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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"
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October 17th 2016, 03:35 AM
Life: Things are going good for you right now, right?
Me: Ho don't do it
Life: Drop the phone you just got three days ago and shatter it.
I feel an inch tall. Stupid and irresponsible. Too broke to fix it and when I do get a job fixing my phone isn't a priority over my $7000 debt. Why. Why why why.
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October 19th 2016, 01:18 PM
You may have been raised to be a gentleman, but that is not what you are. A gentleman does not go around calling women bitches because they're not interested in him. A gentleman does not insist that he is a nice guy and therefore deserving of a girlfriend. I am not a consolation prize for you being nice. I apologize if I have led you on in any way, but I have explained to you as gently as I could that I am not interested in dating you. It is not my problem that you are choosing to believe I want anything to do with you.
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October 19th 2016, 02:49 PM
I don't care what the circumstances are, don't text and drive. Don't put yourself at risk and don't put every other person on the road at risk because you cant leave your phone alone long enough to drive home. Don't be that bloody stupid.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 21st 2016, 01:05 AM
It figures, the first time I can't get a follow up appointment on time because Medicaid is stupid, I start having symptoms for no reason.
3rd year in a row I can't afford loan payments. I can't pay nothing forever.
I could tell everyone who didn't believe me "I told you so" about a thousand times.
Even if there was something they could do, they don't care enough to do it because they don't have to anymore and I wouldn't be worth it anyway. I know that any response would leave me disappointed even if it was your job to give me one. I can't handle having anything fail right now which means I can't have hope for help either. I'm the exception to everything so I may as well give up on believing that it's going to get any better. Everyone else gets that, so I get the opposite, it gets worse until I decide to quit out of complete exhaustion in every sense of the word. I hope you didn't take that as weird, I did the best I could and tried not to dump on you.
Why do I feel like I can't tell you this? Maybe I've just leaned on you too much, maybe I don't want to ruin the good day you had, maybe I don't have the energy, or maybe I just don't want to think about it anymore.
I don't believe it's healthy to teach children that whenever they're upset, they "must choose joy" You're teaching that negative emotions (that make us human) are wrong and unacceptable. They're uncomfortable not wrong. Teach her how to cope with them, not ignore them.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; October 23rd 2016 at 08:24 AM.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 23rd 2016, 08:46 AM
You are a fucking asshole, and given that its Youtube and your attitude, I seriously doubt it. Do you deal with your supposed "clients" like that?! Although in my experience, I'm the only one to ever end up disqualified. Must learn to STOP doing this. And I lost another Saturday to the endless depression. This will kill me, I swear.
Why do I always decide I'm ready to contact a therapist on the weekend when I can't?! By Monday I don't want to do it anymore. Maybe it's a sign. As long as I do nothing, it will get worse, or at least not better. But, if I do it, it'll get worse first, then maybe better, maybe not. Or it could get worse if I end up with yet another one like them.
I think I'm finally ready. I'd prefer to do this by email since that's supposedly an option, but the link is broken. Stupid phone anxiety. At least if I make the appointment all she has to do is take me and it's close. She'll probably still try to tell me I don't need it and talk me out of it. I think it's pretty clear at this point that I'm not going to pull myself out of this. It's been almost 2 years and I'm still barely holding on. I'm less emotionally raw, but I still have no life. And if I get screwed out of this because the Medicaid lapses again for no reason YOU can deal with it this time because I did it last time, you're in charge of this, and I screwed it up, so I'm NOT doing it again. I would wait until January to do this, but chances are, even if I made the appointment tomorrow, it would be at least January by the time I got in.
I know what the problem is: I've lost my purpose. I've lost my "spark". At least I know I didn't do it to myself (or did I?!) I am not expendable. I'm a human being with a heart and feelings. Find a nicer way to destroy people next time. Of course, I'm probably the only time this will happen, ever. The fact that I know what I know provides some comfort.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; October 25th 2016 at 05:55 PM.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 24th 2016, 08:37 AM
I can't sleep. I didn't sleep last night either. I'm tired. I'm also angry that so many people make the same comment about people who are abused. It upsets me because it's untrue and I want to clarify that but I don't have enough information.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 24th 2016, 09:06 PM
Why does everyone always get what I want? Especially those who don't necessarily deserve it. I work my ass off and for what? Nothing, that's what. I'm just a nobody that no one important thinks about. I get forgotten. I want to fight but I can't, I just can't. Because each time I try I just get knocked down again. Why, WHY does everything good happen to everyone else but me?
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October 26th 2016, 07:27 PM
I wish I wasn't having problems on my medications. I know we'll figure it out and it's early on in the recovery process but that's still super frustrating and disappointing.
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October 26th 2016, 10:24 PM
I'm sincere when I say I wouldn't wish what I've been through on my worst enemy and never want anyone else to go through it. But, I really wish I wasn't the only one and there's a part of me that hopes I won't be.
My eyes are so dry they hurt and my vision is blurry. I'd use the moisturizing drops, but they've been used on the cat.
My conditions are not "excuses", my pain is legitimate, and I'm doing the best I can to heal from the worst experience I've ever survived caused by the last place on Earth I thought it would ever come from. Don't disguise your judgment as help.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; October 27th 2016 at 05:36 PM.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 28th 2016, 11:46 PM
Feeling so low tonight. Irritable and low.
Want to go to bed for a few days and not get up to deal with life.
So tired. No time to ever get over it all.
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 29th 2016, 08:08 PM
When boys hang out their windows and pull out their phones like they're taking pictures and asks what you're doing as if they're about to ask you to get in the car. What the fuck. I live in a good neighborhood. What is this bullshit?
Re: Screaming thread. -
October 29th 2016, 11:51 PM
There so much going on and it just won't stop. Can life just chill for one fucking day? I'm losing my mind and I don't have the energy to deal with this anymore.
"Just open your eyes and see that life is beautiful..." ~Sixx:A.M.
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October 30th 2016, 11:21 PM
I don't want you here because it's awkward. I don't want him here. I don't want to deal with the arguing and the snapping. I don't want to deal with any of it.
I want to sleep through it all and not speak to you until I know you're not going to tell me off or jump down my throat. I Want to go back in time to before everything got ruined. To before we fell out.
I want my friends but I'm losing them all.
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November 1st 2016, 11:24 PM
Why is it that when I was diagnosed with diabetes everyone was swarming around my hospital bed wishing me well while nobody fucking showed up when I got locked up in a psych ward for two weeks for being so depressed that I harmed myself and refused to see a counsellor because I didn't care anymore? Why is it that when my mother is sad everyone tries to cheer up but nobody notices when I'm relapsing? Why doesn't my pain matter unless it's physical?