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Forum: Relationships and Dating May 14th 2017, 09:18 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,029
Posted By Always *
Re: New Boyfriend

Jordan is right, 9.5 inches is very large but not necessarily at the point where it's necessarily a hormonal thing, if it doesn't keep getting larger throughout the rest of puberty, it might just be...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 14th 2017, 12:54 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,029
Posted By Always *
Re: New Boyfriend

I think when the other person mentioned birth control, they meant the pill. It's not a bad idea actually. Even if you don't have sex for years to come, it's totally legit to use the pill for other...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 12th 2017, 11:17 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,029
Posted By Always *
Re: New Boyfriend

It would definitely be unusual for a guys penis to be that large. Contrary to Angela's response, I don't think it is every girls fantasy for a guy to have literally the hugest penis possible, even in...
Forum: Education and Careers May 1st 2017, 10:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,054
Posted By Always *
Re: Customers at work make me feel worse

I've had several jobs, some retail/customer service/waitressing typed stuff and some not. Honestly, I despised every last retail typed job I've ever had. I was happier when I was unemployed for...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 15th 2017, 05:47 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: Daily workout while on period
Views: 8,990
Posted By Always *
Re: Daily workout while on period

I've never stopped doing my usual workouts when I am on my period. In my opinion, unless you're one of those people who get really debilitating cramps or something, there is no reason to change your...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 14th 2017, 12:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,741
Posted By Always *
Re: Sex crazy boyfriend

I think if your boyfriend won't respect your boundaries, you need to walk away in those situations. You need to make it clear that his behaviour and persistence in wanting to have sex all the time...
Forum: Self Harm March 13th 2017, 11:16 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,906
Posted By Always *
Re: School, Suicide & Self Harm

i think you can have suicidal ideation without actually planning to go through with it. I think that that still makes it unhealthy and dangerous because even if you never plan to do it, it's still...
Forum: Education and Careers March 13th 2017, 11:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,670
Posted By Always *
Re: Lunches for work

I usually make enough food for dinner to have enough left for lunch the next day. It actually drives me completely crazy when people bitch about eating "leftovers" but can't be bothered to make a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 8th 2017, 11:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,112
Posted By Always *
Re: boyfriend wants to eat me out

Being "eaten out" is literally the grossest 2 words to me. I think it stems from hearing guys just talking about it in really vulgar ways. Any ways. I refuse to use those words because it actually...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress February 26th 2017, 05:19 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering: Anxiety Support
Views: 3,542
Posted By Always *
Re: Anxiety Support

Hey, so I see a lot has already been covered, so I won't reiterate it; it sound like you have some good self care stuff going on and I hope you will continue to do things that make you feel good...
Forum: Self Expression December 17th 2016, 06:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,641
Posted By Always *
Re: adult coloring books yeah or nah?

I like the adult colouring books. I have 3. I need to use them more. I've been thinking about painting some of mine.

It's obviously not "real" art therapy because I think that art therapy needs...
Forum: Friends and Family December 1st 2016, 12:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,219
Posted By Always *
Re: Friend's parents

It's really bizarre, but I am actually going through the same thing with one of my friends - I am assuming we don't secretly know the same person because you're profile says you're only 16 and I'd be...
Forum: Friends and Family November 22nd 2016, 04:05 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,937
Posted By Always *
Re: Work and Parents

Update your resume and start applying for new jobs. Not only with that (ideally) placate any (reasonable) parent but it is also the responsible "adult" thing to do - if you didn't have your parents...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 15th 2016, 01:27 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,494
Posted By Always *
Re: Boyfriend's drunken stepdad wanted sex, wife in denial, I feel so alone

That's really bizarre that she's not at least panicking. I'm so sorry. She might just be in denial - imagine being married to a guy and finding out he's actually a scum bag - but that's still wrong...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 14th 2016, 11:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,494
Posted By Always *
Re: Boyfriend's drunken stepdad wanted sex, wife in denial, I feel so alone

I'm so so sorry that this happened to you. That must have bee very so scary. And while I can empathize with your boyfriends moms reaction (imagine finding that out!) I'm sorry that her somewhat...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 14th 2016, 11:43 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend is abusive
Views: 1,564
Posted By Always *
Re: My boyfriend is abusive

I'm glad to hear you are finally broken up.
Please feel free to reach out if you need more help and please make sure you tell someone IRL if he's bothering you now that you've ended it, your safety...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 14th 2016, 07:02 PM
Replies: 7
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend is abusive
Views: 1,564
Posted By Always *
Re: My boyfriend is abusive

I'm so very sorry that this is happening to you. It's not ok. You deserve better!
if you've already tried to end it, and he's not "letting" you end it, I think you need to reach out for help. I...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity November 10th 2016, 07:29 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,838
Posted By Always *
Re: Why am I shamed for being proud of my "straightness" by the LGBT community?

I agree a lot with everyone else. Of course, if people are being rude to you because you're straight, then that's just not ok. It's ok to be comfortable with who you are and no one should get to tell...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 10th 2016, 12:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,060
Posted By Always *
Re: i caught my boyfriend having nudes of his exs

I sorry he lied and, I mean, in his defence at least he immediately told you the truth.

I don't know what is normal or not normal in other relationships, but it sounds like your boyfriend is...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress November 8th 2016, 02:24 AM
Replies: 2
Triggering (Suicide): Severe anxiety about cancer
Views: 2,687
Posted By Always *
Severe anxiety about cancer

My grandfather recently died because of cancer and now a friend of mine has cancer. In both cases I've gotten extremely fearful of getting cancer too. I'm so scared of getting breast cancer. I am...
Forum: Education and Careers November 7th 2016, 07:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,031
Posted By Always *
Re: How to get through college without caffeine?

Does your school have any accessible learning services? They might be good people to consult if you have diagnosed / known medical problems that are affecting your school. They can help you to adapt...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction November 7th 2016, 07:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,531
Posted By Always *
Re: Alcohol Poisoning

I'm sorry things aren't going well since going back to school.
I doubt it's true your mom only cares about your grades. She's probably just hoping that one awful night won't affect your entire...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction November 5th 2016, 03:44 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 5,819
Posted By Always *
Re: My internet addiction is ruining my life

Is the internet your real problem? Or are there other problems in your life, such as having a lot of anxiety about school or the future, domestic abuse problems at home, depression etc., that you use...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 4th 2016, 05:29 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,526
Posted By Always *
Re: Ex is dating someone I have always disliked

I'm sorry your ex is dating someone you don't like. I hated the girl my ex started dating too, she was totally crazy and really bitchy and the kind of person who'd jump and beat up someone she didn't...
Forum: Disabilities October 24th 2016, 09:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 6,178
Posted By Always *
Re: Can insecurity be a disability?

Insecurity can be a product of depression or anxiety, which are both mental illnesses and can be classified as a disability. If it is affecting your life, then I think it is legit and real and...
Forum: Film and Television October 23rd 2016, 04:18 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 6,764
Posted By Always *
Re: Tv shows set in high school

One Tree Hill has to be one of the worst for this. Lucas's mom/uncle Keith seem to be the only parental figures around who actually bother with any parenting. All the other parents are never there or...
Forum: Education and Careers October 20th 2016, 03:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,044
Posted By Always *
Re: Is it weird/uncommon for someone to start school a year late?

In college or university, it's totally normal, I know that much. A lot of people don't start university at 18 or they might have changed majors or need an elective (e.g. a 2nd year elective but being...
Forum: Self Harm October 20th 2016, 03:05 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,554
Posted By Always *
Re: How do teachers react to self harm?

I can totally respect why you don't want your parents to know about it, especially if your parents are in some way contributing to the problem.

However, as said, teachers and guidance counsellors...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress October 19th 2016, 01:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,340
Posted By Always *
Re: Severe Anxiety?

I agree with Jessica. I'm sure your parents are lovely people. But because of my own problems with anxiety and depression, I've had to learn pretty quick that parents are imperfect. Sometimes even...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 16th 2016, 03:42 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,775
Posted By Always *
Re: Irregular Period

Well, as you said yourself, literally anything can throw off your period, and it could be something as completely random as you're diet or exercise patterns changing to something more serious, which...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 15th 2016, 02:05 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,639
Posted By Always *
Re: 16, Never had a boyfriend

No there's nothing wrong with it. It was unkind of your friend to throw that in your face as an attack instead of maturely telling you that you said X and it upset her. That's just poor conflict...
Forum: Film and Television October 15th 2016, 12:06 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 6,764
Posted By Always *
Re: Tv shows set in high school

Kate, you're totally right, I defs noticed it as I got older. When I was like 16/17 I was like "ok, teenagers don't act like this" and now I'm like urghhh the people act my age lol. But it's not even...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 14th 2016, 11:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,570
Posted By Always *
Re: A Good Friend [16F] Wants To "Have Fun" With Me [15m], But She Is Pregnant

Whatever you do, use a comdom. Obviously if she's already pregnant, you can't make things worse in that area, but unless you've both been tested for STI's and are confident that you're both...
Forum: Film and Television October 11th 2016, 11:28 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 6,764
Posted By Always *
Tv shows set in high school

I have thought this for a long time but one thing I have noticed is that kids in high school tv shows do not act like kids. In some shows they do act like kids - at least sometimes - such as in Glee...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 8th 2016, 03:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,649
Posted By Always *
Re: Advice for a Jewish male dating a Christian?

I think it entirely depends on a number of things.

For example how devout are you two? Does he eat pork (or not), attend synagogue all the time, and celebrate holidays, and do you do the same for...
Forum: General Health October 7th 2016, 11:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,675
Posted By Always *
Re: Medication causes excessive tiredness.

Having your medication decreased and feeling tired from it could actually be a symptom of withdrawal, and not of the medications expected response. It's not a full withdrawal cause you still take it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 28th 2016, 01:36 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,067
Posted By Always *
Re: I'm a high school senior but have never had a boyfriend

I know tons of people who made it into their 20's without having a relationship and it often wasn't because they didn't want it. I'm 25 and I speak to other humans. So I'd know that this happens. One...
Forum: Friends and Family September 26th 2016, 04:31 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,646
Posted By Always *
Re: Does it ever feel like we need to just leave out parents alone?

I mean, yeah. My parent work in jobs where there is a high degree of confidentiality. Health care, patients, enough said.. So I'm not allowed to ask them about their jobs. If they were having a bad...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction September 23rd 2016, 01:25 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,731
Posted By Always *
Re: Is drugs really that bad?

Drugs are really bad, but not all drugs are created equally.

Raising the alcohol age to 25 would be ridiculous for starters - most countries allow people to drink by 18 or 19 because younger can...
Forum: Loneliness September 23rd 2016, 01:03 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,063
Posted By Always *
Re: Depressed suicidal Existential lonely crying need a friend

Hey sorry to hear you're struggling. I am not sure if I have any quotes that I think are great, I would click on the link that Three Blind Mice sent you.

About whether it's "bad" that you cut....
Forum: Friends and Family September 9th 2016, 11:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,738
Posted By Always *
Re: Meeting his parents....

I agree with Brittany; it's pretty nerve wracking meeting the parents the first time.
The best thing to do is to dress on the nicer side, whatever that means for you, and be polite. Also, be...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 1st 2016, 01:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,934
Posted By Always *
Re: 6 days late with a negative test. Could I still be pregnant?

Traci, I actually heard different. I heard that sometimes pre-cum can have trace amounts of sperm but that if a man has sperm in his precum, this will always be the case, and that if a man doesn't...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress August 24th 2016, 08:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,402
Posted By Always *
Re: Social anxiety

Maybe if you try building up. Like I have a really hard time speaking in front of a group, but if you can find a chance to talk to someone one-on-one before or after the book club, that might make it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 11th 2016, 07:42 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,104
Posted By Always *
Re: Girlfriend got pregnant despite condoms?

As Kindred stated, things such as morning sickness don't usually start so soon into a pregnancy, typically around week 6 as far as I know. Typically, the first indicator that a woman has to suggest...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 7th 2016, 08:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,284
Posted By Always *
Re: Would you be willing to wait until after school for sex?

I think that your approach sounds quite reasonable; you want to wait to have sex until you're no longer in high school because, let's face it, adults (even if they're only 18 as of 2 months ago) have...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 27th 2016, 11:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,628
Posted By Always *
Re: I get jealous of my boyfriend. How can I get over this?

The best way to "get over" being shy and awkward in social situations is to, well, be in social situations. I know plenty of people who are still shy in social situations but they're able to go...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 26th 2016, 03:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,628
Posted By Always *
Re: I get jealous of my boyfriend. How can I get over this?

I think Lizzie has already touched on a important point (one of many I agree with here actually): Do you ever hang out with his friends? I know that might feel weird and, right now, might seem like...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 13th 2016, 06:27 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,972
Posted By Always *
Re: URGENT! Could I br pregnant?

Your period could be late due to stress or something else. There is only a slim chance your pregnant. You can always get a pregnancy test if your worried. But I'd wait until your period is 2 weeks...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 9th 2016, 06:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,597
Posted By Always *
Re: What are your thoughts on Hs/college relationships?

Most high school relationships won't survive. Like it's going really well if you date a guy / girl / human longer than 3 months. But some last for years - 2 friends of mine (4 total) even married...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 1st 2016, 01:11 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,049
Posted By Always *
Re: Why won't I hit puberty ?????

First, I don't think your a girl with a boys penis. Second, 13 or 14 is not that late for puberty. For example, women can get their periods between 10 and 16 and have that be considered totally...
Forum: Education and Careers May 29th 2016, 07:39 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,881
Posted By Always *
Re: Share your stories from work?

My issues come from coworkers not from customers. Yes, sometimes I have creepy men hit on me (which is really uncomfortable) and sometimes a customer is rude or angry for no reason, but that's easy...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 15th 2016, 12:40 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,850
Posted By Always *
Re: Dating advice

You're case sounds pretty typical of people our age (being a fellow early-20's person myself).

Bars are definitely not the place to try to meet women. Trust me, been there done that; from my end,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 6th 2016, 12:25 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,763
Posted By Always *
Re: Period on birth control when I shouldn't be having one.

It's probably because you forgot to take a week off. This happened to me to.

Theoretically, if you skip the week off, your body should just skip it's period until the end of the next cycle, but I...
Forum: Education and Careers May 2nd 2016, 11:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,950
Posted By Always *
Re: "Bullies" at work

Thanks guys :) I appreciate your input

And yeah, Suesie, like you, I got bullied in high school (and elementary too..). Not the best. I kind of expected better from grown ass adults, only to...
Forum: Friends and Family April 30th 2016, 04:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,794
Posted By Always *
Re: So my parents are very strict...

I don't think that there is a way to fake it. It's linked to a GPS and Apple (nor any other company) would make it fake-able because of how that could be used for criminal reasons.

Why don't you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 30th 2016, 04:16 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: I skipped my period
Views: 1,783
Posted By Always *
Re: I skipped my period

Mid- to late- month is actually kind of not specific for your period. Let me elaborate, let's say you expect your period to be in the last half of the month (over a specific week maybe?), but your...
Forum: Education and Careers April 30th 2016, 04:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,950
Posted By Always *
"Bullies" at work

Ok don't get me wrong, I am not "normal"; I'm quirky, chatty, and can possibly come across as spacey, but I'm overall friendly and work hard and all that.

But like for whatever reason, I feel...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 22nd 2016, 10:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,638
Posted By Always *
Re: Crushes at Work

There is a difference between having a crush and genuine feelings that trump the feelings you have for your boyfriend. Also, you shouldn't act on the crush feelings, because if you love your...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress April 21st 2016, 12:05 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,521
Posted By Always *
Re: Guilt anxiety

Moving to Canada would be no different than if you moved to the other side of the USA. It just seems like it'll be a bigger deal because of the whole different country / border control stuff, but...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 4th 2016, 11:01 PM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: Delayed period
Views: 1,764
Posted By Always *
Re: Delayed period

You're probably only regretting it because you're scared. Having sex at 15 is young but it's not too young, like you're not 12-13 (which is definitely too young). You didn't do anything wrong, but of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 27th 2016, 03:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,737
Posted By Always *
Re: How does virginity work for bisexuals?

I think that virginity is super complex. Traditionally, it's always been about penetrative penis-vagina sex, but realistically I think even before people start to be more open minded about...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 23rd 2016, 12:12 AM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: really painful period cramps.
Views: 1,761
Posted By Always *
Re: really painful period cramps.

There is a special "lady business" pill. I don't know what it's called but it helps with cramps and stuff and you can likely find it in the pain-relief section (or somewhere close by) at the drug...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 20th 2016, 06:54 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: really painful period cramps.
Views: 1,761
Posted By Always *
Re: really painful period cramps.

It could be a sign of something new. Like I said, I'd talk to a doctor if I were you, thats doubly true if it isn't normal for you. It could be a cyst or something.
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 20th 2016, 04:56 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: really painful period cramps.
Views: 1,761
Posted By Always *
Re: really painful period cramps.

One of my good friends would get cramps so severe that she would be unable to go to school. It's not unheard of. That said, the root cause can be because of numerous things. For some people, they're...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 16th 2016, 09:30 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,146
Posted By Always *
Re: What to do if you become pregnant

In addition to making sure you're really pregnant, and how you can actually get pregnant (like that without penetration it's extremely unlikely seems to be a big one), I would like to add that it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 8th 2016, 07:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 5,824
Posted By Always *
Re: I'm 15 in May but I want to live with my 16 year old boyfriend

You're only 14, so the change of that happening are super slim, especially if the only basis is that your mom doesn't approve of him. And to be perfectly honest, I don't know if I blame her if he's...
Forum: Education and Careers March 3rd 2016, 07:48 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,682
Posted By Always *
Re: SCHOOL COUNSELLOR

I'm sure it'll be ok. Your counsellor must know something is going on and probably just wants to check in with you and make sure you're ok. Just be honest and speak up if your confused or not...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 25th 2016, 06:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,999
Posted By Always *
Re: Why are girls in high school so shallow?

High school sucks for a lot of people but generalizing and complaining that hot girls don't want you is unfair. You should work on yourself first. Plus, high school can feel like one big popularity...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 22nd 2016, 01:32 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,057
Posted By Always *
Re: late period/could i be pregnant?

Like Everly said, the only way to be sure is if you get a pregnancy test.

Pregnancy tests are the most effective after 2 weeks / 14 days (it's be 18 days, so you'll get a reasonably accurate...
Forum: Education and Careers February 22nd 2016, 01:18 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,777
Posted By Always *
Re: College students/freshman, in television shows set in highschool, do you still find a way to relate to the series?

I've been out of high school for ages and still love those TV shows.

For one, I find that these "teenagers" don't have real teenager problems. Take a show like Gossip Girl for example (which I've...
Forum: Eating Disorders February 20th 2016, 08:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,621
Posted By Always *
Re: Does this qualify as an eating disorder?

Bare in mind that I'm not a medical professional so I can't be the one to say for sure, but I would be happy to share my own insight to what you described to hopefully help you out (mini disclaimer...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 17th 2016, 02:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,202
Posted By Always *
Re: Does the presence of body fat and male breasts , scare women away when dating?

Like everyone has mentioned so far, size is all about personal preference. Personally, excess weight doesn't scare me, but I also find it very off putting (like 10 lbs maybe, but actually overweight,...
Forum: Education and Careers February 14th 2016, 01:11 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,012
Posted By Always *
Re: Is the college experience true/legitimate adulthood?

I would say yes. Even if you rely on family for money and don't work, if you're like me, you have to make adult decisions by virtue of living in your own no-parent home and make your own decisions....
Forum: Friends and Family February 8th 2016, 05:01 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,881
Posted By Always *
Re: My Parents Are Trying To Get Rid Of My Friends

I won't repeat what Cassado just said, so I'll skip to one of the other things I wanted to touch on. I think something else worth doing is finding a way to contact your friend - borrow a phone at...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 30th 2016, 08:21 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,332
Posted By Always *
Re: could my gf be pregnant? PLZ HELP ME

Take a deep breath and be assured that she is almost definitely not pregnant because the chances of that would be so slim.

If you maybe touched the tip of your penis, which maybe had pre cum on it...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 28th 2016, 02:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,461
Posted By Always *
Re: Pregnant teen

If you think that you are pregnant, you have to get a pregnancy test. You can get them at a pharmacy for not too much money (it seems to average out at $7 to $15). If you can't afford it, you can go...
Forum: Education and Careers January 22nd 2016, 06:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,000
Posted By Always *
Re: Failed High school !! Help please

As suggested, you can get your GED, that shouldn't be a problem. I know that in my country, after you're 19 (e.g. once you're 20) you're considered a mature student and can apply to university as...
Forum: Education and Careers January 22nd 2016, 06:36 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,121
Posted By Always *
Re: If you're a highschool senior and you've gotten acceptances from college, can you say that you're practically done with highschool?

No, you can't say you're done high school. I can practically guarantee that if you take that attitude and let your grades slide, then you will lose your offers to attend university at what ever...
Forum: Education and Careers January 22nd 2016, 12:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,891
Posted By Always *
Re: 3hr distance between friends, will it work?

Like Alyssa said, it largely depends on you guys. Often, when people go to university they either drift away from high school friends, stay kind of the same, or get closer. It really shows you who...
Forum: Friends and Family January 12th 2016, 09:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,055
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Re: Is it wrong of my parents to not let me hang out with my friends while they aren't home?

Is it wrong? No, not on a fundamental level. Is it bizarrely overprotective? Yes, especially considering you are 20. I mean, it'd be a whole other story if you were like 9 or 10, but then they...
Forum: Education and Careers January 11th 2016, 01:58 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,885
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Re: Cant Study for College

I have/had anxiety problems in university and what helped was taking fewer courses because if I got held up with something or if anxiety related problems slowed me down, it helped me to know it...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 5th 2016, 07:15 PM
Replies: 2
Female Advice Preferred: one day period???
Views: 1,787
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Re: one day period???

Well, it does sound like he scratched you if nothing else. You could have been scratched and had your period. It's not unusual to have short periods, especially when you are young. If you otherwise...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 29th 2015, 03:19 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,397
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Re: My Girlfriend bit my knob off whilst i was playing need for speed

I honestly have no idea what this means, but seriously, if your physically body needs stitches anywhere, then you need to see a doctor!!! Doing it yourself will be incredibly dangerous and likely...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 27th 2015, 10:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,796
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Re: Boyfriend got me an expensive gift for Christmas...help!

Don't buy him anything else, simple as that. It wouldn't be right; you got him something that was thoughtful and, presumably, within your price range. I am assuming that he also did the same. It's...
Forum: Eating Disorders December 26th 2015, 07:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,683
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Re: Do I have an eating disorder?

I am glad to hear that since posting this, you have spoken to a friend and that this has proven to be helpful. I can't say for sure if you have an eating disorder, but what you have described is...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 24th 2015, 06:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,804
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Re: Boyfriend doesn't understand

Honestly, he might mean well, but it sounds like his attempts to "try to help" are actually really destructive and harmful to you, such as him becoming upset and saying you're going to kill yourself...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 11th 2015, 09:40 PM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: Period confusion?
Views: 1,789
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Re: Period confusion?

I know you do not believe you're pregnant, but accidents can happen even with birth control, so given that it's been about 5 weeks since you're last period and this unusual dark blood symptom, along...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 8th 2015, 02:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,675
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Re: Got a boyfriend that i don't like

I dated a guy for 3 days one time. Just know you're doing better then that and it'll be ok. Loads of people only date for under the 3 month mark and there is nothing wrong with deciding he's not the...
Forum: Depression and Suicide December 1st 2015, 08:53 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,987
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Depression is starting to squash me

Depression isn't my "real" problem; by "real" I mean the diagnosable one. I do have generalized anxiety, but lately I have been getting really depressed. I have been trying for months to find a job...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 16th 2015, 11:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,303
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Re: Late on period, in urgent need of opinions/advices.

It sounds like your sick (migraines, flu, something like that). The chances of you being pregnant are so slim that it'd be a miracle if you were. Sickness can also cause the delay in period. You...
Forum: Education and Careers November 13th 2015, 12:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,086
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Re: Getting started before college

You can also find out if your high school offers any distance courses for students who want to learn something that your high school doesn't offer or you can see if your library or local community...
Forum: Friends and Family November 12th 2015, 04:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,082
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Re: Weight Loss and Parents finding out

I wondered the same as Laura: why are you trying to hide your weight loss? If you've lost enough that people like your parents would be concerned about you, then they have that right to be concerned....
Forum: Anxiety and Stress November 12th 2015, 04:07 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,775
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Re: I need help with my ex girlfriend im so confused and im having extreme anxiety!

Why on earth would you talk to her mom or any other such thing?

I have read most of your posts by now where your ex has made it clear that she
- doesn't want a relationship right now
- wants...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 12th 2015, 03:56 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,503
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Re: I think I may be pregnant at 15.

I agree with Nicole and Traci, if you're going to have sex then you really need to be responsible about it. If you're having sex without protection then it is just a matter of time until you get...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 10th 2015, 12:34 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,193
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Re: How to choose a wedding dresses with pregnant?

David's is good. My friend got stuff for her wedding from there.
Forum: Friends and Family November 10th 2015, 12:33 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,623
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Re: Feeling bullied by my parents

Your parents sound abusive; you mentioned them belittling you, making you feel worthless, and even physically abusing you, which isn't ok. You do not deserve that.

Is there somewhere safe you can...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 31st 2015, 01:05 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,329
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Re: HELP! I might be pregnant!

It can take a few cycles for your period and other stuff to regulate when you are using birth control. I would try it again and maybe try using a different brand/type - they all have different...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 30th 2015, 09:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,459
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Re: Pregnant? Please help!

Don't worry, no one will lecture you for having sex here. You used condoms, and even if you hadn't, all we'd do is recommend that you use condoms or another type of birth control in the future. Many...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 30th 2015, 04:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,329
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Re: HELP! I might be pregnant!

The hormone levels in your urimevtypically are not high enough to register a pregnancy until 2 weeks after conception. That's why you might have a negative test. If you take a second test, make sure...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress October 29th 2015, 07:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,316
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Re: Is Zoloft the best medicine for Anxiety?

Sorry to hear your struggling. If you're finding that you are having side affects from the medication, I would recommend you talk to your GP and she/he can get you onto a different drug if there...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity October 23rd 2015, 04:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,567
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Re: Questions for Trans Teenhelpers

Like Dez, I'm not trans, but I know many trans people and feel like I can shed some light on the topic for you

1) Pronouns and names
I find it is best to ask the person. It might feel weird, but...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 8th 2015, 03:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,779
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Re: girlfriend not ready for more sexual things

Rest assured, just because your friends are hooking up with girls (or boys) for a one time "fling", shall we call it, doesn't mean that you need to be doing more "advanced" sexual stuff with your...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions October 6th 2015, 02:50 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,183
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Re: What is your career goal ?

Marketing and public relations is my goal. I have a specific focus on research and marketing analytics (like reporting on how a product or fundraiser did). If I had to, I can fall back onto my...
Forum: Education and Careers September 30th 2015, 01:39 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,785
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Re: Having a hard time making friends in college

It can be hard to make close friends in university, especially at first. Don't let this discourage you because it sounds like people are talking to you and being friendly. You just need to take it to...
Forum: Friends and Family September 28th 2015, 02:02 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,824
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Re: Arguing with parents

I totally understand what you're going through. I had similar problems with my dad. The truth was that he provoked me and would take out his bad mood on me, but if I stepped up to the challenge I was...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 24th 2015, 02:07 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,537
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Re: 9 days late.. Am I pregnant?

If you had unprotected sex, there is a chance that you're pregnant. Pre-cum can have some soerm in it regardless of whether you've ejactulated that same day. Since you had unprotected sex twice,...
Forum: Education and Careers September 2nd 2015, 12:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,878
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Re: Coming out to my school?

You could always address it to your teacher first in the assignment via writing. Just write in your assignment that "hi i am name, I am x years old and I am trans gendered." You could always tell a...
Forum: Friends and Family August 19th 2015, 02:30 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,620
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Re: Can parents stop a child from getting clothing in a certain size?

I am sorry your parents are taking this approach. I could understand if they just wanted you to get clothes that fit instead of clothes that are too big or too small, but the strange focus on a...
Forum: Friends and Family July 27th 2015, 04:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,547
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Re: Sex in parents bed. Please help

Well, what's done is done. Has your dad said anything about it? If not, maybe he won't. It might be to awkward of a conversation for him to be like "yo, child of mine, why are you having sex in my...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 20th 2015, 03:57 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,998
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Re: Is it easier to just not date in High School?

I have mixed feelings about dating in high school... Considering how often it fucks up, I'm inclined to say no, it's not worth it cause either you're spending 4 years being upset cause you can't get...
Forum: Friends and Family July 15th 2015, 09:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,762
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Re: Still living with my parents

Like Ellie said, living with your parents into your 20's is far more common than many people realize. I have a number of friends who lived at home far longer than others, such as myself (I was out a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 14th 2015, 09:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,670
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Re: Boyfriend think family first?

It's not childish to feel upset by a situation you don't like. I am happy you worked things out.
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 13th 2015, 06:28 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,670
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Re: Boyfriend think family first?

It totally sucks that you don't really get to spend a lot of time with him, but shutting him out isn't going to fix that. He probably isn't intentionally spending less time with you. Like Estelle...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 13th 2015, 06:09 PM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: When will I get my period?
Views: 1,892
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Re: When will I get my period?

Most of your friends have their periods? That's actually so weird to me. I got my period when I was 10 (but my 11th birthday was legit 1-2 months afterwards) and I always considered myself an early...
Forum: Eating Disorders July 7th 2015, 01:30 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (ED): Is this an eating disorder?
Views: 2,707
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Re: Is this an eating disorder?

Like the others said, we can't diagnose you, but it doesn't sound like what you're currently doing is very healthy. The body is a complex thing too and it has a tendency to cling onto any excess...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 6th 2015, 07:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,966
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Re: Online dating app time wasters

Girls don't just "string you along" for "fun", I mean, some girls might but most won't - it's just like a lot of guys will play games or use girls, it's stupid and immature, but most people aren't...
Forum: Education and Careers July 2nd 2015, 08:52 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,901
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Re: is college/university to expensive?

My circumstances are different because my parents both have high paying jobs, so they were able to cover the costs that my brother and I incurred while in university without it impacting their own...
Forum: Education and Careers July 1st 2015, 06:19 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,715
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Re: Screwed over at work

What are the planning to do about it? If you were $50 off, and you let them know it must have been a mistake because you counted and double checked, then what's the big deal? If this isn't a...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress June 14th 2015, 10:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,179
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Re: How to describe anxiety to someone who doesn't have it?

I think how you describe your anxiety changes from person to person. I have generalized anxiety disorder, and for me it feels like a constant state of tension in my chest. I'll get irritated and...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 14th 2015, 09:49 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,249
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Re: Online dating

Hey, so I know that I already responded but I'd just like to add that I think it is a great idea to try online dating, plus if you are sort of unsure and you want to list only the same gender (or...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 8th 2015, 01:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,480
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Re: Boyfriend said he feels like a therapist or caregiver sometimes?

I've experienced this from the other side with one or two friends, both of whom had significant mental health problems and their personal/social lives fueled it. I can totally understand how your...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 5th 2015, 09:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,421
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Re: I'm pregnant..now what ?!!

You can get prenatal vitamins over the counter at many grocery stores and pharmacies. Taking them even if you aren't pregnant is not harmful, I know this because I have seen/heard multiple times that...
Forum: Education and Careers June 5th 2015, 09:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,873
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Re: Applying to grad school

I haven't gotten in, but I've done enough research that I may know the answer to some of your questions.
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 5th 2015, 09:02 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,249
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Re: Online dating

As long as you're honest about what you're looking for, I'd say go for it. Online dating is a great way to get yourself out there.
Forum: Anxiety and Stress June 5th 2015, 08:58 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,330
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Re: Ways to manage anxiety

I find that when I have a massive workload, that it helps to write out when everything needs to be done and then making a list of individual tasks to complete each thing. If you break down the work...
Forum: Education and Careers June 1st 2015, 12:38 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,189
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How to answer why I want to work as a barista despite my obvious training for another field

Ok, I am trained to be in marketing. Yippee, but I am struggling to get my foot in the door and I will be applying to be a barista, amongst other similar jobs - waitressing, selling shoes or books,...
Forum: Depression and Suicide May 30th 2015, 08:52 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,795
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Unemployment + depression and anxiety

I am putting this in mental health cause I think it fits better.

Any ways, I just finished school about a month and a half ago. I have been trying to find "proper" employment, but it can take up...
Forum: Friends and Family May 30th 2015, 07:05 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,201
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Re: Telling parents about an online relationship

You do have the right to your independence. But seeing as you're 15, your parents reserve the right to know things going on in your life.

- Just this. I think that this gets to the heart of what...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress May 14th 2015, 06:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,915
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Re: Anxiety + jobs - current issue / need to quit

But yeah like you definitely have a point. I've definitely learned how to work with extremely difficult people because of her. I wish I could rely on people to be reasonable by that's not true. I...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress May 14th 2015, 03:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,915
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Re: Anxiety + jobs - current issue / need to quit

Trust me, I know all of that. I get having to do lame grunt work to prove yourself. How she treated me went way beyond that. When your classmates all get more out of their experiences, it's hard not...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress May 13th 2015, 11:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,915
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Smile Anxiety + jobs - current issue / need to quit

I had an internship for my school - it was required to graduate. I turned down this great position for another one because initially it seemed like my boss lady was going to be really cool and that...
Forum: Education and Careers May 9th 2015, 05:42 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,844
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Re: Some questions about College/Uni

I studied in Canada, but I think the university system is reasonably similar here.

The way it worked was that I signed up for sociology and religion (the departments technically), it was a...
Forum: Education and Careers May 9th 2015, 05:28 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,334
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Re: School Rules

Can I just point out the extreme problem with this; it is SEXIST! There is no reason that girls cannot wear tight clothes and short skits because all it is teaching them is that they (the woman) are...
Forum: Friends and Family May 6th 2015, 05:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,861
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Re: Parents and my relationship

I don't mean to sound unfair, but parents usually treat their children differently. Sometimes it is for a good reason because children respond differently to different types of requests or discipline...
Forum: Friends and Family April 22nd 2015, 01:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,921
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Re: His parents don't speak English

I don't think it's racist or closed minded. I imagine it must be stressful to live in a country where you can't even speak the language at all what so ever. You wouldn't even be able to carry out...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 16th 2015, 01:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,827
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Re: How long does one wait to start looking at dating other pople?

There is no time. People move on when they want to - I know some people who move on after 2 weeks, others are still torn up months later. It depends on what you want and what you feel.
Forum: Anxiety and Stress April 8th 2015, 03:32 AM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Substances): Anxiety & Drugs
Views: 3,477
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Re: Anxiety & Drugs

That's a common concern. I have also been asked if I have ever been abused, assaulted, raped, experienced trauma etc. I think sometimes people assume that patients will hide these kinds of things....
Forum: Anxiety and Stress April 7th 2015, 11:48 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Substances): Anxiety & Drugs
Views: 3,477
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Re: Anxiety & Drugs

Hey, I am sorry you are dealing with this. I should think there is a way to manage your mental health, for which I suggest seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist. A psychiatrist is more likely to be...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress March 29th 2015, 09:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,143
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Re: Anxiety :(

Hey there. Have you ever thought about seeking counselling? A therapist could help you with your discomfort in social settings and help you find ways to be comfortable.
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 25th 2015, 01:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,001
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Re: period is making me suicidal

Are you genuinely suicidal when you get your period? Because, if so, I really think that you need to talk to someone to help with dealing with those thoughts. I do think that, if it is a hormonal...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity March 20th 2015, 09:25 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,437
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Re: Genderfluid/Trans?

I know a lot of people who consider themselves gender fluid because that is the language that they choose to use. If you don't consider yourself trans, but do consider yourself gender fluid, I would...
Forum: Education and Careers March 19th 2015, 10:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,986
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Re: I can't cope at work!

Some people are not meant to be managers unfortunately.

Have you tried talking to your manager and letting him (her?) know that you are overwhelmed? Maybe if you let him know you have a lot to do...
Forum: Depression and Suicide March 1st 2015, 12:54 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,964
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Telling a boss or teacher about your anxiety or depression

I have problems with both. Anxiety is permanent. I tend to get depressed second and only sometimes cause I'll be ramped up feeling so anxious and then my system crashes and I feel hopeless, angry,...
Forum: Depression and Suicide February 22nd 2015, 02:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,859
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Blurred lines between anxiety and depression

I have ADHD. I have been depressed in the past. I have problems with anxiety. I've wanted to hurt myself before. I feel worthless and stupid. Lately I've been so anxious. It merged into depression....
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 16th 2015, 11:37 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,751
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Re: Your Thoughts On Dating

I think that the answer to this is relative. I dated my current boyfriend for 2 months before we slept together. But a lot of people may have done so on date 3.

finding people to date is harder...
Forum: Education and Careers February 11th 2015, 02:05 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 19,745
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Re: School is making me suicidal

It's hard for a lot of people to understand the problems. Also, your mom might just disagree with the method you expect. Your mom might understand that you are unhappy and just believe that...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress February 4th 2015, 12:18 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,029
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Re: Help for anxiety. Finally getting it.

Thanks so much to the both of you for being so supportive.

I guess at this point I am just so dubious about how a counsellor will even help me because it's not like I'm unable to function...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress February 3rd 2015, 05:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,029
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Re: Help for anxiety. Finally getting it.

I have nothing against meds. I know they're the best choice for a lot of people. But its not what I want. I also have adhd and meds didn't really help then either. It just stressed me out cause it...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress February 3rd 2015, 04:59 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,029
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Help for anxiety. Finally getting it.

Ok so I've had to deal with anxiety for years ever since high school. I finally told my person at school who deals with my accommodations for another disability and because I explained such classic...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 31st 2015, 02:25 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,461
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Re: learning tagalog for my boyfriend...and a passport/fiancé visa

I think that this is definitely something you should look up on a government website to get more accurate information.

Passports take a while depending where you live and how busy it is 4-6...
Forum: Education and Careers January 24th 2015, 01:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,175
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Re: Would this be a good idea for college

I've been in university for 5 years and am currently doing year 6 at a college. Let me just say that I would not have survived without a computer. You spend so much time preparing assignments, doing...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 16th 2015, 02:16 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,734
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My boyfriend has a lump in his throat...

My boyfriend found a small lump in his throat. I'm not sure if it's related to the fact that he was sick recently or not. It seems like it could be caused by a lot of things. And one of them is...
Forum: Education and Careers December 10th 2014, 06:19 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,937
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Re: getting school work done while struggling with mental health

Honestly, it's hard - when I was in first and second year I was dealing with pretty serious depression and anxiety, I'd have break downs probably at least 1 or 2 times a week which could cause me to...
Forum: Education and Careers December 5th 2014, 03:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,644
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Re: School...

You shouldn't have to compromise your future because she isn't willing to separate your bank accounts. I think what you need to do is at least do that much to start with. I think you need to be clear...
Forum: Education and Careers December 3rd 2014, 12:32 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,047
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Re: Getting into an ENGLISH college when you basically can't speak the language

They do have to take a test. Anyone in my country who is applying to an English speaking school are made to fake a test before they can get in to prove English proficiency. The exception is if they...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 2nd 2014, 06:02 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,533
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Re: Most likely pregnant... Really scared

I am really sorry to hear that you are so scared and struggling so much.

First things first - Have you taken a pregnancy test? You need to do this first. Your body can actually shut down certain...
Forum: Education and Careers December 2nd 2014, 03:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,047
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Re: Getting into an ENGLISH college when you basically can't speak the language

This girl struggles with basic conversational skills such as "how's it going?" Because even though that's slang it's like she can't differentiate "where" and "how" to rrealize what is being said -...
Forum: Education and Careers December 2nd 2014, 01:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,047
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Getting into an ENGLISH college when you basically can't speak the language

I have a lot of foreign students in my class - like out of 60 people, I think about 15 or 20 of us are foreign students - it's actually a really diverse bunch in general, but I mean there is a huge...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 27th 2014, 05:26 PM
Replies: 5
Poll: Female Advice Preferred: Late period-FREAKING out
Views: 1,904
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Re: Late period-FREAKING out

I don't know how much I can contribute since the prior people have largely said everything but I'll try to just get in my words any how

1) It hasn't even been a full month so I wouldn't sweat it...
Forum: Education and Careers November 27th 2014, 12:07 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,075
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Re: Pregnancy and careers right out of college

We've already done all that - had "the talk" about pregnancy & kids, already on birth control, etc.... Now I just want to know how people deal with a career when they have a kid, especially when...
Forum: Education and Careers November 23rd 2014, 08:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,075
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Pregnancy and careers right out of college

Hey, so for those of you who had children while you were young, did you have problems getting jobs?

I am not pregnant but I know the risk is there because I am having sex. Currently there are 5...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 23rd 2014, 08:32 PM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: Next Months Period...
Views: 1,856
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Re: Next Months Period...

Hey Maleia, I am sorry you are having to go through this. I totally understand how scary it must be for you.

I haven't experienced anything like this myself, but I know women who have, which I...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 12th 2014, 02:35 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,902
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Re: Delaying Your Period

The shot isn't the same as the normal pill. It is normal for the shot to stop your period. It is NOT normal to never get your period on the pill.

If you do not want to get birth control then you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 10th 2014, 11:19 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,902
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Re: Delaying Your Period

Even with birth control you can't guarentee anything. Without birth control, your period will happen when it happens.

Personally whenever I tried using birth control to skip my period by just not...
Forum: General Health November 7th 2014, 11:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,242
Posted By Always *
Re: New Doctor, Getting Weighed

If your medications are medically necessary, then they will refill it. If he/she does not, they will give you a good reason. If they don't, it's probably cause they feel something is better - like...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 7th 2014, 11:30 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering (ED): pregnant or paranoid?
Views: 2,245
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Re: pregnant or paranoid?

If it has been 2 weeks you can get a pregnancy test and it will be reliable.

You can get help. It says you're 21, so it is illegal for a doctor to tell your parents what is going on so you can go...
Forum: Friends and Family November 7th 2014, 02:34 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,361
Posted By Always *
Re: Would you date someone that has the same name as one of your parents?

Why would it be a big deal? Unless you'll constantly be picturing your dad when you do it, it doesn't matter.

I have friends who's boyfriends/girlfriends had the same name as their mom/dad or...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 6th 2014, 05:21 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,566
Posted By Always *
Re: My boyfriend's friends upset me?

You have a right to be upset - it's not fair for his friends to think that if he keeps dating you then he'll have to choose between his career and.... not his career.



Also, random tangent that...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 3rd 2014, 02:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,677
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Re: Found Ex on a Dating Site...

I kind of agree with the others. If he is your ex, I am not quite sure why you care. If you are no longer together, of course he is entitled to move on in what ever way he deems fit.

If he has...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 29th 2014, 01:52 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering (ED): pregnant or paranoid?
Views: 2,245
Posted By Always *
Re: pregnant or paranoid?

Hey girl, welcome to TeenHelp! I do not think that you are being paranoid at all. That doesn't mean nothing is wrong, you could be not pregnant, but you aren't being unreasonably concerned by any...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 29th 2014, 01:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,485
Posted By Always *
Re: I am 17, and utterly terrified that I may be pregnant.

You could be late for reasons involving stress, seasonal changes and "normal" fluctuations. Periods are never super consistent, like my period usually comes within 26-31 days, but is usually 27-29...
Forum: Education and Careers October 23rd 2014, 10:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,803
Posted By Always *
Re: Is college worth it?

You need to realize this my experience and mine only.

(1) Do you consider the education you received to be worth the money you spent?

- Yes! I learned so much and loved the research I did. It...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 21st 2014, 02:04 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,991
Posted By Always *
Re: Do you talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend everyday?

Yeah I should probably mention that I am in a log distance relationship.
Forum: Friends and Family October 21st 2014, 12:47 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,827
Posted By Always *
Re: Bad Grades and Parents

Hi, I am sorry your parents are being so hard on you. While I think it is reasonable for parents to have expectations of their children, I do not think it is fair for them to put so much pressure on...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 21st 2014, 12:39 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,227
Posted By Always *
Re: Am I pregnant?

Hey girl, so you should get a pregnancy test. I don't know if the recommendation is still the same, but it used to be that you should get 2-3 of them to double and triple check before seeing a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 21st 2014, 12:29 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,991
Posted By Always *
Re: Do you talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend everyday?

I talk to my boyfriend everyday. But I don't have to. If something came up and we couldn't talk that day it would be ok.... But we also just started dating so we're kind of in that point where we're...
Forum: Education and Careers October 9th 2014, 03:34 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,854
Posted By Always *
Re: girls all of a sudden notice me.when i started to work out.

It's hard to tell. If you are muscular, they might just be fascinated by that (lots of 15 year old guys have chicken arms!). If you are interested in her, you should flirt a little and ask her out...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 9th 2014, 03:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,562
Posted By Always *
Re: Best friend vs boyfriend

I think that this is a complicated situation because it is difficult to be close to an ex, especially while you are young. I think that I can understand why your ex girlfriend would be upset by your...
Forum: Education and Careers September 28th 2014, 09:21 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,738
Posted By Always *
Re: Do you still stay in touch with your university/college?

I actually moved about 3 months after I graduated. I still keep in touch with a few people. But not all of them.
After high school, I moved over 1500 km from home to attend university inn the first...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 26th 2014, 11:38 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 26,157
Posted By Always *
Re: Is a 15 year old guy dating a 13 year old girl okay?

It is only 2 years. To put it in perspective, I dated a guy 1 year older than me, another guy who's 3 years older than me and my current boyfriend is 1 year younger than me... I have another friend...
Forum: Education and Careers September 26th 2014, 02:53 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,154
Posted By Always *
Re: Did anyone else dramatically change careers while in university or college?

Wow, I can't believe how many people change their minds!

My biggest concern is my tendency to get very very bored very very easily... It's so horrible. So while I am interested in something it's...
Forum: Education and Careers September 20th 2014, 12:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,154
Posted By Always *
Did anyone else dramatically change careers while in university or college?

When I was a kid / teenager I wanted to be a vet. This dramatically changed when I got to university because I like the humanities so much (sociology, religion, political science, history and even...
Forum: General Health August 31st 2014, 04:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,193
Posted By Always *
Re: Vagina doctor

It's a gynaecologist lol... I think it's unusual your mom wants you to go though. You are supposed to go see a gyno when your 21, at least that's how it is in Canada. Then your supposed to get a pap...
Forum: Friends and Family August 30th 2014, 08:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,826
Posted By Always *
Re: How to ask parents for permission !!! ;(

I guess you have to ask yourself if your fear of your parents anger will overrule your liking of this boy.
If you truly believe it's important enough to risk that then I guess you have to ask if...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying August 29th 2014, 05:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,059
Posted By Always *
Re: i really like this boy but he bullied me

I mean, purestorm is being pretty blunt but I agree with him here.

Even if you didn't mean harm by putting his dead dog in his locker, that's just disgusting. Maybe you meant well, but why...
Forum: Education and Careers August 26th 2014, 12:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,054
Posted By Always *
Re: Making friends in college

Meeting people in college can be hard. I struggled also. And the thing is people wouldn't believe I was introverted because I am outgoing in public lol.... I found what helped was to become involved...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 19th 2014, 12:25 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,121
Posted By Always *
Re: so im pregnant...baby 3 4 me

Hey, I am sorry that you are struggling so much with your pregnancy. At this stage, you still have a lot of options. Though, from your tone I assume you intend to follow through with it.

In that...
Forum: Friends and Family August 8th 2014, 10:37 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,630
Posted By Always *
Re: Parents..

Hi I am sorry that your siblings feel neglected. I also had busy parents. My mom was perpetually on call and would have to leave in the middle of golf games or movies at the theatre (if you knew my...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 7th 2014, 05:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,537
Posted By Always *
Re: My friend is pregnant, a bit confused

I know a number of girls who had babies at a age that many would consider "too young" and it worked out for the even if it didn't work out at the "normal" pace expected.

There are a number of...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 5th 2014, 12:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,970
Posted By Always *
Re: Bipolar Depression

I am glad that you realize you need to get help.

My experiences are similar but different to yours, I thought I had ADHD and I down played the depression when I finally saw a psychologist because...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 4th 2014, 08:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,812
Posted By Always *
Re: Online dating... Can't keep up

I actually so initiate, have with a number of guys.
And I know it's harder for men, judging how many guys have complemented my appearance and my very brief profile I am guessing I might even have it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 3rd 2014, 05:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,812
Posted By Always *
Re: Online dating... Can't keep up

Lol yeah I can't really help if guys are coming after me and I literally don't have time to answer everything... I have definitely experienced the creepiness though, like this 50-something year old...
Forum: Education and Careers August 3rd 2014, 02:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,088
Posted By Always *
Re: First year experience? Loans, work, and balancing it all?

I did not have student loans as I was not eligible because of my parents incomes. Fortunately they were financially able to support me throughout my academic career. I am extremely fortunate that...
Forum: Recovery Stories August 3rd 2014, 01:17 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,405
Posted By Always *
Re: I AM BACK After FIVE Years! Some GREAT News! AN Recovery Win!

Hey Emma! Your story is so inspiring and I am so glad that you are doing so well. I am honestly amazed by how your story reminded me of one of my best friends (she's still trying to recover though)...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 2nd 2014, 08:17 PM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP
Views: 2,954
Posted By Always *
Re: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

I've had a UTI before and apparently it is common for some girls to get them when they do sexual stuff so it might be a good idea to check into Nicole's suggestion.
For the future I'd ask him to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 2nd 2014, 07:17 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,812
Posted By Always *
Online dating... Can't keep up

Ok so you'll notice the other day I made a post. I decided to try online dating but I swear to god I have like 10 guys messaging me a day since I signed up. 3-4 of them seem pretty cool and one of...
Forum: Education and Careers July 27th 2014, 01:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,906
Posted By Always *
Re: What industry do you work in?

Marketing, advertising, PR
Forum: Games and Things July 24th 2014, 03:00 PM
Replies: 5,197
Views: 157,773
Posted By Always *
Re: What was the last TV Show/Film you watched? :)

Criminal Minds - absolutely love love love the show
Forum: Books and Literature July 24th 2014, 02:59 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 96,642
Posted By Always *
Re: What I'm reading now.

Dance with Dragons, George R.R. Martin -- this is the 5th Game of Thrones book for those of you who are not fans
Forum: Friends and Family June 3rd 2014, 12:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,112
Posted By Always *
Re: question for parents

One option is to just put parent controls on the internet at home, you don't even need to make a spectacle about it, just set up the parent controls and be done with it. If you son notices cause he...
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