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Forum: Anxiety and Stress April 14th 2014, 02:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,113
Posted By Bem
Re: Anxiety and eating disorders?

I have anxiety and also have some eating disorder symptoms, and I think personally they often are related, though obviously I can't speak for anyone else. For example, a huge part of my anxiety is...
Forum: Games and Things March 12th 2014, 10:50 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Goddammit man, I thought we were done and I was finally getting over you, and you had to go and want me back and make me fucking happy and I have so much to say to you that I can't put into words but...
Forum: Games and Things February 22nd 2014, 12:42 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 147,981
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you craving?

Cheese toastie and tomato soup
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 15th 2013, 04:54 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,099
Posted By Bem
Re: Guys, would you feel comfortable with buying tampons for your girlfriend or friend??

I'm pretty sure my guy would c: he's more likely to force me to stay on the couch and eat chocolate and watch movies than go out, bless >.<

I've never really understood why it's embarrassing for...
Forum: Games and Things August 19th 2013, 08:19 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm sorry for being such a headcase, 'cause I know you don't deserve it, but somehow you're still sticking around and you have no idea how much that means to me. I like you way more than I want to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 13th 2013, 01:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,619
Posted By Bem
Re: Have a dating,which dress?

I like all of them :o Just pick whichever you feel most comfortable in. May also help if we knew the situation, as I'd say they're appropriate for different things (e.g. the first one seems more...
Forum: Self Harm July 11th 2013, 07:59 PM
Replies: 20,905
Views: 656,186
Posted By Bem
Re: Self harm free!

A couple of minutes : ))))
sorry if this is triggering c:
Forum: Education and Careers June 14th 2013, 06:48 PM
Replies: 362
Views: 33,229
Posted By Bem
Re: What did you want to be/do when you grew up?

I wanted to be an author.
I still want to be an author, though now I think I'll do something else (e.g. teaching or being a lawyer) and write in my spare time. At least, until my book becomes a...
Forum: Self Harm June 10th 2013, 06:12 PM
Replies: 31
Triggering (SH): Self-harm habits.
Views: 2,925
Posted By Bem
Re: Self-harm habits.

Sorry, i didn't know about not being allowed to post what you use! If a mod sees this can you edit it out/if people see this don't answer that one (thank you to everyone who has answered).
Forum: Good Days! June 8th 2013, 10:46 PM
Replies: 11,846
Views: 384,734
Posted By Bem
Re: I'm happy today because...

someone told me I was half the reason they're still alive c:
Oh, and a really sweet boy said some really sweet things about me, eep.
Forum: Games and Things June 8th 2013, 05:34 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You mean so much more to me than you realise, and I wish I had the guts to tell you.
Forum: Self Harm June 8th 2013, 05:32 PM
Replies: 31
Triggering (SH): Self-harm habits.
Views: 2,925
Posted By Bem
Self-harm habits.

I recently told a couple of 'authority figures' about my self-harm, and when they were asking me questions (and responding to my answers) it got me wondering what the kind of 'average' was, in terms...
Forum: Games and Things June 8th 2013, 04:21 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 147,981
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you craving?

A burger :hehe:
Forum: Games and Things June 7th 2013, 09:08 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 57,080
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you drinking ?

Bacardi and lemon fanta.
Forum: Self Harm May 14th 2013, 08:58 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,694
Posted By Bem
Re: Parent of a Self-Harming Teen or Suspect Self-Harm?

Speaking as someone who's soon going to be telling her parents about self-harm and is terrified about how they'll react, this is really useful and well-written, well done ^.^
also, thanks for...
Forum: Fashion and Style May 4th 2013, 09:26 AM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,220
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Skull t-shirt and pyjama shorts :hehe:
Forum: Goals and Ambitions May 4th 2013, 09:18 AM
Replies: 352
Views: 37,531
Posted By Bem
Re: what do you want to do before you die?

My bucket list is crazy massive, but here are the important ones:

Visit most of the world.
Publish a (successful) novel.
Sell my art.
Skydive.
Let someone see my scars.
Own a fancy bed....
Forum: Music April 29th 2013, 08:34 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 16,385
Posted By Bem
Re: What Song Is Stuck In YOUR Head

Miserable at best - Mayday Parade
Forum: Games and Things April 23rd 2013, 08:51 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry.
I'm not brave or strong or good and I'm so lost right now and I don't know what to do. I want to talk to you, and I want your help, but you're doing so well even if...
Forum: Games and Things April 13th 2013, 10:03 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

No, i wasn't kidding about wanting to see a doctor. Yes, actually, they probably can help, what would you know? No, it's not a phase. No, it's not normal. No, I'm not just tired. What the hell do you...
Forum: Music April 12th 2013, 01:34 PM
Replies: 1,371
Views: 43,866
Posted By Bem
Re: What Are You Listening To Right Now?

Breathe in - Hit the Lights
Forum: Food and Recipes April 12th 2013, 01:05 PM
Replies: 989
Views: 45,127
Posted By Bem
Re: What you're snacking on.

Dark salted caramel Lindt
OMFGNOM.
Forum: Music April 12th 2013, 12:40 PM
Replies: 11,996
Views: 487,010
Posted By Bem
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

And they say you’re homesick for a place you’ve never been.
And you’re missing a person you’ve never seen.
And you don’t know where you’re headed, but it’s far from here.
You’ve got a terminal...
Forum: Why Me? April 12th 2013, 12:38 PM
Replies: 10,618
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 331,548
Posted By Bem
Re: Screaming thread.

Fuck fuckity fuck fuck. I don't want to go to some fucking Spanish beach this summer. I can't let you see my legs, and now I have oto try and control myself and go higher so they'll just be scars....
Forum: Games and Things April 12th 2013, 12:34 PM
Replies: 5,197
Views: 158,429
Posted By Bem
Forum: Technology, Gamers and Gadgets April 12th 2013, 12:31 PM
Replies: 642
Views: 38,769
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you playing?

Assassins Creed: Revelations c:
Forum: Music April 12th 2013, 12:29 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 16,385
Posted By Bem
Re: What Song Is Stuck In YOUR Head

Vegas Skies - The Cab
Forum: Goals and Ambitions April 12th 2013, 12:28 PM
Replies: 9,550
Views: 318,715
Posted By Bem
Re: Goal of the day!

-Get some DT work done, including emailing pictures to be printed
-Do my physics homework
-Do my art homework
-Paint a phonecase to look like BMO >.>
-Order a typewriter maybe
Forum: Fashion and Style April 12th 2013, 12:27 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,220
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Skinny bleached jeans, jumper with studded shoulders, both new yesterday ^^
Forum: Games and Things April 12th 2013, 12:26 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 147,981
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you craving?

Diet coke and oreos.
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 6th 2013, 06:34 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 9,308
Posted By Bem
Re: will my panties stop going soaked after puberty please? when i talk to hot guys it happens:/

It'll keep going, thankfully, because otherwise sex would be more painful. Teenagers get it more because hormones/puberty yaaay but it's nothing to worry about. If you're really self conscious you...
Forum: Eating Disorders April 6th 2013, 05:49 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,653
Posted By Bem
Re: Why did your eating disorder start?

Personally, I was always the chubby kid, and got mocked. It began with me skipping lunch in school when I didn't have time because I didn't notice the difference. Then, I started going to the gym,...
Forum: Music March 30th 2013, 01:03 PM
Replies: 1,371
Views: 43,866
Posted By Bem
Re: What Are You Listening To Right Now?

High for this - The Weeknd
Though I can barely hear it over the coughing, sigh.
Forum: Music March 16th 2013, 01:45 PM
Replies: 1,371
Views: 43,866
Posted By Bem
Re: What Are You Listening To Right Now?

Breathe in - Hit the Lights
Forum: Games and Things March 15th 2013, 07:40 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 57,080
Posted By Bem
Forum: Why Me? March 14th 2013, 09:57 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 308,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Complaint of the day

Two fucking weeks. You disappear for two fucking weeks after that?!

I wasn't kidding about hating school. It's not a phase. it's a pointless system and I want to drop out. just because I'm good at...
Forum: Books and Literature March 4th 2013, 04:44 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 97,173
Posted By Bem
Re: What I'm reading now.

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lgzo6nL1Gq1qfex7s.jpg
Forum: Food and Recipes March 2nd 2013, 02:26 PM
Replies: 1,181
Views: 53,219
Posted By Bem
Re: Whats for lunch?

Egg, turkey bacon, and grilled tomato sandwich omnomnom.
Forum: Self Harm March 1st 2013, 07:21 PM
Replies: 20,905
Views: 656,186
Posted By Bem
Re: Self harm free!

Nearly a day.
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2013, 07:20 PM
Replies: 5,197
Views: 158,429
Posted By Bem
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Latest How I Met Your Mother ^^
Forum: Self Expression March 1st 2013, 05:29 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 983
Posted By Bem
Re: Please give me constructive criticism on this poem!

I really, really like this c: it's a little vague but I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing.
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2013, 05:26 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 147,981
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you craving?

Toasted sandwich omg pls
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 1st 2013, 05:18 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,380
Posted By Bem
Re: At what age is it acceptable to start dating?

I think that the definition of dating varies between 12-18. Say, relationships when we were 13 we now don't really count as real relationships. I think dating can begin early, say 12, but I think...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 24th 2013, 09:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,445
Posted By Bem
Re: Help!! What are the chances that I'm pregnant?

Not a lot :) You're probably not pregnant and I wouldn't fret if I were you, but we're not doctors, if you're that worried, to reiterate everyone else, take a test :)
Forum: Games and Things February 23rd 2013, 09:22 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 57,080
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you drinking ?

Leftover expensive rose wine.
Ahh, this is nice, cheers.
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity February 22nd 2013, 09:19 PM
Replies: 882
Views: 91,245
Posted By Bem
Re: What is your sexuality and gender identity?

Cis female, and when it comes to sexuality i don't really bother picking a label. I like who I like, regardless of gender/sex/etc. etc. I'm definitely not a lesbian. I want a relationship with a guy...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 22nd 2013, 03:34 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: My Period Dissappeared?
Views: 1,635
Posted By Bem
Re: My Period Dissappeared?

Hi Lily
Christabel is right, there's nothing to worry about :) I've known people to go from a 2 week cycle to an 8 week cycle no exaggeration, it's just hormones and growing up, it's normal. If you...
Forum: Why Me? February 22nd 2013, 12:09 PM
Replies: 10,618
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 331,548
Posted By Bem
Re: Screaming thread.

Can you please stop being so nice and perfect and hot and accepting while being so inaccessible because one of these days I'm going to fall in love with you and then we'll both be fucked.
Kay thx.
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 21st 2013, 11:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,105
Posted By Bem
Re: What should I do if this guy is flirting with me and he has a girlfriend?

I've been in a similar position, and don't make the mistake of flirting back. Remind him he has a girlfriend. If he likes you, break up with her. If not, then I sympathise and don't really think he's...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings February 19th 2013, 03:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,976
Posted By Bem
Re: Possible tattoo idea?

I think it's lovely :) and I like the fact it has meaning behind it.
Forum: Food and Recipes February 17th 2013, 02:44 PM
Replies: 1,321
Views: 56,668
Posted By Bem
Re: What's for BREAKFAST?

Bacon butty and a mug of tea <3
Forum: Books and Literature February 16th 2013, 01:18 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 97,173
Posted By Bem
Re: What I'm reading now.

https://encrypted.google.com/books?id=e3aMkgAACAAJ&printsec=frontcover&img=1&zoom=1&l=193http://www.badidea.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/a-million-little-pieces.jpg
yeah, i read two books at a...
Forum: Good Days! February 16th 2013, 08:19 AM
Replies: 11,846
Views: 384,734
Posted By Bem
Re: I'm happy today because...

PARRRRTAYYYYY.
It's a lot of work but if it all pays off tonight should be amazing <3
also, cake
Forum: Music February 13th 2013, 05:55 PM
Replies: 11,996
Views: 487,010
Posted By Bem
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

We burn our bridges as soon as we cross them, left with nothing but the memory of smoke and the presumption that once, our eyes watered.
Forum: Music February 9th 2013, 10:27 AM
Replies: 414
Views: 16,385
Posted By Bem
Re: What Song Is Stuck In YOUR Head

Follow you into the dark - Death Cab for Cutie.
Forum: Games and Things February 9th 2013, 10:25 AM
Replies: 1,002
Views: 31,524
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you thinking right now?

I should go and wrap presents or something but I'm too tired to move.
Forum: Games and Things February 7th 2013, 04:50 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 57,080
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you drinking ?

Drench - orange and passion fruit (leftover from sibling's meal deal)
Forum: Goals and Ambitions February 7th 2013, 04:49 PM
Replies: 9,550
Views: 318,715
Posted By Bem
Re: Goal of the day!

Finish making my brother's plushie
Finish wrapping presents
Buy presents for friend
Buy card too
Get everything done without passing out of exhaustion
Get to skiing and don't fall over
Forum: Games and Things February 7th 2013, 04:47 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please be okay. Please don't disappear. Please be okay. Please reply. Please be okay. Please don't do anything stupid. Please be okay. Please don't lie to me. Please be okay. Please know I'm here....
Forum: Good Days! February 6th 2013, 07:41 PM
Replies: 11,846
Views: 384,734
Posted By Bem
Re: I'm happy today because...

Even though I didn't do very well, I finally got the test I'd been dreading over. Oh, and I got told I had loads of potential in yoga <3
Forum: Fashion and Style February 5th 2013, 09:27 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,220
Posted By Bem
Re: What are you currently wearing?

tie-dye pyjama top, pyjama shorts, underwear c:
Forum: Why Me? February 4th 2013, 06:54 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 308,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Complaint of the day

Overwhelmed. So much to do, so little time, or motivation. I just want to curl up and sleep till it all goes away.
Forum: Games and Things February 4th 2013, 06:13 PM
Replies: 2,100
Views: 79,577
Posted By Bem
Re: Dirty Little Secrets.

I honestly believe I won't be happy because whenever things go well I'm overcome with guilt.
Forum: Food and Recipes February 4th 2013, 06:11 PM
Replies: 1,321
Views: 56,668
Posted By Bem
Re: What's for BREAKFAST?

Chocolate chip banana pancakes <3

Mash one banana, beat in 2 eggs, add handful of chocolate chips, fry like small pancakes.
Forum: Games and Things February 4th 2013, 06:10 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 403,405
Posted By Bem
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You are the one person I cannot stand. You are annoying, up yourself, a beg and I want to punch you. When you were so cruel to him, even two years after he killed himself, I expected at least an...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy February 4th 2013, 06:06 PM
Replies: 504
Views: 63,838
Posted By Bem
Re: Your Religious and/or Spiritual Beliefs

Hindu. But I believe more in overall philosophies than details, though I enjoy the traditions.
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