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Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction August 31st 2015, 02:27 PM
Replies: 455
Views: 40,273
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How long have you been sober?

Eight and a half weeks?
Forum: Anxiety and Stress August 31st 2015, 01:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,829
Posted By Palmolive
Re: anxiety

I do a lot of mindfulness to help like the body scan etc. I do a lot of breathing exersises too and so mannnny distractions its unreal. I also say cheerleading statements to myself like "I've done...
Forum: Self Harm August 30th 2015, 02:18 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Staying distracted, waiting for crisis team to call after my visit and going to AA soon.
Forum: Self Harm August 30th 2015, 01:31 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Several hours is something, right?
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings August 29th 2015, 10:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,144
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Tattoo or no tattoo?

I have a butterfly with mum written underneath it for the exact same purpose and think its a wonderful idea. This is your body and your choice but remember you have to live with it forever!
Forum: Music August 28th 2015, 08:44 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

This is my fight song,
Take back my life song,
Prove I'm alright song,
My powers turned on,
Starting from now I'll be strong,
I'll play my fight song,
And I don't really care if nobody else...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying August 1st 2015, 08:36 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: Bullied By My Brothers?
Views: 3,869
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Bullied By My Brothers?

Hi there.

I am really sorry that you are going through this. Know none of it is your ault and you don't deserve it, nor have you caused any of what is happening, okay?

I am really glad to hear...
Forum: Rape and Abuse July 31st 2015, 09:27 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,179
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Rape or overreacting?

Hi there.

I definitely think this would count as sexual assault. What your boyfriend did to you was wrong and you shouldn't have had to go through that and I can't even begin to imagine how you...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 29th 2015, 10:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,975
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Tattoo

I have one on my ankle and it wasn't very painful at all. Hope it goes well! :)
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 26th 2015, 10:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,934
Posted By Palmolive
With depression on the way.

These days they seem so long,
So long I wish them gone,
Never did I begin to think,
That depression would ever win,

But the days they seem so dark,
So long and all so hard,
Like misery could...
Forum: Self Harm July 24th 2015, 05:45 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Listening to music and just self soothed with a nice bath.
Forum: Self Harm July 22nd 2015, 08:20 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

One week today.
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 21st 2015, 09:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,448
Posted By Palmolive
Re: My Friend Doesn't Know About My Depression

Hi there.

I guess different people take it differently, but at the end of the day she's your friend and I would hope she'd respect you for telling her the truth and also be sensitive towards the...
Forum: Self Expression July 19th 2015, 01:36 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): empty shell
Views: 746
Posted By Palmolive
Re: empty shell

I like this :)
Forum: Self Harm July 15th 2015, 09:42 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Nearly two days
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 7th 2015, 03:03 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering: Girlfriend cuts
Views: 2,378
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Girlfriend cuts

Hi there,

Firstly, I think it's really great and lovely of you to be wanting to try and support your girlfriend through what she is going through. I know it can be hard on the other person in a...
Forum: Eating Disorders July 4th 2015, 09:19 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (ED): Is this an eating disorder?
Views: 3,141
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Is this an eating disorder?

Hi there.

I can't diagnose you with an eating disorder as we aren't medically trained here but I don't believe you're eating a healthy balanced diet and that's something really important because...
Forum: Depression and Suicide June 27th 2015, 08:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,958
Posted By Palmolive
Depression always wins. (trigsuicide)

As I cut the pain away,
I wish there was a way,
In which I could escape,
This place that I am in,
Where depression always wins,

Never does it go away,
But it always stays with me,
Never do I...
Forum: Self Harm June 27th 2015, 07:39 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

One day just .
Forum: Self Harm June 23rd 2015, 08:52 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Its like eight days.
Forum: Depression and Suicide June 21st 2015, 08:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,072
Posted By Palmolive
Re: my depression

You have friends; you aren't alone and you have us too. Thats one thing Ii wanted to point out first because I know how horrible it can be to feel lonely and to feel like you are on your own. But...
Forum: Self Harm June 21st 2015, 06:11 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I went to the AA meeting
Forum: Music June 15th 2015, 09:08 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I need a wrecking ball
I want the sky to fall
God I feel so small tonight
I need a wrecking ball
I could crash and fall
could it break my walls
and make it right

can I begin again
can I...
Forum: Self Harm June 12th 2015, 09:10 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Oh gosh. I've cried, a lot. Talked my team. Having crisis contact over weekend. Using mindfulness. Distracting. Using Cognitive diffusion and distress tolerance skills.

And thinking of my mum and...
Forum: Music June 11th 2015, 09:51 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Where are we? What the hell is going on?
The dust has only just begun to fall,
Crop circles in the carpet, sinking, feeling.
Spin me 'round again and rub my eyes.
This can't be happening.
When...
Forum: Friends and Family June 10th 2015, 09:34 PM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Grieving): My parents dont understand
Views: 2,228
Posted By Palmolive
Re: My parents dont understand

Were you maybe scared of having a doctors appointment? Either way it's a big deal and maybe your automatic response was to say no. But that doesn't mean that you can't go back to your mum and tell...
Forum: Self Harm June 10th 2015, 10:09 AM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm distracting myself while waiting for the duty worker to call me back.
Forum: Self Harm June 9th 2015, 05:19 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I went for a walk and a run.
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction June 7th 2015, 06:14 PM
Replies: 455
Views: 40,273
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm June 6th 2015, 05:47 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm June 6th 2015, 12:39 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm June 4th 2015, 05:31 AM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

TEN DAYS. :D
Forum: Self Harm June 3rd 2015, 07:46 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Staying downstairs around people and being on here and Tumblr.
Forum: Self Harm June 3rd 2015, 09:08 AM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

I'm pretty sure its NINE days.
Forum: Self Harm June 1st 2015, 10:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,538
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Mental Harm

Its great how long you have been self harm free for. I hope you are proud of yourself for that! Maybe now you need to look into building you confidence and self esteem. That was my thought. Things...
Forum: Self Harm June 1st 2015, 10:21 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Seven whole long days.
Forum: Recovery Stories June 1st 2015, 12:01 PM
Replies: 446
Views: 45,328
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Recovery Support and Achievements!

I had a big meal for my birthday and didn't purge after :D
Forum: Self Harm May 31st 2015, 08:19 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm with family watching tv.
Forum: Books and Literature May 26th 2015, 10:12 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 132,275
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What I'm reading now.

The Hunger Gamesss.
Forum: Games and Things May 26th 2015, 08:23 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 194,873
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you craving?

Cause you gotta have a bowl of coco pops.
Forum: Self Harm May 25th 2015, 04:33 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Seven days.
Forum: Self Harm May 24th 2015, 09:21 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

SIX whole long days!
Forum: Education and Careers May 24th 2015, 07:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 5,875
Posted By Palmolive
Re: scared of the fire alarm at my school

I was always the same and knew a lot of people who were. I hate fire alarms and when ambulances go by with their alarms on etc. Like said I think it's fairly normal and I definitely wouldn't say you...
Forum: Birthdays! May 23rd 2015, 06:30 PM
Replies: 422
Views: 60,446
Posted By Palmolive
Re: When Is Your Birthday?

A week today :)
Forum: Self Harm May 23rd 2015, 04:28 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm going for a bath :-)
Forum: Self Harm May 23rd 2015, 04:13 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Its looking as though it's five days. Who would have thought it!
Forum: Self Harm May 23rd 2015, 11:52 AM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Friends and Family May 22nd 2015, 11:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,547
Posted By Palmolive
Re: my parents found out

I'm sorry you are going thorough a rough time right now but I am so glad you have reached out to us here at Teenhelp. You should be proud of yourself for that!

Parents finding out can be very...
Forum: Self Harm May 22nd 2015, 08:18 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Self soothed with a bath and going to watch a film. Also talking to a friend :)
Forum: Disabilities May 22nd 2015, 08:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 6,904
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Learning disability has stopped me from achieving my full potential.

Hi there,

It sounds like you really try to beat the things that push you down so well done for that! I guess your question is a difficult one because it would all depend on what job you would want...
Forum: Self Harm May 21st 2015, 11:53 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Writing in my journal.
Forum: Goals and Ambitions May 20th 2015, 09:28 PM
Replies: 9,858
Views: 477,073
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Goal of the day!

Update my diary and stay safe overnight.
Forum: Self Harm May 20th 2015, 08:41 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Putting on face masks and on here.
Forum: Self Harm May 20th 2015, 04:21 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

I guess it's nearly two days, but determined to stay safe.
Forum: Self Harm May 19th 2015, 07:26 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,961
Posted By Palmolive
Re: self harm on vacation?

Hi there.

I agree with the above users. This could be a really brilliant opportunity for you to try and stop self harming because while you are away, you will be able to prove to yourself that you...
Forum: Music May 19th 2015, 06:47 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I know you've got a strong heart
It's written in the stars
Behind the castle walls
You've hid your light
But when you let the past go
Your story unfolds
Look out your window
Into the night
...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions May 19th 2015, 06:42 AM
Replies: 9,858
Views: 477,073
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Goal of the day!

Speak to crisis
See CPN
See nurse
Be honest
Stay safe
Stay occupied
Call about volunteer work
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 18th 2015, 09:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,705
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Could I be pregnant?!?

I think the pregnancy test idea is the only way you're going to find out. We can say yes you might be but we can also say no you might no be, so we're not going to be very helpful on answering your...
Forum: Eating Disorders May 18th 2015, 09:18 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,252
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Do I have an eating disorder?

Hi there,

We can't tell you whether you have and Eating Disorder because we're not trained medically to diagnose you as Im sure you know.

However, it does sound like you do have issues...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions May 18th 2015, 08:50 PM
Replies: 9,858
Views: 477,073
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Goal of the day!

HAS to be to stay safe and use my skills.
Forum: Games and Things May 18th 2015, 08:49 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm May 18th 2015, 08:18 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Seen my GP and sat watching TV and being on here.
Forum: Self Harm May 18th 2015, 10:45 AM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm getting ready to meet my social worker.
Forum: Music May 17th 2015, 08:56 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I can't sleep tonight
Wide awake and so confused
Everything's in line
But I am bruised
I need a voice to echo
I need a light to take me home
I kinda need a hero
Is it you?

I never see the...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction May 17th 2015, 07:03 PM
Replies: 455
Views: 40,273
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How long have you been sober?

Roughly, a year and 9-10ish months
Forum: Self Harm May 17th 2015, 06:33 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Under two days.
Forum: Self Harm May 16th 2015, 04:46 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

about 17 hours.
Forum: Music May 16th 2015, 11:04 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

When I need motivation
My one solution is my queen
'Cause she stay strong
Yeah yeah
She is always in my corner
Right there when I want her
All these other girls are tempting
But I'm empty when...
Forum: Music May 15th 2015, 10:41 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Everything happens for a reason.
Forum: Self Harm May 13th 2015, 09:53 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I've come to bed and am going to watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S
Forum: Games and Things May 11th 2015, 10:25 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Cyber bully - the film not the programme.
Forum: Goals and Ambitions May 10th 2015, 09:13 PM
Replies: 9,858
Views: 477,073
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Goal of the day!

Stay safe for the rest of the night.
Forum: Fashion and Style May 7th 2015, 09:31 PM
Replies: 351
Views: 22,514
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What colour nail polish are you wearing? :)

Grey with light blue sparkles on top.
Forum: Education and Careers May 7th 2015, 09:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,574
Posted By Palmolive
Re: scared to go to school because im gay

There is nothing wrong with you and you're normal. Just because you're gay doesn't change anything about who you are or the way you act. You're still you at the end of the day. Did you tell your...
Forum: Self Harm May 7th 2015, 09:01 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm on here. And talking to a friend.
Forum: Education and Careers May 7th 2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,772
Posted By Palmolive
Re: School Rules

Hi there.

I had the same rules when I was at school and honestly, I just got on with it apart from I did sometimes have my nails painted :bleh: but would have to remove it in class when asked....
Forum: Self Harm May 6th 2015, 06:02 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Listening to music and about to watch a film and cook tea.
Forum: Games and Things April 11th 2015, 11:35 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

I am watching The hunger games -catching fire.
Forum: Games and Things March 28th 2015, 10:37 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Its Saturday so Casualty, of course.
Forum: Fashion and Style March 14th 2015, 10:52 PM
Replies: 351
Views: 22,514
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What colour nail polish are you wearing? :)

pink on some and sparkly silver on the others:)
Forum: Self Harm March 11th 2015, 04:31 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

About a week and a half
Forum: Goals and Ambitions March 2nd 2015, 09:41 PM
Replies: 9,858
Views: 477,073
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Goal of the day!

Mine was to go to my college assessment which I have done.

Also:
- pack to go back to the ward tomorrow
-make a video for tumblr
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction March 2nd 2015, 09:28 PM
Replies: 455
Views: 40,273
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How long have you been sober?

Weed: Maybe 1 year and 6 months
Alcohol: Maybe 1 year and four months
Forum: Self Harm March 2nd 2015, 09:21 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Coming up to 24 hours.
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2015, 10:55 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 194,873
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you craving?

Toast with real butter, not the sunflower butter we have in the hospital.
Forum: Anxiety and Stress March 1st 2015, 09:42 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,572
Posted By Palmolive
Re: SOCIAL ANXIETY

Hi there,

I guess it depends on the reason why you're staying at home all day apart from going to school. Do you just stay at home because that's where you wan to be to do the things you want to...
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2015, 09:17 PM
Replies: 1,714
Views: 60,924
Posted By Palmolive
Re: True or False?

Truish.

You like spiders
Forum: Self Harm March 1st 2015, 08:30 PM
Replies: 16
Triggering (SH): Started cutting again :(
Views: 2,584
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Started cutting again :(

Hi there,

I am sorry about the situation with your mum and her family. Have you ever tried to sit down with her and talk about it and how it makes you feel or even maybe you could write her a...
Forum: Self Harm February 28th 2015, 10:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,481
Posted By Palmolive
Re: I need help with self harm

Hi there.

Its really great that you're wanting to stop self harming. It really is. Such an inspiration as well. Be proud of yourself for getting to this point. I think that maybe self harm is...
Forum: Self Harm February 28th 2015, 10:02 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

Sitting with others and surfing the net:)
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction February 13th 2015, 11:50 PM
Replies: 455
Views: 40,273
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm January 30th 2015, 06:14 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

nearly one day.
Forum: Music December 20th 2014, 12:32 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

If we burn, you burn with us.
Forum: Self Harm August 30th 2014, 10:31 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm August 27th 2014, 03:28 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Five whole weeks!
Forum: Anxiety and Stress August 23rd 2014, 10:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,502
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How to calm yourself during an anxiety attack.

Have you tried searching mindfulness exercises online? It might be a good idea. Mindfulness can really help us when we're anxious, especially the breathing techniques. I use one called 7/11 where you...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 23rd 2014, 09:51 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,121
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How did your parents react-when you told them about your Depression?

I never really told mine. They got told things by teachers, doctors and friends and by reading my diaries and blogs. I wish I had sat down with them and spoken about it now. It was hard for them to...
Forum: Friends and Family May 18th 2014, 10:04 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 3,951
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How did you parents react when you self harm?

I can't remember how my parents reacted when they first found out I self harmed. When it got bad and I had to keep going to hospital my dad would be very dramatic saying when is it all going to stop...
Forum: Self Harm January 4th 2014, 01:55 AM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Nearly 24 hours.
Forum: Self Harm July 29th 2013, 07:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,734
Posted By Palmolive
Re: I'm Self-Harm Free almost 2 months now :)

I love to see threads like these. Well done, two months is amazing and you've done so well to get to where you are. Keep on fighting and remember we're always here for you :)
Forum: Self Harm July 26th 2013, 06:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,458
Posted By Palmolive
Re: cutting addictive?for blood or pain?

Hi there,

I'm not going to repeat what has already been said, but the above users are right about how it's addictive and why it's hard to stop self harming. I just wanted you to know that even...
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 25th 2013, 05:16 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,972
Posted By Palmolive
Re: depression and cutting...the outcome

Hi there.

Firstly, be really proud of yourself for reaching out to us here at Teenhelp. I know that in itself can be a really big step for some people and can take a hell of a lot of courage so...
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 25th 2013, 03:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,139
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm and depression free ?

Hi there,

Its sounds like you have come a really long way and I hope that you can realise that and be proud of yourself for it. Coming of medications can be a big and scary thing to do and it...
Forum: Games and Things July 21st 2013, 11:25 AM
Replies: 234
Views: 8,417
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Post the last thing to make you LOL. (Part 2)

Tumblr and my sister <3

http://24.media.tumblr.com/664fb52111a68048ab6ccca7472c0aac/tumblr_mqaa2oUa7x1qdazhfo1_500.gif

yes, that is us. :)
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 15th 2013, 08:27 PM
Replies: 9
Triggering: Alcohol.
Views: 6,367
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Alcohol.

Thanks so much guys. Your replies mean ever so much to me.

My doctor is aware and so is my CPN and the crisis team - They've asked me to start cutting down what I'm drinking. I turned up to...
Forum: Depression and Suicide July 15th 2013, 08:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,326
Posted By Palmolive
Re: why dose depression always take me near night time?

Hi there.

It's true that it isn't uncommon that people who struggle with depression or other mental health problems struggle more at night than any other time. I often think a reason for this is...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 14th 2013, 03:59 PM
Replies: 9
Triggering: Alcohol.
Views: 6,367
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Alcohol.

Thank you for the lovely replied. They really mean a lot to me. I looked at the link you gave me Stacey and it says there's a group in my town (literally two minutes down my road away) every Sunday...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 12th 2013, 09:15 PM
Replies: 9
Triggering: Alcohol.
Views: 6,367
Posted By Palmolive
Alcohol.

Hi.

I used to drink a lot of vodka on a daily basis. I was hallucinating badly and struggling with low mood, urges to self harm and suicidal thoughts and it helped. But I got very drunk in a very...
Forum: Self Harm July 3rd 2013, 02:55 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

About thirteen hours?
Forum: Self Harm July 1st 2013, 09:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,249
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Gradually beating self harm

Things worth having aren't easy to get. Although self harm is hard to beat, you're life without it will be a good thing. Keep fighting for happiness. I'm sorry you've been through a tough time but...
Forum: Games and Things July 1st 2013, 02:04 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things June 30th 2013, 08:09 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Michael Buble - Day off.

I love him so much.
Forum: Games and Things June 30th 2013, 09:57 AM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm June 25th 2013, 08:11 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,308
Posted By Palmolive
Re: using other methods to self harm and escape

Like yourself, when I've attempted to stop self harming, other dangerous behaviours I engaged in would get worse. Smoking, drinking, doing drugs etc. I started doing these things, to replace self...
Forum: Music June 23rd 2013, 11:52 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Spend all your time waiting
for that second chance
for a break that would make it okay
there's always some reason
to feel not good enough
and it's hard at the end of the day
I need some...
Forum: General Health June 22nd 2013, 06:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,234
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Doctor's Appointment.

Hi there.

It sounds like you're going through a tough time and I'm sorry to hear that. It's really brilliant that you're trying to get help thought and that you're wanting to see your doctor and...
Forum: Self Harm June 22nd 2013, 03:31 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,546
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What caused you to have your first self harm episode?

I don't think I remember the actual time I first self harmed. I was about 11/12. A lot was going. Stress of school, having such low confidence and I was pretty distraught about my mum being ill and...
Forum: Games and Things June 15th 2013, 12:01 AM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm June 14th 2013, 11:59 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,908
Posted By Palmolive
Re: why do people self harm?

Everyone self harms for different reasons. A lot of the time I self harm because the physical pain I get from it, stops the emotional pain I feel so in that sense, it helps me. Sometimes, I do it...
Forum: Self Harm June 14th 2013, 11:41 PM
Replies: 31
Triggering (SH): Self-harm habits.
Views: 3,508
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self-harm habits.

Where do you self-harm?
Normally at home in my room or the bathroom. Sometimes in public places. I'm currently an in-patient and I've self harmed in hospital too.

Where do you self-harm (on your...
Forum: Self Harm May 5th 2013, 10:28 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Around two days?
Forum: Self Harm May 1st 2013, 10:13 AM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Maybe eight hours.
Forum: Games and Things April 30th 2013, 02:42 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things April 29th 2013, 11:10 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Veronika decides to die (I watch happy things.)
Forum: Games and Things April 28th 2013, 08:18 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things April 23rd 2013, 10:37 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm April 19th 2013, 12:53 AM
Replies: 3
Triggering (SH): Can't stop cutting
Views: 2,257
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Can't stop cutting

Hi there :-)

I'm glad you've written a thread to us here at Teenhelp. It sounds like you're going through a difficult time so I hope we can manage to help you in some way.

You say you can't...
Forum: Music April 17th 2013, 12:59 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

She is a pyramid
But with him she's just a grain of sand
This love's too strong like mice and men
Squeezing out the life that should be let in

She was a hurricane-cane-cane-cane
But now she's...
Forum: Mental Health April 9th 2013, 10:19 PM
Replies: 372
Views: 40,015
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Do you have a mental illness?

Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (Apparently).
Forum: Loneliness April 9th 2013, 01:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,288
Posted By Palmolive
Re: So Lonely

Personally, when I'm going through a hard time and need someone the most, it's always hardest to ask someone for help (whether that's to talk to, go out, sit with me, what ever). But, you clearly...
Forum: Self Harm April 7th 2013, 09:27 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Maybe a day.
Forum: Music April 7th 2013, 11:18 AM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Never made it as a wise man
I couldn't cut it as a poor man stealing
Tired of living like a blind man
I'm sick of sight without a sense of feeling

And this is how you remind me
This is how you...
Forum: Good Days! April 6th 2013, 07:45 PM
Replies: 1,489
Views: 67,159
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What have you achieved today?

I got out of my pjs for the first time in a week and out of bed for an hour or so for the first time in a week.
Forum: Music April 6th 2013, 05:04 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Dreams are like angels
They keep bad at bay
Love is the light
Scaring darkness away
I'm so in love with you
Make love your goal

The power of love
A force from above
Cleaning my soul
Forum: Music March 29th 2013, 05:31 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

You trembled like you'd seen a ghost
And I gave in
I lack the things you need the most, you said where have you been
You wasted all that sweetness to run and hide
I wonder why
I remind you of...
Forum: Music March 27th 2013, 11:05 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

He drowns in his dreams
An exquisite extreme I know
He’s as damned as he seems
And more heaven than a heart could hold
And if I try to save him
My whole world could cave in
It just ain't right...
Forum: Music March 26th 2013, 10:54 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I hope my smile
can distract you
I hope my fists
can fight for two
So it never has to show
And you’ll never know

I hope my love
can blind you
I hope my arms
Forum: Games and Things March 20th 2013, 12:11 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things March 12th 2013, 10:53 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

999 What's your emergency?

It just reminds me of Lottie :bleh:
Forum: Games and Things March 12th 2013, 05:02 PM
Replies: 234
Views: 8,417
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Post the last thing to make you LOL. (Part 2)

http://data.whicdn.com/images/38005219/tumblr_mah8kl7lmv1qzinieo1_500_large.gif

http://data.whicdn.com/images/46316769/tumblr_mf4v0gKvvR1ra0eafo1_500_large.gif

These two Ellen episodes made...
Forum: Games and Things March 11th 2013, 06:53 PM
Replies: 517
Views: 27,043
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm March 8th 2013, 06:11 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I went to the gym and worked it out for 20 miles.
Forum: Games and Things March 4th 2013, 09:44 PM
Replies: 234
Views: 8,417
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Post the last thing to make you LOL. (Part 2)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjVKYzy4ek8

The orange joke at 1.01 in :dem:

Orange: Knock knock
Fred: Who's there
Orange: Knock knock
Fred: Erm, Who's there
Orange: Knock knock
Fred: Who's...
Forum: Music March 4th 2013, 05:43 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

God knows what is hiding in those weak and drunken hearts
Guess he kissed the girls and made them cry
Those Hard-faced Queens of misadventure
God knows what is hiding in those weak and sunken...
Forum: Games and Things February 24th 2013, 11:07 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Just watched Brain Doctors: Emergency and now I'm watching Brain Doctors: Against the odds.

It's heart breaking.
Forum: Disabilities February 19th 2013, 05:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,157
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Mental health and disability

You can apply for DLA regardless of whether you're in employment. I work 35 hours a week but I get nearly 300 pounds a month but my support worker applied for it for me because at the time I couldn't...
Forum: Disabilities February 19th 2013, 05:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,157
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Mental health and disability

Are you trying to apply for DLA? If not I suggest you try so. Its made a huge difference to my life. I'm now on Middle rate for care and low rate for mobility. If you aren't entitled to the benefits...
Forum: Food and Recipes February 7th 2013, 06:32 PM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

I'm having a salad and quorn wrap.
Forum: Games and Things February 2nd 2013, 09:43 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Casualty. Goodbye Dr.Nick Jordan, love you forever. <3
Forum: Music February 1st 2013, 11:09 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

All along it was a fever
A cold sweat hot-headed believer
I threw my hands in the air and said show me something
He said, if you dare come a little closer

Round and around and around and around...
Forum: Self Harm January 30th 2013, 09:46 PM
Replies: 1,676
Views: 93,158
Posted By Palmolive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm?

I'm spending time with Nick Jordan. :)
Forum: Self Harm January 23rd 2013, 11:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 5,004
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Replacement for cutting?

Hey Lilli.

It's brilliant that you're here asking for different things to do instead of cutting when you have the urges to self harm. I think it's a positive step in the right direction! I hope we...
Forum: Games and Things January 13th 2013, 09:10 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Music January 4th 2013, 10:44 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Days like this I want to drive away
Pack my bags and watch your shadow fade
You chewed me up and spit me out
Like I was poison in your mouth
You took my light, you drained me down
But that was...
Forum: Eating Disorders January 3rd 2013, 05:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,954
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Please support me in recovering from my eating disorder

Hello Jessie. :)

I haven't got very much to reply with but I wanted to reply back to your thread to let you know how brilliant I think it is that you're in recovery and that you've come to us for...
Forum: Games and Things January 2nd 2013, 09:34 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Food and Recipes January 2nd 2013, 09:30 PM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

Quorn "steak" with salaaaad.
Forum: Games and Things January 2nd 2013, 05:45 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 75,550
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Food and Recipes January 1st 2013, 10:57 PM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

I had quorn chicken in a wrap with salad.
Forum: Games and Things January 1st 2013, 06:01 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

http://andrewsidea.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/up4.jpg
Forum: Food and Recipes December 24th 2012, 11:19 PM
Replies: 1,181
Views: 71,405
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Whats for lunch?

Christmas dinner! And me and my sister are cooking it this year. Good luck to the people having to eat it. :dem:
Forum: Games and Things December 24th 2012, 11:16 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

I watched the Christmas special Outnumbered episode!

Now I'm watching The Big Bang theory! :)
Forum: Games and Things December 24th 2012, 06:05 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

I watched Nativity and now I'm watching a Christmas Carol :)
Forum: Self Harm December 24th 2012, 01:44 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

About fourteen hours I think. You're all doing so well, keep fighting. <3
Forum: Games and Things December 24th 2012, 12:17 AM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 194,873
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you craving?

Chips from the chippy please.
Forum: Food and Recipes December 24th 2012, 12:16 AM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

I had a quorn fishless fish pie with pea's. Woo.
Forum: Self Harm December 23rd 2012, 11:42 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

About 20 minutes.
Forum: Music December 22nd 2012, 05:35 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

If happy every after did exist,
I would still be holding you like,
All those fairy tales are full of shit,
One more fucking love song, I'll be sick.
Forum: Music December 22nd 2012, 05:34 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 22,567
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things December 20th 2012, 03:55 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

At work watch the big bang theory.
Forum: Education and Careers December 19th 2012, 06:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,145
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Going back to college ?

You'd be surprised at support available. I don't know everything about your situation so I advise you to go to the open day, talk to the college about any funding and I would also talk to your local...
Forum: Games and Things December 18th 2012, 11:30 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

I went to the cinema to watch The Rise of the Guardians while at work. Loved it!
Forum: Good Days! December 17th 2012, 08:58 AM
Replies: 1,489
Views: 67,159
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What have you achieved today?

I was up for my appointment, well ten minutes late but it was at 9am. That's good going.
Forum: Games and Things December 15th 2012, 08:22 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Casualty.

The car drove in to the lake and the baby is going to die :(
Forum: Games and Things December 13th 2012, 03:25 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things December 2nd 2012, 02:18 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Games and Things December 1st 2012, 10:15 PM
Replies: 5,215
Views: 244,971
Posted By Palmolive
Forum: Self Harm November 30th 2012, 05:18 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Suicide attempt: about five days.
Self harm: nearly eighteen hours.
And drink: A good two days.


You're all doing really well. And its really inspiring to see the fight and strength you all...
Forum: Self Harm November 25th 2012, 05:23 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

about fifteen hours.
Forum: Fashion and Style November 25th 2012, 04:05 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 107,239
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Skinny jeans and a red, blue and white shirt.
Forum: Self Harm November 25th 2012, 02:25 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

about twelve hours.
Forum: Fashion and Style November 24th 2012, 09:24 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 107,239
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you currently wearing?

My pjs :) best time of the day by far :bleh:
Forum: Music November 24th 2012, 09:05 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

So pretty,
So smart,
Such a waste of a young heart,
What a pity,
What a sham,
What's the matter with your man,
Don't you see it's wrong?
Can't you get it right?
Out of site and out of mind.
Forum: Games and Things November 24th 2012, 09:03 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 75,550
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you drinking ?

Still on the water ... wooo.
Forum: Music November 24th 2012, 08:33 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Just close your eyes,
The sun is going down,
You'll be alight no one can hurt you now,
Come morning light and you'll and I will be safe and sound.
Forum: Games and Things November 24th 2012, 08:17 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 194,873
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you craving?

I really want a Starbucks coffee frappe.
Forum: Food and Recipes November 24th 2012, 08:16 PM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

I had quorn chicken with salad in a wrap.
Forum: Fashion and Style November 24th 2012, 04:59 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 107,239
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Grey woolly tights, a long sleeved white top with a navy dress with a big white bow on it. :)
Forum: Music November 24th 2012, 04:45 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

God knows what is hiding in those weak and drunken hearts
Guess he kissed the girls and made them cry
Those Hard-faced Queens of misadventure
God knows what is hiding in those weak and sunken...
Forum: Games and Things November 24th 2012, 04:42 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 75,550
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you drinking ?

A bottle of water :)
Forum: Food and Recipes November 24th 2012, 04:41 PM
Replies: 989
Views: 59,224
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What you're snacking on.

I just had a rosie apple sweetie. :)
Forum: Self Harm November 24th 2012, 04:40 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Maybe seventeen hoursish.
Forum: Music November 23rd 2012, 10:06 PM
Replies: 12,248
Views: 743,423
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

You could be happy and I won't know,
but you weren't happy the day I watched you go.
And all the things that I wish I had not said.

Madness in my head.
Is it too late to remind you how we were?...
Forum: Food and Recipes November 23rd 2012, 10:02 PM
Replies: 5,337
Views: 275,334
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What's for dinner?

I had a jacket potato with salad.
Forum: Games and Things November 23rd 2012, 10:01 PM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 194,873
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you craving?

I reallllly want some iced coffeeeeeee.
Forum: Self Harm November 23rd 2012, 11:15 AM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

About ten hours.
Forum: Why Me? November 22nd 2012, 06:45 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 425,603
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Complaint of the day

The wind is so strong that it kept knocking me over.:(
Forum: Self Harm November 22nd 2012, 06:18 PM
Replies: 21,473
Views: 1,064,112
Posted By Palmolive
Re: Self harm free!

Coming up to a whole seventeen hours.
Forum: Self Harm November 19th 2012, 08:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,134
Posted By Palmolive
Re: 2 years of not cutting about to ruined

Hi there :-)

I'm really glad you've come to us here for some help and support. I know that reaching out can be really hard for some people and I think you've taken a really positive step by doing...
Forum: Games and Things November 16th 2012, 12:42 PM
Replies: 1,990
Views: 75,550
Posted By Palmolive
Re: What are you drinking ?

I just had Iced Coffee and now I have an energy drink.

MUST WAKE UP.
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