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Forum: Rape and Abuse January 12th 2015, 03:35 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,709
Posted By Ambiance
Re: I don't know if this was rape but there's something wrong with me

I suppose my gut feeling is that there was a breach of consent when he didn't stop and I am a little upset about that, but not that I got raped, because we were equally intoxicated and I asked if he...
Forum: Rape and Abuse January 12th 2015, 02:04 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,709
Posted By Ambiance
Re: I don't know if this was rape but there's something wrong with me

I'm not really concerned about the legal implications so much as whether I was actually taken advantage of or not. I would never press charges, we're both old enough and it's not like he held me down...
Forum: Rape and Abuse January 10th 2015, 08:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,709
Posted By Ambiance
I don't know if this was rape but there's something wrong with me

EDIT: Shortened so it's read-able.

I was at a party last night and one of my friends from high school was hanging around and chatting me up a lot. We both got really drunk and he put his arm...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 2nd 2014, 06:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,682
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Found Ex on a Dating Site...

Hey there,

I don't know if you are concerned about him being on a dating site or that he was 500 feet away from you. I agree that the latter sounds like the biggest concern.

But the short...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 5th 2014, 09:34 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 8,788
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Naked pics on boyfriend's phone

Just gonna say it.

So, like, the problem I'm seeing it is not really that he is in the "wrong." You asked him, he was honest (we are assuming, though there is absolutely no absolutely when it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 30th 2014, 02:22 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 17,527
Posted By Ambiance
Re: My boyfriend doesn't want to eat me out. Why!?

I'd just like to say on the flipside of this, I hate receiving oral and I always have to deal with guys trying to convince me that they're good at doing it and I just haven't been with someone who...
Forum: Education and Careers March 29th 2014, 06:42 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,822
Posted By Ambiance
updates on college deciding process...

I went to a state university in the south for the first semester of my freshman year, had a mental breakdown, came to California to stay with my sister for a while... I had posted a thread recently...
Forum: Education and Careers March 5th 2014, 05:52 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,866
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Practicality Vs. Happiness? Regarding my location for college.

Thanks for the advice, everyone! Initially I was actually very nervous about all of this, BUT I have done some math and am very happy to announce that attending a community college HERE and just...
Forum: Education and Careers March 4th 2014, 09:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,866
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Practicality Vs. Happiness? Regarding my location for college.

I'm just not sure. I miss school and taking so much time out makes me nervous and the stress over the money is going to be really difficult for me... but at the same time I have more networking...
Forum: Education and Careers March 4th 2014, 03:02 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,850
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Moving most likely and unsure about school.

I know you were probably looking for a more detailed response, but this is all I'm going to say. Getting residency from a college is a bitch, and putting your education off for a boy will lead to...
Forum: Education and Careers March 4th 2014, 02:48 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,866
Posted By Ambiance
Practicality Vs. Happiness? Regarding my location for college.

So, I'm from a small town in the south. Which, as you can imagine, is perfectly miserable for some types of people, which it was for me. So, I did dual credit in high school and then attended a...
Forum: Death, Grieving and Coping With Loss March 2nd 2014, 08:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,599
Posted By Ambiance
Re: How long is enough of a grieving period?

So, strangely enough, I felt that I made some peace with myself last night. I shouldn't have talked to him but I did. He told me that I've been telling him we could be friends and then saying that we...
Forum: Death, Grieving and Coping With Loss February 28th 2014, 05:44 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,599
Posted By Ambiance
Re: How long is enough of a grieving period?

Thank you so much for the advice, everyone. Very solid words of wisdom. :)
It's really difficult still loving someone who messed up so badly, but I'm slowly realizing that I think I imagined parts...
Forum: Death, Grieving and Coping With Loss February 22nd 2014, 11:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,599
Posted By Ambiance
How long is enough of a grieving period?

I got out of a long relationship a few months ago. It was a bad situation and we weren't good for each other. Well, mostly, he wasn't good for me. I wasn't perfect either, though. Anyway:

Question...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 5th 2013, 06:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,973
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Having Second thoughts about Boyfriend

Egh. I've been in the exact same situation. Although, the guy I liked who had a girlfriend ended up being the type that would drink, smoke, party, and hardly talk to me once we started dating. I...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 10th 2013, 12:46 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,664
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Cheating boyfriend.

You don't have to hate him or anything, but he just is not boyfriend material. If he could manage to hurt you in all these different ways once, there is no reason he won't do it again. You have to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 29th 2013, 02:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,643
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Can a guy be in a relationship with you but still love&think about his ex girlfriend?

I think a lot of people, young men particularly, just don't know what they want. I had an ex that would be cold and hot with me about wanting a relationship, basically because he didn't want to be...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 1st 2013, 06:24 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,853
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Depo-Provera injection: Really weird "period"

Oh lord that sounds amazing. I got the shot and it made me bleed for MONTHS until they put me back on the pill. But yeah it will regulate and then eventually you will not get a period anymore.
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 15th 2012, 08:24 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,730
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Boyfriend wants to move in with his best girlfriend.

I actually disagree with each of these; why can't he move in with one of his guy-friends to save money? It's not about trust, it comes down to the fact that it's innappropriate and lots of situations...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 17th 2012, 08:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 843
Posted By Ambiance
Re: I don't want to be the girlfriend that's hung up on her ex.

This is really the best advice I've gotten so far, thank you so much! I've been having thoughts about just being single even before this. I don't know, I made a mistake and got in contact with my ex,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 16th 2012, 09:49 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 843
Posted By Ambiance
I don't want to be the girlfriend that's hung up on her ex.

A quick break down of my current: He's gorgeous, he has Daddy issues and a shitty homelife but he's like nice to everyone and the easiest to get along with, he's really funny, he's really good at...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 14th 2012, 06:02 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,069
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Girlfriend is hurt, Im sorry, And i dont know what to do

Mm, loving a person could mean a lot of different things. Well, actually, only a few, but still more than you would think. And basically, the reason girls usually break up with boys is because they...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 24th 2011, 11:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 58,588
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Infected Cartilage piercing--what to do?

Thanks for all the tips, guys! I didn't know that it was such a mistake to get it done at a place like claire's :/ All the information's appreciated should I decide to get another piercing, however,...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 18th 2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 58,588
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Infected Cartilage piercing--what to do?

Oh geez... it was like thirty bucks or something at claire's. :/ I'm pretty sure it'll have to come out of my own pocket if I have to do that. Could I maybe get it done at wal-mart instead, and just...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 14th 2011, 01:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 58,588
Posted By Ambiance
Infected Cartilage piercing--what to do?

I got it pierced "professionally" about three months ago, I guess. I left the original stud in that whole time, and cleaned it some, but probably not as much as I should have. I've noticed my ear...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 26th 2011, 02:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 840
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Dating and Friends

Keyword-- you're FRIENDSHIPS. You're lovelife shouldn't be implicated by your friends' feelings. They like you, you like someone that sounds pretty great. Tough **** for them, harsh as it may sound,...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 8th 2011, 04:45 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 4,377
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Do you/Would you only date someone of the same religion (or lack of)?

I was actually really surprised when I found out that my boyfriend was religious. It wasn't something that either of us found important enough to bring up early on, oddly enough, and I think I...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 18th 2011, 06:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 61,996
Posted By Ambiance
Re: guys, can you tell when a girl is a virgin?

I've met virgin-hunters before, and a.) It's creepy. they kind of gross me out. One friend claimed that it was because she had NO chance of having any STD's, but that's not even true, you can be born...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy August 10th 2011, 05:00 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,691
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Religion and Birth Control

It sounds like the situations you've been put in by others were so difficult that you're needing some time to realize that it's not the same situation with your current boyfriend.

It sounds like...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy August 7th 2011, 05:31 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,691
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Religion and Birth Control

I think using birth control could only make things better; it would be a worse wrong to bring a child into an unstable environment.
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 2nd 2011, 04:58 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,500
Posted By Ambiance
Re: rape or just sex?

If he was over eighteen, it's statuatory rape. Unless you are at the age of consent where you live.

Was he drunk as well? If he was sober, and you were drunk, I think that would definitely...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare July 29th 2011, 03:59 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,817
Posted By Ambiance
Re: I was raped and and am pregnant should I forgive?

As great as all that therapy and change sounds for him, I don't think he sounds like a positive influence in your child's life.
Forum: Rape and Abuse July 22nd 2011, 03:42 AM
Replies: 18
Poll: Triggering: Was it rape?
Views: 2,620
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Was it rape?

**** anyone who says it was your fault! Like seriously, that's awful. Rape is NEVER the victim's fault. He took advantage of you, rat him out, he deserves it. SOMEONE will listen to you. I don't...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 22nd 2011, 02:54 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 12,593
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Opinion on 16 year old girl dating 20 year old guy

I know it all seems lovely and nice, as does he, but you have to really question what a 20-year-old is doing with a sixteen-year-old. If you were twenty, would you date someone who was sixteen?
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 18th 2011, 02:44 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 12,132
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Dating Younger Women. 23 Male + 18/19 women

My boyfriend and I started dating when I was fourteen, and he was sixteen (there was no sexual activity). Now I'm sixteen, and he's seventeen, but going to turn eighteen this month. I've talked to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 13th 2011, 03:02 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,057
Posted By Ambiance
Re: Dating for a year, we are only friends?

Most of the time he feels blank towards you? Honestly, I would suggest taking a one week break--like not to see other people, just to get some space from each other, think things over, hang out with...
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