Questions for the opposite sex

[Lugez]

Originally Posted by Carpe Diem

PHYSICAL: definitely too much make up, but also weight to the point where it's obvious you're looking after yourself, and not making yourself look slutty eg. those super small/tight/black TNA pants some girls wear...

Oh come on, every guy likes when a girl dresses a bit slutty. It's nice to look at. But don't expect guys to ever take you seriously dressing that way though (except in the bedroom).

[Veni Vidi Vici]

Originally Posted by Lugez

Oh come on, every guy likes when a girl dresses a bit slutty. It's nice to look at. But don't expect guys to ever take you seriously dressing that way though (except in the bedroom).

You're exactly right, some of them could be pleasing on the eyes (there are others that aren't though), but for me at least, they automatically un-check any 'serious relationship' boxes. I simply won't take you seriously anymore..

[jaii]

im a girl, and heel to the yea, i love to win, its like second nature, winning, becuase we wont shut up untill we do win
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No matter how far they are away,
I know you are loved by someone every day,
And everybody else is too,
When you seek the help to get you through.
!!!

dudes= why do you think that you are attracted to women with bug boobs and look good ???


admit it, its great to win!!!

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Question for anyone: would you be willing to date someone who cheated on their ex? If so, would you trust them completely or would you be more cautious?

For example, my boyfriend has never cheated on me, but he cheated on his last girlfriend with two other girls over 2 years ago.

[ertyuio]

Originally Posted by remembering_sunday

Question for anyone: would you be willing to date someone who cheated on their ex? If so, would you trust them completely or would you be more cautious?

I would be willing to date her because I shouldn't completely reject the possibility of a good relationship based on her past. However, it would make me cautious about trusting them completely with the loyalty of our relationship, if it were to ever become serious and committed. How cautious, exactly, would depend on the circumstances surrounding their previous relationships, but all in all, cheating is a very low thing to do regardless of the circumstances.

[Ali Baba]

Originally Posted by remembering_sunday

Question for anyone: would you be willing to date someone who cheated on their ex? If so, would you trust them completely or would you be more cautious?

For example, my boyfriend has never cheated on me, but he cheated on his last girlfriend with two other girls over 2 years ago.

Nope, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't be able to fully let my guard down around that person or trust them as much as I could trust someone else. It would be constantly at the back of my mind that they've cheated once, what's to stop them doing it again. To me loyalty is the most important aspect I look for in a person so I couldn't be with someone who didn't understand the importance of loyalty.

[ThePolarPanther]

Would you stay in a relationship you felt unwanted or unsatisfied in? And What would you do if the other person seemed like they didnt want to see you anymore or was drifting away?

[ertyuio]

Originally Posted by Mistpool5

Would you stay in a relationship you felt unwanted or unsatisfied in?

I wouldn't see the point of staying if this is the case.

Originally Posted by Mistpool5

And What would you do if the other person seemed like they didn't want to see you anymore or was drifting away?

I'd talk to them and find out the problem.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Mistpool5

Would you stay in a relationship you felt unwanted or unsatisfied in? And What would you do if the other person seemed like they didnt want to see you anymore or was drifting away?

I wouldn't stay in that relationship either way. I left a relationship because of the first issue & also I was the one drifting away. I believe people deserve better than settling for someone else if they don't feel that way about them.

[b.eliza83]

I have a question for the guys. What's the most important thing to you when you're in a relationship? And be COMPLETELY honest.

[ertyuio]

Originally Posted by b.eliza83

I have a question for the guys. What's the most important thing to you when you're in a relationship? And be COMPLETELY honest.

You can't really pinpoint any definitively supreme aspect of a relationship, above others...I consider equally how well my S.O. and I connect on an intellectual level, if our emotional needs are satisfied with each other, if there is enough mutual romantic/sexual attraction to make me feel secure in the integrity of the relationship, etc. There are too many factors to say that one is the most important, because without any one, the rest are irrelevant.

[Veni Vidi Vici]

Originally Posted by b.eliza83

I have a question for the guys. What's the most important thing to you when you're in a relationship? And be COMPLETELY honest.

I'm not gonna lie, my counterpart has to be pretty physically attractive (in my standards) for me to really try and keep the relationship going. Just right below that would be our chemistry and ability to make conversations flow, and time pass quickly. ie. We have to really 'click'.

[Forgotten]

Originally Posted by b.eliza83

I have a question for the guys. What's the most important thing to you when you're in a relationship? And be COMPLETELY honest.

The most important thing is that we both 'go together'. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship and the girl I'm dating I don't really LIKE. I cannot explain it exactly in words, but I think you know what I mean.

I'm talking about the feeling you get when you talk to someone about the stupidest and most pointless stuff in the world but somehow it doesn't matter it just feels great.

If I don't get that feeling from a relationship, I'll call outs.

But there are some secondary points that I think are applicable to many people which are mainly sexual..

I don't know about others, but I couldn't really date anyone who never wanted to be doing anything sexually. I don't know is this sounds 'selfish' or whatever. It's not like I'd date someone to just have sex with them and call outs, but I just feel that one of the mandatory aspects of a relationship is also a sexual aspect.

Hope this is clear..

[Halo345]

Why do girls seem to not understand that if they say/do something that hurts their BF that just maybe the BF might get pissed off? or offended? or Hurt? But if a guy even slightly does anything to his GF, he's a horrible pos that should die?

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by -A-

Why do girls seem to not understand that if they say/do something that hurts their BF that just maybe the BF might get pissed off? or offended? or Hurt? But if a guy even slightly does anything to his GF, he's a horrible pos that should die?

I think it depends on the girl, but really, girls are stubborn & dramatic. It's like programmed into our DNA or something. Personally, I know I've done that, but I've realized it & I'm working on not being so dramatic about things & considering my boyfriend's feelings. If a girl isn't making an effort, she's probably not worth it.

[inFAMOUS]

Girls: why is it always so hard to read you and what your thinking?? But you have like some 6th sense to know exactly what guys are thinking??

[leavemealone]

Originally Posted by cowboysfan369

Girls: why is it always so hard to read you and what your thinking?? But you have like some 6th sense to know exactly what guys are thinking??

We have a way of looking deeper into situations. Its not exactly difficult to read a guy. They stare at your boobs, you know they're thinking about sex. As for reading girls, we change our mind a lot on things, so sometimes even we don't know whats going on in our heads. If your really curious, as her what shes thinking. She wants you to. Never in a billion years will a girl say no to you asking that

[chickenonsteroids]

Originally Posted by teardrop_59

We have a way of looking deeper into situations. Its not exactly difficult to read a guy. They stare at your boobs, you know they're thinking about sex.

You're making guys sound like fools with average IQs of 10.

[*thegirlinthecorner-TAN*]

"Describe your dream girl. From personality to beliefs to appearance." i'm bi can i answer this?

[*thegirlinthecorner-TAN*]

my dream girl is someone who can accept all of me, she has to be humble, honest, loyal, and funny. she has to believe in the power of positive thinking, i don't care about religion. i don't really care about appearance.

[*thegirlinthecorner-TAN*]

"why is it always so hard to read you and what your thinking?? But you have like some 6th sense to know exactly what guys are thinking??"

that doesn't apply to all girls. we don't all know what you guys r thinking

[ertyuio]

Originally Posted by teardrop_59

We have a way of looking deeper into situations.

This is certainly news to me. Blanket statements are rarely tolerable, but this one is simply begging for a torrent of examples to the contrary. A more careful choice of words would be wise.

[Snufkin]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

You're making guys sound like fools with average IQs of 10.

If I stare at her ass and she doesn't catch me doing it, can I have an IQ of 12?

I think a lot of girls do instinctively work things out better, or quicker, than guys do. Not sure how or why but the amount of times I've seen it happen leads me to believe it's true. Not sure that all guys just stare at boobs and want to have sex though.

[Choose]

One can argue that girls are not hard to read either.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by cowboysfan369

Girls: why is it always so hard to read you and what your thinking?? But you have like some 6th sense to know exactly what guys are thinking??

Girls expect guys to know what we're thinking. Lame, I know. We say one thing, but mean another, whereas guys are straight forward with things. That's what makes guys easy to read, whereas with girls, you have to consider the double meaning. For example, if a girl says nothing is wrong, there is probably something wrong. If a guy says nothing is wrong, there usually is nothing wrong.

[Halo345]

Originally Posted by remembering_sunday

Girls expect guys to know what we're thinking. Lame, I know. We say one thing, but mean another, whereas guys are straight forward with things. That's what makes guys easy to read, whereas with girls, you have to consider the double meaning. For example, if a girl says nothing is wrong, there is probably something wrong. If a guy says nothing is wrong, there usually is nothing wrong.

That could really tie into my post. haha

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by -A-

That could really tie into my post. haha

Haha which one? The one above?

[Halo345]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

Haha which one? The one above?

Yeah, kinda haha

[Ammonsa]

Originally Posted by leavemealone

We have a way of looking deeper into situations. Its not exactly difficult to read a guy. They stare at your boobs, you know they're thinking about sex. As for reading girls, we change our mind a lot on things, so sometimes even we don't know whats going on in our heads. If your really curious, as her what shes thinking. She wants you to. Never in a billion years will a girl say no to you asking that

This really isn't true. I think more deeply than most girls I know in real life and I don't think thinking deeply is a matter of gender, but rather of maturity and experience, as well as intelligence. I think you should also not assume you know what a guy is thinking, because it tends to be a lot more complex than you assume, and I know that for myself at least, when I look at boobs I'm not even thinking about sex all the time, sometimes I'm just admiring beauty, though I don't really focus on the boobs at all, rather the face.

Now to the question;

The thing is, no one is the same. Like, I'm a guy, but I certainly hardly ever actually tell people the truth about how I feel most of the time, at least in real life. In contrast, I know many girls who are blunt spoken and will tell you exactly how they feel. This can cause problems when guys assume they are saying the opposite and it can start fights. The truth is, you just have to figure out how the person is on each occasion. Don't generalise and assume all girls are hard to figure out, you just don't have much experience yet. In regards to them figuring you out easily, you just might be a really expressive person. Or really obvious.

[NerdGeek]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

You're making guys sound like fools with average IQs of 10.

We are. Well, I can only speak for myself, and around girls, I seem to strat drooling... LOL

[NerdGeek]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

You're making guys sound like fools with average IQs of 10.

We are. Well, I can only speak for myself, and around girls, I seem to start drooling... LOL

[ronnymajani]

Originally Posted by drowningangel

Yay. We do have this back. How nice. Although we had PAGES before all this happened.

I have a question for the guys and girls out there:

How important is sex in a relationship to you? If the sex isn't good, would you still stay with that person?

Yes of course if the guy truly loves her

how do you know if a girl likes you????

Why is it that girls are confusing

[Choose]

Originally Posted by ronymajani

Yes of course if the guy truly loves her

Originally Posted by ronymajani

how do you know if a girl likes you????

Originally Posted by ronymajani

Why is it that girls are confusing

[Edited]

When a girl likes you she will generally let you know in one way or another, whether it is touching you a lot, smiling, wanting to be around you more than other girls, making sexual jokes/ innuendo, etc. There are a lot of more subtle things too.

Girls are confusing...well... just because.

You get more used to them in general the more time you spend around them, and they aren't as confusing.

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by ronymajani

Why is it that girls are confusing

To add to Dinosaur Trainer's point about practicing with girls, girls are often deliberately confusing. It's a way of testing guys, albeit subconsciously. If he flounders, she gets less attracted to him because he's just demonstrated that he doesn't know how to deal with girls.

[xLyricallyx]

if a guy picks on you does that mean he likes you? a boy i know started driving me crazy (not that i didn't like it it was fun) and now my friends are convinced he likes me...

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by xLyricallyx

if a guy picks on you does that mean he likes you? a boy i know started driving me crazy (not that i didn't like it it was fun) and now my friends are convinced he likes me...

Yeah, quite possibly. Teasing is a pretty common way to flirt.

[NevermindMe]

Originally Posted by xLyricallyx

if a guy picks on you does that mean he likes you? a boy i know started driving me crazy (not that i didn't like it it was fun) and now my friends are convinced he likes me...

Age 13? Oh yeah, for sure. If someone is being a little too obnoxious or a little too nice to you and no one else, it probably means they have a "thing for you".

A question for females:

It happened again the other day, and I'm finding it hard to ignore. Another girl who I only mildly know came up to me and said something along the lines of: "You're so serious all the time, and it's funny. You're so cute."
It's always with people I vaugely know, and it's always roughly the same thing. What the hell does it mean? Is it a positive thing, a negative thing? A translation would be nice.

- Justin

[PSY]

Originally Posted by JKmadu619

A question for females:

It happened again the other day, and I'm finding it hard to ignore. Another girl who I only mildly know came up to me and said something along the lines of: "You're so serious all the time, and it's funny. You're so cute."
It's always with people I vaugely know, and it's always roughly the same thing. What the hell does it mean? Is it a positive thing, a negative thing? A translation would be nice.

Generally, I'd say that taking the time to speak with you one-on-one when she doesn't know you very well is a good sign. She's getting your attention by speaking with you, she's indicating that YOU'VE gotten HER attention (observing that you're "serious all the time"), and she's giving you a compliment ("you're so cute").

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by JKmadu619

A question for females:

It happened again the other day, and I'm finding it hard to ignore. Another girl who I only mildly know came up to me and said something along the lines of: "You're so serious all the time, and it's funny. You're so cute."
It's always with people I vaugely know, and it's always roughly the same thing. What the hell does it mean? Is it a positive thing, a negative thing? A translation would be nice.

- Justin

It sounds like a compliment to me, because it sounds like a conversation starter & a bit of flirting.

[Evanesco]

Originally Posted by JKmadu619

It happened again the other day, and I'm finding it hard to ignore. Another girl who I only mildly know came up to me and said something along the lines of: "You're so serious all the time, and it's funny. You're so cute."
It's always with people I vaugely know, and it's always roughly the same thing. What the hell does it mean? Is it a positive thing, a negative thing? A translation would be nice.

- Justin

If it was negative I doubt she'd have called you cute. Or said it was funny. Take it as a compliment, it was probably an attempt to start a conversation.