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May 5th 2013, 02:37 AM
Not sure how but somewhere around a month and a half.
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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May 5th 2013, 04:23 AM
Two weeks and six days. Tomorrow will be three weeks, but I don't think I'll make it to three weeks, but I'll try to make it to three weeks.
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May 5th 2013, 04:52 AM
Awww Sam... You did amazing, sweetie. I'm so proud of you! You can do it again too. 
54 days.
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May 5th 2013, 05:08 AM
1 week and 4 days. Better than I thought
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May 5th 2013, 05:15 AM
27 days.
I'm sorry to hear about that, Sam.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
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May 5th 2013, 01:31 PM
3 months 
There is no beauty without some strangeness.
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May 5th 2013, 06:19 PM
thank you Cassie and Christabel
about.. 26ish hours I think.
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May 5th 2013, 09:20 PM
3 weeks.
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May 5th 2013, 11:28 PM
Around two days?
’Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.’
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May 5th 2013, 11:44 PM
Today was six weeks! 
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May 6th 2013, 12:51 AM
Seventeen days now. Wow.
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May 6th 2013, 01:26 AM
If I make it through tonight, then a week and five days
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May 6th 2013, 02:07 AM
55 days.
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May 6th 2013, 04:33 PM
Four weeks, or one month. 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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May 6th 2013, 09:11 PM
Two days, I screwed up Saturday. Whatever, starting over.
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May 7th 2013, 08:30 AM
56 Days.
Sarah, you can do it!
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May 7th 2013, 08:07 PM
1 month, and one day
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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May 7th 2013, 08:38 PM
20 hours and 3 minutes  
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May 7th 2013, 09:55 PM
you guys can do this <3
um, i think its threeish days. Ive been on the edge since i messed up saturday, but i somehow have managed. dont know how long itll last though.
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May 8th 2013, 12:34 AM
Zero. Oh well.
The sun is always gonna rise up
You need to get up, gotta keep your head up
Look at the people all around you
The way you feel is something everybody goes through
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May 9th 2013, 12:12 AM
Almost 2 years! (:
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May 9th 2013, 12:52 AM
uhm 12 hours
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May 9th 2013, 01:10 AM
Fifteen days.
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May 9th 2013, 01:21 AM
12 weeks, i do believeee
Great works are performed not by strength, but by perseverance.
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May 9th 2013, 01:53 AM
Dez, Susan, Sam, keep fighting.
58 days.
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May 9th 2013, 02:09 AM
One month and two days.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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May 9th 2013, 02:20 AM
A few hours. I screwed up. Even though today's been great. I don't really understand.
"You'll have to decide for yourself. Walk on your own. Move forward. You've got a strong pair of legs, Rose. You should get up and use them."
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May 9th 2013, 03:07 PM
26 hours
but having urges
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May 9th 2013, 08:44 PM
I've been self harm free for about a year and it feels amazing. I don't get urges, I don't even think about it. I just want you all to know that recovery is possible and to stay strong things get better <3
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May 9th 2013, 09:02 PM
32 hours......I think.
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May 9th 2013, 09:16 PM
One month and three days.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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May 9th 2013, 09:30 PM
uh, 5 days, I think. or is it six?
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May 9th 2013, 09:51 PM
1 year, 5 weeks, 1 day.
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May 9th 2013, 11:32 PM
34.5 hours....this is going too slow :|
and that's not to say I'm not doing the other kind of SH so I'm not actually free. I shouldn't even be posting here 
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May 10th 2013, 12:36 AM
Today is 2 weeks and 2 days
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May 10th 2013, 12:46 AM
59 days.
Stay strong, Susan. <3
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May 10th 2013, 12:53 AM
1 week, 4 days.
11 days.
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May 10th 2013, 02:24 AM
1 week! go me!
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May 10th 2013, 02:54 AM
less than an hour
I don't know I keep relapsing.
The other kind is every other minute....so I'm not even posting that one.
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May 10th 2013, 05:21 PM
Two days SH free. It may not be considered a lot of progress, but nevertheless it's progress.
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