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Posted September 26th 2017 at 06:38 AM by CrusadingAvenger

Judge, judge, judge, judge.

It's all people know how to do now,
And they are very good at it.

People just judge you
Before they really get to know you.

How can you really judge someone
Without knowing their life story?

That is the question.

That is the question
Everyone should be asking themselves
Before opening their mouth
And harshly judging others.

I guess it's just within
Our own human nature
To do such a thing.

But the next time
You want to say something mean,
Or harshly judge someone
For whatever reason,
Or no reason at all,
How about shutting your own mouth
And zipping it shut?

Nobody cares about what your mouth
Says about someone
Because at the end of the day,
It's your opinion, and you're entitled to it,
But it's not something wanting to be heard
Nor is it necessarily the truth.

If they're not harming anyone,
Or even harming themselves,
Why should you even bother
To open that mouth of yours?

You don't know their life story.

You don't know what battle(s)
They are currently facing in their life.

For all we know,
They could be having something
As simple as having a bad day,
They could have some special diagnosis
We aren't made aware about,
Or they could be having problems
With their own family at home,
And not saying a word about it.

They could be that kid
Getting bullied almost every day,
And hence, you see why
They are isolated from nearly everyone
And condemned by nearly everyone.

Learn to care for once in your life,
If you haven't done so already.

Just because your life may not
Be going the way you want it to
Doesn't mean you have the right
To take it out on other people
By finding something about that person
To nitpick and judge about
So that you can feel better about yourself.

What a foolish and selfish thing to do,
But it does happen.

People always judge
What they don't understand,
And blindly follow the blind
Flock of sheep
Like some be-all-end-all group.

If people judge you,
Learn to not give a shit.

Why might you ask?

Usually, people who judge you
And say some of the stupidest things
Just want to feel better about themselves
And are jealous of you.

Who cares what we do with our lives?

As long as we're not hurting anyone,
Causing pain and misery,
Why should we care
About what others think?

Pleasing others should NEVER
Be one of our life goals.

We should be free
To live our life the way we want
And how we want.

We should be happy,
And love every single minute
Of our life.

If you're tired of being judged
For some of the stupidest things,
Learn to not care about it.

At the end of the day,
They are just one person
Out of billions on this Earth.

Pleasing that one person
And getting that one person
To like you or agree with you
Just ain't worth a single cent.
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    This was like two separate, but related entries. However, I thought it worked well the way you had it! I definitely need to learn not to let people's judgement(s) get to me. I also need to learn to be a bit more open-minded with different-minded and abled people. Thanks for sharing this!
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