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May 29th 2013, 03:45 PM
Right now I'm getting away with the support of friends and sheer force of will. That and beginning to transition...
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May 29th 2013, 04:09 PM
Well, I didn't, but helping people out in the forums proved a decent diversion afterwards.
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May 30th 2013, 03:36 AM
Watching Rascal Flatt's live performance videos. 
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May 30th 2013, 04:29 AM
I took my cat and held her in my arms, and we fell asleep like that <3.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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May 31st 2013, 05:56 PM
Looking through some supportive messages left for me by people on here.
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May 31st 2013, 07:49 PM
i'M FaILInG
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May 31st 2013, 09:11 PM
Me and my friend are doing this competition: who can go on without self-harm for the longest! 
SH: "If you give in now, you'll give in the next time."- By SomePanda (my bff)
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May 31st 2013, 11:18 PM
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June 2nd 2013, 06:40 PM
I threw a party and made a new calm down jar. I have, like five of those now 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 2nd 2013, 06:43 PM
Reading.
("White Lies" by Mark O'Sullivan was amazing.  )
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June 2nd 2013, 06:43 PM
My boyfriend is the reason that I'm overcoming self-harm. Even though he's just one person, he means the world to me and knowing that he loves me and cares about me is enough for me. Everyone else might be against me, but just having one person is enough for me because he loves me more than I thought anybody could ever love. He's so supportive and great, and he's the reason that I'm beating SH.
When you can't find your way home, and when life gets too hard to face on your own. I will stand as a light through the darkness unknown, I will walk with you, so you're never alone.
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June 2nd 2013, 11:01 PM
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June 2nd 2013, 11:22 PM
When I want to cut I listen to music and yell/vent at my friends. They apparently don't mind though. If anyone ever needs to talk, I'm here. PM me anytime 
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June 3rd 2013, 03:15 AM
I'm barely beating it. I'm sitting on my bed, browsing the forums while listening to music.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 3rd 2013, 03:16 AM
Thanks! It was my goodbye party since I'm moving soon.
That's cool!
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 3rd 2013, 10:08 PM
I went for a walk and ended up at a friend's house
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June 4th 2013, 04:55 AM
I played Mario Kart with my friends. Got me in a good mood. 
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June 4th 2013, 05:09 AM
I didn't; but afterwards I watched the glitter fall - it took an hour or so. And I also played Mario Kart!!
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 5th 2013, 09:01 PM
Talking to people on here. Not even about SH or anything serious, but general conversations. I'm really grateful for my TH friends. Honestly, the last few days, especially nights, have been really rough and quite up-and-down, but a few of you have been there for me and have kept me safe. Thank you.
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June 5th 2013, 11:55 PM
watching ted talks online and other videos. Distracting myself by looking outside the window instead of the bathroom door. Making my bed comfy. Doing random internet searches. Things of that sort.
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June 6th 2013, 12:14 AM
I ran out of room and that's keeping me from doing anything else. I'm beginning to freak out because as I get older, the scars don't fade.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 6th 2013, 12:43 AM
I eat... and puke..
or go for a walk or go online.. or all of them..
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June 6th 2013, 03:57 PM
Reminding myself of when the paramedics told me that it was ugly, that my arms were ugly. To be honest, I look at them and think the same.
I'm trying not to make anymore scars.
You have to have the negative things in life to be able to appreciate the positives. TG 05/04/2013
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June 6th 2013, 07:43 PM
Went outside in the fresh air for a good while.
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June 7th 2013, 02:11 AM
Not wanting to have to hide my arms when I see my cousin in 4 days. I also went for a walk!
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June 7th 2013, 03:37 AM
I'm listening to music and pathetically attempting to dance 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 7th 2013, 10:04 AM
My boyfriend makes me too happy to think of a blade
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love Repose en Paix, Grandad/mom H., Sito, Nay, Mary, Aunt S., Peter, Katie, Lexi, Mrs. Radoye, Mandii, Trevor, Megan, Uncle T., Erika, Aunt R., Braxton, Connie, Adam, Grandpa, Buttons, Aunt Barb, Pi, Grandma ♥ The world will bleed its bloody tale. People will throw their stones. But the one thing you must always remember is: You no longer walk alone. -Blake Bliss
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June 7th 2013, 10:53 AM
I'm quitting that pro-ana site and coming back to TeenHelp! 
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June 8th 2013, 04:18 AM
I'm organizing pictures.
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June 8th 2013, 04:38 AM
Talking to people on here and texting a friend
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 8th 2013, 05:16 AM
I'm talking to this really awesome girl, her name's Cassie.
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June 8th 2013, 05:31 AM
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I'm talking to this really awesome girl, her name's Cassie.
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Aw, thanks! That brought a huge smile to my face
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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June 8th 2013, 05:32 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
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June 8th 2013, 05:32 AM
I'm going swimsuit shopping soon, so I can't do anything or I'll get caught. >.>
And I'm going on vacation to wear that swimsuit on a beach in a week. <.<
But it's okay because once I get back I'll have beaten my second best record ever.
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June 8th 2013, 06:03 AM
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Aw, thanks! That brought a huge smile to my face
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Aww yay! You're welcome, just speaking the truth. 
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
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You're awesome too.
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June 8th 2013, 10:46 AM
I can't actually hold the tool…
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June 9th 2013, 07:25 PM
Talking to people on here too.
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June 11th 2013, 10:21 AM
First I grounded myself (listed 5 things I can see, 4 things I can hear, 3 things I can touch, 2 things I can smell, 1 thing I can taste)
Then I played games on my phone until the urges went away.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
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June 11th 2013, 11:35 AM
I keep putting it off, and now the urge is weak and controllable. Also, I don't want scars I my arms and legs for Cali next year if I decide to do it.
Be like the turtle;
at ease in your own shell.
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June 11th 2013, 04:22 PM
I failed.
Going for a run helped a few hours ago though.
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