
i cant stop thinking about it

(dont know if its triggering.. just to be sure..)
since my friend has told me about his failed suicide attempt i cant stop thinking about cutting again. i stopped two years ago and now it feels like...
Forum: Friends and Family May 4th 2009, 07:15 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,417
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: My friend being abused ?

my best friend is 16 and will be 17 this year.
he says he still has to live 1 and a half year with his parents and when he's 18 he can move out. but i think it's too long.
but the problem is.. he...
Forum: Friends and Family May 3rd 2009, 07:04 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,417
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: My friend being abused ?

Hey..
Thank you so much (:
I thought about reporting it and i talked to him but he said he doesnt want to go to a childrens home. he said he has to wait 1 and a half year and then he can move out....
Forum: Friends and Family April 30th 2009, 09:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,417
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
My friend being abused ?

[ i dont know if this could be triggering ..]
Well... a good mate told me two days ago that he nearly committed suicide with a cable when he was ten.I was really shocked because I didn't think that...
Forum: Self Expression February 14th 2009, 03:34 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 678
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: my drawings.

aww.. thank so much!
actually, i'm not so good, but somehow it looked good :P
this one is not like i wanted but whatever..
Forum: Self Expression February 13th 2009, 10:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 678
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Smile my drawings.

so, here is something i draw lately.. let me know if you like it or if you don't.
erm... hope you like it.. :)
Forum: Books and Literature February 12th 2009, 08:17 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 116,904
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: What I'm reading now.

Currently I'm reading two books:

-Rosie Dunne (or When Rainbow ends)
love this one!
-Siberia
this is such a great story :)
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 12th 2009, 07:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 823
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: asking him out?

Hey, thanks for your advices.. I guess I have to ask him :P
Of course I'll let you know how it goes :)
Forum: Self Harm February 11th 2009, 12:29 PM
Replies: 21,270
Views: 869,566
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: Self harm free!

First at all, congrats to everyone. It's not to easy to stop but I have fate that you can do it! =]

23 months.
:)
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 11th 2009, 11:21 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 823
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: asking him out?

Hey, thanks :) he lifts you up? that's so cute! :)
well, he is my mate so I'm afraid we won't be friends anymore....
I'm such a coward.
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 10th 2009, 09:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 823
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
asking him out?

well, after some weeks i am in love with a boy, who is a good friend. we've known each other for one year (actually today, it's one year :) ). we are taking dancing lessons together, once a week....
Forum: Arrivals and Departures February 3rd 2009, 02:38 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 675
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: hello everybody.

aww... thank you everybody! :)
sarcasm rules! :grin:
Forum: Arrivals and Departures February 2nd 2009, 03:21 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 675
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: hello everybody.

haha.. i know. sarcasm is sooo great!
omg, i just remembered. it wasn't long ago... my friend and i read a book and we both read and scream at the same time: sarcasm!
unfortunately, our teacher...
Forum: Friends and Family February 2nd 2009, 03:18 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 986
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Unhappy is she kidding me?

okay, so i have this big problem since 1 year one and i really feel that i can't take it anymore.
my best friend had a boyfriend, they broke up and suddenly she didn't talk to me. At first I...
Forum: Arrivals and Departures February 2nd 2009, 02:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 675
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
Re: hello everybody.

thankies :)

yees, it's the song. i love it! ♥
Forum: Arrivals and Departures February 2nd 2009, 02:46 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 675
Posted By onlyfoolingmyself
hello everybody.

Well, hello everybody!
I just found this site and i read some post so i decided to register.
so, here i am! :D
(erm.. i dont really know what to say about me.. :embarrassment i am quite a boring...
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