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Forum: Education and Careers August 30th 2012, 12:14 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,775
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: College! Where should I live?

Dorms are easier to access and you don't have to worry about paying rent every month, but honestly, apartments are much more laid back and you can actually do whatever you please, without having to...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings August 28th 2012, 02:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,895
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Mum won't let me get a tattoo -_-'

When I told my mom years ago that I was getting a half sleep among many other tattoos.. She wasn't too happy about it. But once I turned 18, she straight out told me that it's my decision, and that...
Forum: Education and Careers August 25th 2012, 02:31 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,856
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Advice for College Freshmen

1. Don't study to hard, because you'll burn out fast. Time management: learn it now.

2. Get to know absolutely everyone. That creepy looking guy down the hall? Talk to him. Maybe he's not so...
Forum: Education and Careers August 21st 2012, 12:51 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,890
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: College

I'm also going to my dream school. Tuition at the moment comes out to about $45000 with room and board, but it's going up because of a merger.. it has to match up with the school that is taking over....
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 12th 2012, 12:56 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,869
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Sexuality, homophobic mother and Uni LGBT societies

Nobody outside of the uni has to know about your choice of clubs once you get there. It's not like high school, where there are permission slips, parent-attended recognition-events, etc. It's all...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 10th 2012, 01:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 816
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Girlfriend or boyfriend?

but would he be okay with you keeping the relationship a secret? You have to talk to both people and get an understanding of not only what you want, but what they want and what they're expecting of...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity June 17th 2012, 03:02 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,810
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: LGBT In Textbooks

Some history textbooks do vaguely mention homosexuals in Nazi Germany.
I believe that within the next 10-20 years, LGBTQ rights and issues will be at least a small addition to textbooks. History...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 7th 2012, 02:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 855
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: How Do I Find a Girlfriend?

Do you live near a large city? If so, check out what they have there. They're sure to have youth groups.. Or if you like queer musicians, go to a show sometime.

Do you know any other queer girls...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 3rd 2012, 09:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 7,875
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Really want my girlfriend to orgasm

Even though her legs are twitching, her clit may get more sensitive as she gets closer. Personally, even when my partner 'powers through' the fact that my legs twitch, I can only handle specific...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 16th 2012, 01:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,068
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: My girlfriend is using a "cover"?

You really do have to communicate.

Although this may be the only way that she's happy with her situation at home and in public, it doesn't mean that you're happy. Yours is just as important as...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 13th 2012, 11:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 17,944
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: My girlfriend never wants to have sex...

Not just that, but sometimes she may need a break. Even if it's just once a week or once every other week.. That's still a lot. Maybe she just needs a break, and maybe you have to show her that...
Forum: Education and Careers February 13th 2012, 03:13 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,062
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: College questions

Like said above, they can usually be found on the school's site under academics. Just go to your intended major, and most schools will give a general schedule for the major, or it'll be in a class...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction January 31st 2012, 01:24 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,082
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Alcohol in the classroom

If you get drunk the night before, and you wake up drunk.. I find it understandable.
But if you're drinking before class.. I think you really should save it for afterwards.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 27th 2012, 01:45 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,239
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Vote on the font for my tattoo?

3, 6 and 8 are quite nice..
I might be leaning more towards 3. =]
Forum: Education and Careers January 25th 2012, 04:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,130
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: To all those in college or university:

I also wanted to study Forensic Psychology for a while..
Right now I'm in a great engineering school, studying electrical engineering. I originally wanted to do something with music, or...
Forum: Education and Careers January 21st 2012, 08:33 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,179
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: College & sixth form choices

I also don't know your educational system very well..

But either way, you should go where you feel more comfortable going. Cost is an issue, totally understood.. but you don't want to be miserable...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 20th 2012, 02:57 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 18,707
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: My girlfriend is way too passive in bed

This is ironic that you mention this.. I had a similar with my 4 year relationship with my now ex girlfriend. She always accused me of being a 'pillow queen' and being the bottom.. but she never...
Forum: Self Harm January 12th 2012, 04:47 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,707
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Cutting

I understand that it stresses you out, but you have to stay calm, for both your health and hers. When she wants to cut, be there for her. Hold her, talk to her, or just sit there with her. Tell her...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction January 12th 2012, 04:18 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,274
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Is this a problem? (Alcohol)

Even though you aren't drinking to get drunk, you want to take a shot or two every now and then.. and then lets say it becomes a daily thing.. and then maybe it becomes more.. People in my school,...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings December 11th 2011, 09:55 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 6,203
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Your most painful piercing/tattoo?

For the actual piercing, the most painful was when I got my inner conch done. Otherwise, my rook definitely topped the pain because it didn't heal right.

My upper back tattoo hurt the most...
Forum: Self Harm September 26th 2011, 02:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,091
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Self-medicating to stop cutting?

Honestly, please do not self medicate. Coming from personal experience, it is the worst thing you could possibly do if you want to get over the urges.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings September 11th 2011, 04:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,725
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: need help deciding on tattoo

Just look at different symbols that have influenced you positively, or even words, and don't get it until that one image/word just really speaks to you. For example, I'm getting the outline of a...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 8th 2011, 06:51 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 4,366
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Do you/Would you only date someone of the same religion (or lack of)?

As long as there isn't some extreme debate every time religion is brought up, I have no religious preference. Many religious people do find fault in my agnostic beliefs, but I'm up to discuss, not to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 5th 2011, 03:25 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,968
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Interracial dating.

Most of my relationships have been 'interracial'. I find nothing wrong with it and I feel as if it just so happened that most of them weren't the same race as me.

I find that it's good to date...
Forum: Self Harm September 1st 2011, 11:54 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,685
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Self harm and cutting

Take a deep breath, and make a list of things that you like to do. Keep this list with you at all times, and just go down the list every time you get an urge. Find an alternative to SH. Or do what I...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings August 16th 2011, 04:04 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 22,479
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Where is the best place to have a tattoo? (on your body)

I'm working on a half sleeve.. which will probably sag.. But I mean.. Hey.. I always look at it this way:

At least it'll be an awesome abstract Salvador Dali-esque piece of art, right?

And on...
Forum: Music August 11th 2011, 05:16 AM
Replies: 360
Views: 12,921
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: What Song Is Stuck In Your Head Right Now?

Bass Down Low - The Cataracs & Dev
Forum: Self Harm August 5th 2011, 05:11 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,755
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: why is cutting bad?

Like the above said, it's bad because you are punishing yourself in a harmful way. And, it not only hurts you, but it hurts people around you. You don't have to believe me, but when you do this to...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings August 3rd 2011, 09:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 7,111
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: do people treat you differently because of your tattoo & piercings?

A lot of people do have a bit of an issue with my tattoos and piercings. I have 8 earrings on my left ear and 5 on my right ear. Both of my first holes are a size 6. And I've been working on a half...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 29th 2011, 04:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,940
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Mtn. Dew Addiction?

All of the sugar and sodium in soda like mountain dew is terrible for you. I'm hooked to coke and mountain dew, and I can honestly say that if I drank water every day instead, I could easily drop...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 29th 2011, 03:40 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 19,807
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Upper Back Tattoo or Neck: Pain?

I got one done on my upper back/lower neck area.. It was a little bit of both. I found that my back was more uncomfortable, only because I have this weird weak spot that makes me twitch a bit. Haha.....
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 24th 2011, 11:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,353
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Want to get a certain Tattoo, but too nervous!

YES. I've been trying to explain the feeling to people for the longest time.. and this finally explains it. It really does.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 5th 2011, 04:01 AM
Replies: 11
Triggering (SH): Tattoo over scars.
Views: 2,930
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Tattoo over scars.

My friend actually just sent me a picture of her new tattoo a few hours ago. She used to SH pretty severely, and she got "Believe in yourself" tattooed on her arm, but the "Be" and "you" were...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 4th 2011, 04:54 PM
Replies: 11
Triggering (SH): Tattoo over scars.
Views: 2,930
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Tattoo over scars.

But if that's what you want, it shouldn't matter what other people think. You know why you have it, you know the story behind it. And I doubt that people would think that you are vain, because it's...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 4th 2011, 02:34 AM
Replies: 11
Triggering (SH): Tattoo over scars.
Views: 2,930
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Tattoo over scars.

^^^ More severe or prominent scars cannot be tattooed over.

But.. I'm working on a half sleeve on my left arm (where I always SHed) and in honour of the butterfly project, I got 6 butterflies...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings June 26th 2011, 01:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,002
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Tattoo as an incentive to stop SH?

See, that was your personal experience and your opinion. I also have butterflies on my arm, over the spot I used to cut. 6, one for each year I struggled. But I still felt it. I still get urges. It's...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings June 23rd 2011, 12:47 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,002
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Tattoo as an incentive to stop SH?

Besides your aunt being inconsiderate given the situation, the tattoo might actually make it worse. Tattoos are addicting too, and the pain from the tattoo might even trigger something. For me,...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity June 10th 2011, 08:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,872
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: LGBT club

When you hold your first meeting, do something so that everyone can get to know each other, even if you already do. I helped start mine 4 years ago, and every new year or when we get a substantial...
Forum: Self Harm May 9th 2011, 02:44 AM
Replies: 20,901
Views: 654,794
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Self harm free!

I'm counting my slip up.. Can't let myself encourage bad behaviour again.. aha

17 days. :nosweat:
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings April 26th 2011, 03:07 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 5,373
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: White Ink tattoo

I wouldn't really recommend white ink.. but..
It's a bit controversial.. and if you don't take care of them the right way for about 3 to 4 months it won't turn out very well.. but you could always...
Forum: Music April 26th 2011, 03:02 AM
Replies: 420
Views: 32,556
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Favorite band/singer/song thread!

Favorite Band: Coheed and Cambria
Favorite Song: Autopsy Song by Otep
Forum: Self Harm April 25th 2011, 12:04 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 42,864
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: hiding cuts in hot weather ?

If they're above your elbow, long sleeves rolled up? It's less obvious, and you could just say it's in case you get a bit chilly later in the day.. Below the elbows is a bit harder. Wristbands work,...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity April 1st 2011, 03:00 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,113
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Why are people using LGBT for their gay relationships/crushes, not 'relationships & dating'?

Sometimes it's easier to understand someone if you're going or have gone through the same thing.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings February 28th 2011, 12:54 AM
Replies: 171
Views: 116,277
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: The Post your Tattoos and Piercings picture thread.

Both of my ears looked like this before I stretched my first 3 holes a bit. ^-^
Forum: Self Harm February 10th 2011, 01:55 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 13,259
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Attention Cutting Vs. Being Open

Sorry Myss... But like you, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Sure it disgusts you, but have you ran into people who do it for attention? Or do it to make friends?
Have you had friends...
Forum: Self Harm February 8th 2011, 01:44 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 13,259
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Attention Cutting Vs. Being Open

A lot of people do it for many different reasons. Stress, anxiety, depression, someone to notice them, a way out. I've even hung out with kids who cut when they're high or drunk just because it lets...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction February 1st 2011, 11:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,046
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: addiction?

I feel that it's a bit of both.

On the grand scale, self harm is a terrible addiction. Once I do it once, I want to go back for more and more, just like an addiction to drugs. But sadly, the...
Forum: Self Harm February 1st 2011, 01:06 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,656
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: I started smoking to quit cutting, and now I quit smoking and started cutting

But this is the exciting part of life. Leaving behind the expected, usual, familiar things and giving new things a try. Cutting and smoking is familiar and close to you, so try something that is not...
Forum: Self Harm January 30th 2011, 11:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,656
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: I started smoking to quit cutting, and now I quit smoking and started cutting

Difficult situations are some of the worst and best. Yes, you may feel the need to smoke or cut, but then again, situations like these can be good to help show yourself that you can be strong and to...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying January 28th 2011, 11:40 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 11,565
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: The Bullying Needs to Stop. (Worth reading)

Great post. This is much needed everywhere.
It's sad that even many school officials bully youth just as much as other students do. I know in my school it is like this, and I'm happy I'm graduating...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions January 21st 2011, 12:55 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,539
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Goal Achieved

Congrats!! =]
That's amazing, and I wish you well. <3
Forum: Self Harm January 15th 2011, 06:17 PM
Replies: 20,901
Views: 654,794
Posted By TheCrowing
Re: Self harm free!

6 months if you don't count my mini slip up.
2 months if you do. <3
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