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  1. Hollifire
    March 8th 2010 04:49 PM - permalink
    Hollifire


    <3
  2. MadPoet
    March 6th 2010 04:30 PM - permalink
    MadPoet
    Yuck! I'm assuming that overflowing sewers is a little bit disgusting.

    It better be benign! You'll have to let me know how your doctor's appointment goes.

    Wow, you lucked out! It would have been a lot worse if you'd been in the middle of the freeway. Scary! I would be a bit scared to get into a strangers car too. Good thing he was a nice guy. :] And that you weren't on the freeway!
  3. MadPoet
    March 6th 2010 03:02 AM - permalink
    MadPoet
    Thank God you get to choose! I hate when I'm assigned certain topics, they're usually ones that are impossible to even find any information on, and let alone eight pages. Ugh!

    You were born in San Diego? *Jealous time.* Never been there, have always wanted to go! You'll have to show me around there sometime. It's at a cheaper music theatre, and the tickets were only twenty dollars, and it's mostly standing. Never been to a concert like that, I must say I'm kind of scared!

    Aw, I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I know that must be hard. I'm here if you need to talk, anytime and all the time.

    Gosh, that sounds terrible! I must say that I panicked before I read that you had had one before. xD That must be pretty scary still, though. I'm sure everything will turn out though! At least, I hope it does. Your doctor better do a good job.

    Running out of gas on the freeway? Oh man. Worst place to run out of gas! I'm glad someone helped you. :] I love when that happens, even when it's because of a terrible situation. It proves there's still helpful people in the world.
  4. MadPoet
    March 5th 2010 05:56 PM - permalink
    MadPoet
    Eight page essay? Lord help you. xD
    I like the new system too, but not when I'm redirected.
    It's nice not to see so many dang urgents. It's easier to answer requests now without them all being there. Thank God!

    That is cool! We're partner twins, haha.
    Everything has been going pretty good =D I'm [probably] going to be able to go to a Switchfoot concert on the 25, so I'm pretty excited. Some of the greatest times are spent at concerts!

    How about you?
  5. MermaidMassacre
    March 5th 2010 01:02 PM - permalink
    MermaidMassacre
    Ahhhhh Sorry to hear about all the homework. I'd die!
    Anywhooo Good Luck on the midterms! =)
    But I promise one day i'll get the story up hehe
    It is nice to know there are other people going through it, I agree.
  6. MadPoet
    March 4th 2010 11:57 PM - permalink
    MadPoet
    Robinn. Why haven't we talked in so long? It's criminal.
    A few weeks ago or so. & Thanks! I really like moderating the self expression forum, it's fun!
    How are you doing with all your awesome TH duties lately? xD
  7. MermaidMassacre
    March 4th 2010 07:40 PM - permalink
    MermaidMassacre
    Hey Robin! Long time no talk. =P
    How've you been?
    Sorry I never got to writing in the LDR group.
    I still don't know what to write. =P
  8. Yen
    February 24th 2010 11:57 AM - permalink
    Yen
    Hahaha I'm glad you like the sig . It's from a hilarious article on cracked.com. It's just got a bunch of funny things on it.
  9. ForeverAutumn*
    February 24th 2010 10:14 AM - permalink
    ForeverAutumn*
    Ahh no worries. (:
    I nearly died when I looked in there last night, two pages of requests. Oh dearr.
  10. ForeverAutumn*
    February 23rd 2010 06:32 PM - permalink
    ForeverAutumn*
    Hey Robin, Naomi and I are having a helplink party, want to help out? (:

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    Robin
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    (Last Updated: November 14, 2019)

    Hi there! I'm Robin, one of TeenHelp's Project Coordinators. You'll almost certainly see me around, whether it's on the front end (Forums, Chat Room, etc.) or back end (Staff areas).

    Being a Staff member is pretty cool, so if you're interested to learn more, send me a message!

    Here are ten fun facts so you can get to know me better.

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    1. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California.

    ***PLEASE NOTE, I cannot assess, diagnose, or treat you via TeenHelp.*** When I'm here, I'm serving as a peer mentor (who happens to have a whole lot of education and experience to back up their statements). With that being said, I'm happy to help you find a mental health professional, should TeenHelp be inadequate for meeting your needs!

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    2. I joined TeenHelp in June 2009 (over a decade ago!).

    I used to be an administrator for another website and was looking for mental health resources to share with our members. I happened to come across TeenHelp, and it was love at first sight. I settled into the "Relationships and Dating" forum and decided to apply for Staff as soon as I could!

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    3. I've been a Staff member since July 2009 (again, over a decade ago!).

    When I think back on how many different roles I've held over the years, it's truly mind-boggling! Here's a timeline for those who are interested:

    HelpLINK Mentor - July 2009
    Forum Moderator - December 2009
    Article Editor (now known as Publications Editor) - June 2010
    Social Networking Officer - May 2011
    Volunteering Officer - October 2012
    Project Advisor (now known as Lead Moderator) - April 2014
    Operations Team Leader - March 2015
    Project Coordinator - November 2019

    I've also served on various committees and teams, some of which have been discontinued or integrated into Staff roles over the years:

    Social Networking Team - May 2010
    Operations and Procedures Committee - August 2010
    Disputes Committee - December 2011
    Performance/Volunteering Committee - March 2012
    Videos Team - January 2014

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    4. Hugh Jackman is my celebrity crush. ♥

    Every time I change Staff roles, I change my Hugh Jackman avatar (so no, that is not a picture of me, LOL).

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    5. I'm old (*GASP!*).

    Okay, 30 doesn't really feel old to me, but I realize it's old compared to the majority of TeenHelp members. The truth is that I found TeenHelp when I was 20 years old (just barely out of my teens), so I've always been on the older end of the membership spectrum. I'd like to think that I can use my life experiences to connect in meaningful ways, vs. being another stuffy adult who acts like they know it all (because I definitely don't!).

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    6. I've been married for over five years.

    My husband is the love of my life - and believe me, it was a journey to find him! One of the reasons why I connected with the "Relationships and Dating" forum is because I've had my fair share of difficult relationships. Some were abusive (in more ways than one). Others were just downright challenging due to the long-distance aspect or religious/philosophical differences.

    Being a mental health professional doesn't make our relationship immune to miscommunications or arguments. I'm not perfect, and neither is my husband. At the end of the day, we make the conscious choice to love each other in big and small ways. We accept that we're flawed human beings, and we try to learn from our mistakes!

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    7. I've been diagnosed with a mental health disorder.

    This is something I rarely talk about publicly, but I'm open to sharing details privately. You probably wouldn't know I have a mental health diagnosis if you met me face-to-face, but a person can be highly functional and still struggle on a daily basis. I go through phases where I become emotionally and physically drained, and that's incredibly frustrating. However, I don't give up on myself. I go to therapy nearly every week to address my triggers and unhelpful ways of thinking about myself, others, and the world as a whole. I'm a huge fan of self-awareness, self-care, and self-compassion.

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    8. I'm white and nerdy (anyone get the reference?).

    Bookworm, Browncoat, Gamer, Otaku, Potterhead, Tolkienite, Trekkie... just to name a few. For me, it's never a competition to see who's the "nerdiest" - it's just about connecting with people who are excited about the same or similar things. So hit me up if you want to nerd out over something!

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    9. I love to travel.

    I haven't always been able to travel (it's hard to find the time or money when you're in graduate school or working as an unpaid intern), but now that I'm in a different phase with my life and career, my husband and I try to plan a few trips each year. Some of my favorite destinations have been NYC, Chicago, Kauai, St. Croix, and Thailand!

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    10. I'm obnoxiously optimistic and solution-focused.

    We may be hardwired for negativity, but that doesn't mean dwelling on problems helps us in the long run. So while I may acknowledge the issues that brought you to TeenHelp, I'm determined to focus on what we can improve upon. Change is possible. You may not be able to change your environment right away, but you can start to change your mindset right now (and now... and now!). It may take a great deal of effort (after all, you're learning new habits!), but my experience has been that the hard work is worth it.

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    That's it for now! If you'd like to reach out for any reason, please don't hesitate to send me a message. =)
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    Christian (Non-Denominational)
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    Reading, traveling, and gaming.
    Music
    Instrumental and techno.
    Movies
    There are too many to name!
    Television
    Again, there are too many to name!
    Games
    When I have time, I play Heroes of the Storm and Destiny 2.
    Books
    Too. Many. To. Name!
    Sports
    It's not really a sport, but I like scuba diving!
    Heroes
    I believe in the "everyday" hero.
    Favorite quotes
    “In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for [their] own personal growth?”
    ― Carl Rogers (American psychologist)
    Other interests
    I think it's safe to say that I enjoy my staff duties on TeenHelp. =D
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