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Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 9th 2013, 06:10 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,261
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant again?

Definitely take a test to make sure. Nobody here can determine if you're pregnant or not by simply reading symptoms. These symptoms could be from a number of things, pregnancy included. Take a test...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 28th 2013, 12:47 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: NO PERIOD BUT A WHITE DISCHARGE???
Views: 26,307
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: NO PERIOD BUT A WHITE DISCHARGE???

Sounds like your period if there is some light blood in it.

Since it's only been 11 days since you last had sex, it's too early to tell if you could be pregnant, but since you said you two have...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 23rd 2013, 04:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,372
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant ?

If you skip a pill, taking it the next day isn't going to increase it's effectiveness. If you skip a pill, ignore it and move on to the next one as you should: at the same time every day.

Going...
Forum: Education and Careers April 19th 2013, 02:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,646
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Going to college , sharing a room for 1st time ever pj advice

This is totally up to you. I've never been to college, but I did have to share a room (and a bed) with my sister for a long time before she moved out. I hate wearing bra's and panties to bed, and...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 15th 2013, 03:25 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,752
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: PREGNANT! :D

OMG! After a few minutes of confusion, I finally read this and nearly pee'd my pants in excitement! Congratulations! I know how much you and Alex wanted to become parents! Can't wait to see those...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 15th 2013, 03:23 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,353
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Help!!! Maybe pregnant

At this rate, I do not think your ex-girlfriend could be pregnant.

While pre-cum CAN have sperm in it, it doesn't always. If she were pregnant, she'd likely would know about it by now.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 11th 2013, 06:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,329
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Maybe pregnant...

People make mistakes.

This is a place of non-judgement people. Let's keep it that way.

Ultimately, you made a mistake and now you're dealing with the consequences. In the end, always making...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 27th 2013, 05:27 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,626
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Someone please help me.. Pregnant?

As already mentioned, you cannot get pregnant by dry humping. In order to he pregnant, you need to have full on intercourse, which means penetration of the vagina. It's impossible for sperm to meet...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 26th 2013, 12:16 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,149
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant?

If you're so "convinced" you're pregnant, this is likely why you're experiencing symptoms that could relate to pregnancy. Have you ever heard of an hysterical pregnancy? Yes/No? Well, here's a little...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 7th 2013, 05:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,402
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: im 19 and showing signs of being pregnant but tests say negative.

I agree with the above. You're concerned that your pregnant...which you have the right to be. You indulged in unprotected sex. The chances of you becoming pregnant are significantly high because of...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 6th 2013, 04:19 AM
Replies: 6
Female Advice Preferred: An I pregnant??
Views: 1,290
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: An I pregnant??

If all you've done is get fingered and made out, I can guarantee (I'd actually put my life on it) that you're not pregnant. In order to get pregnant, you need to have sex (meaning his penis needs to...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 14th 2013, 11:02 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,367
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant or not?

As mentioned, being stressed out over several different things, as you are, can cause your period to be a bit late. You've started a lot of new things such as a new job that keeps you constantly...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 4th 2013, 04:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,761
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Help! Period early??

It's normal for periods to come early, even if you've been having regular periods. Periods change continuously. I've noticed that my manager at work and I get ours around the same time when before my...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 3rd 2013, 11:13 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,218
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Cramps and might be pregnant?

I have gotten stomach cramps after a night from drinking as well. It could be just from that. Remember that stressing is also going to take it's toll on your body, which could also be the cause of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 27th 2012, 03:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,945
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Uh.. oops.. Late Period

There are several reasons why a period may be late. Stress (such as having an abusive home life), changes in diet and exercise, and age as well. You're 18, so you're still fairly young. Cycles can be...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 25th 2012, 03:27 PM
Replies: 2
Female Advice Preferred: possibly pregnant
Views: 1,205
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: possibly pregnant

Any kind of birth control you may go on is bound to have side effects. What you're experiencing could very well be the side effects of the depo shot. It's bound to make your period go out of whack,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 5th 2012, 01:01 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,308
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant? PLEASE HELP!?

Again, it's been a long time and if you were pregnant, it would show up on a pregnancy test by now. Sure, they aren't always accurate, but that's very rare. You may be so terrified of being pregnant,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 23rd 2012, 09:09 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,308
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant? PLEASE HELP!?

If you had sex back in July, you would know if you were pregnant by now. All it takes is two to three weeks before a positive result would show up on a pregnancy test. It's been almost 5 months. If...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 22nd 2012, 02:54 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,726
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Implantation or period?

It's probably the onslaught of your period. If you had sex over a month ago, implantation bleeding would have happened back in October...not nearly two months later. I think you're fine. You took two...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 21st 2012, 10:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 7,895
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Not hitting puberty

Hey there,

Each of the above are correct. Have you gotten pubic hair? Underarm hair? An unwanted erection? If any of these above are answered with a yes, I would say that you've began to hit...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 4th 2012, 03:59 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,042
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: When will puberty start

Puberty begins for everyone at different ages since no person is the same. I began puberty when I was around 10-11, while most of my male classmates didn't start until the age of 12-13. Girls start...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings October 28th 2012, 12:21 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,175
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Silly tattoo questions

As mentioned already, foot tattoo's tend to be more painful, and tend to fade more quickly since you have shoes (and socks) to wear. My sister has a tattoo on the top of her foot, and due to always...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 27th 2012, 03:07 AM
Replies: 1
Female Advice Preferred: period confusion..?
Views: 1,558
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: period confusion..?

Cycles change all the time, and it's completely normal for them to do so. I had an incident this past period (which I have YET to get over) where I bled for a few hours in the morning, stopped for a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 21st 2012, 05:19 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,552
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period Question. Please help?

You're young. It's a simple explanation. Even if you've "always" been regular, that doesn't mean your period is going to stay on the same cycle every month. I've been regular since I had my period in...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 15th 2012, 09:27 PM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: might be pregnant:(
Views: 1,233
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: might be pregnant:(

Any time you have sex, there is going to be a chance of pregnancy. Just because you've had your period doesn't mean that you're in the clear. You can take a pregnancy test up 14 days after...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 14th 2012, 03:40 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,590
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: So, I might be pregnant.

While tests can be taken at any time during the day, they're best taken in the morning when the pregnancy hormone, known as the hCG hormone, is at it's highest.
Forum: Rape and Abuse October 14th 2012, 03:38 AM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: Possible rape, I think I'm pregnant?
Views: 2,732
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possible rape, I think I'm pregnant?

Honestly, it was just a dream and there was nothing to worry about.

You're young, so bleeding in between periods is completely normal. Sometimes dreams just seem much more real than they really...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 12th 2012, 04:10 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,566
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Oh God Could I Be Pregnant?!?

I'm going to assume that this was a fairly recent event by the way you wrote the post. If this is the case, you wouldn't be experiencing ANY kind of symptoms a mere 3 days later. Since you missed a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 11th 2012, 11:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,338
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Am I pregnant

You have all the tell-tale signs of pregnancy, but since you only had sex just two weeks, it;s likely caused by something else, not pregnancy. Symptoms won't begin appearing until about the 6th-8th...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 9th 2012, 03:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,590
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: So, I might be pregnant.

Any kind of birth control fail, though. Not just the infection. Condoms can break, a pill can be missed and forgotten, the injection might not take within your body. As I said above, nothing is 100%....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 8th 2012, 11:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,590
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: So, I might be pregnant.

With birth control, it could fail at any time. Nothing is 100%, and when you have the birth control injections, the likelihood of them failing are higher. if you've been experiencing symptoms of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 8th 2012, 04:20 PM
Replies: 12
Female Advice Preferred: Really "down" when on my period
Views: 1,946
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Really "down" when on my period

I think all girls feel a bit down or lazy when they're on their period. I know for me, if it weren't for having a full time job, I'd stay in bed for the entire duration of my period. It's completely...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 5th 2012, 01:15 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,354
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant..

That's a normal reaction, but it's best to remain calm. Worrying, and stressing about being pregnant is only going to cause your period to go off cycle. So remaining calm is the only thing you can do...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare October 4th 2012, 11:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,354
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant..

Since this accident occurred JUST today, there is absolutely no change of you knowing if you're pregnant or not. Conception takes at least two weeks to complete. The chances of you getting pregnant...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 4th 2012, 06:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,071
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: dating a guy with a baby

Thank for you reaching out!

I can't imagine what it's like to date someone who has a child. I, myself, have never been put in that position, but it's great that you recognize that his child is...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 2nd 2012, 01:56 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 37,041
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dry humping?

Dry humping is something that kids your age do. I was doing that when I was your age, however, if you're questioning whether or not you should be doing it, then you probably shouldn't. There is...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 30th 2012, 12:13 PM
Replies: 11
Female Advice Preferred: Birth control and my period... Yikes!
Views: 1,828
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Birth control and my period... Yikes!

If you're disappointed in her services, I would change doctors. There is a pill out there that gives you periods every so often, but nothing is entirely set in stone. Even though you're only mean to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 29th 2012, 08:14 PM
Replies: 11
Female Advice Preferred: Birth control and my period... Yikes!
Views: 1,828
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Birth control and my period... Yikes!

I'm going to probably take a guess here and say they were wrong. Obviously, not taking the inactive pills would keep you from your period, however that specific pill isn't equipped for that. If you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 29th 2012, 03:28 AM
Replies: 11
Female Advice Preferred: Birth control and my period... Yikes!
Views: 1,828
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Birth control and my period... Yikes!

I was on Yaz a few years ago, and got my period every month. My doctor never told me I wouldn't have a period while on it. I enjoyed that specific pill, as it gave me 4 day periods at the end of the...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 24th 2012, 04:21 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,444
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant

Your thoughts and concerns are very reasonable. Given her history, it seems very plausible that she could be using her pregnancy as way to say "Hey, this was meant to be. We're going to get married...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 14th 2012, 01:53 AM
Replies: 8
Female Advice Preferred: 15 and pregnant please help
Views: 1,932
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 15 and pregnant please help

Everyone is different; every woman, baby and pregnancy. Many woman begin showing as early as 3 months, and some don't show until their 7th or 8th month. Everyone is different. You could start showing...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 11th 2012, 01:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,327
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant?

It could be. Remember, it takes time for your body to become used to a new birth control. You could even experience your period a second time, which is totally normal and would explain your emotional...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 3rd 2012, 04:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,327
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant?

Because you've had unprotected sex, using the pull out method while starting a new form of birth control, the chances are very high, although I can't give you a percentage.

I would take a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 2nd 2012, 08:14 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 12,542
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can you be 4 months pregnant and don't have any symptoms?

The chances are incredibly slim that she's pregnant. She's had consistent periods, monthly, each lasting the same amount of time. If she were pregnant, she'd only experience light periods that last a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 1st 2012, 02:10 PM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: camping while on your period?
Views: 8,254
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: camping while on your period?

I'm sure the bathrooms will have some kind of garbage can, or there will be a garbage can nearby. Roll it up in some toilet paper, or bring something you can hide a pad in and just throw it away.
...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 25th 2012, 02:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,635
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is she pregnant?

While it's true that pre-cum can get someone pregnant, the chances of getting pregnant from your situation are slim to none. Pre-cum doesn't automatically carry sperm. The only time it does is from a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 22nd 2012, 02:17 PM
Replies: 1
Female Advice Preferred: Pregnant or stressed?
Views: 1,467
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant or stressed?

A combination of the stress and travelling can definitely throw your cycle off course. In order to get to school, did you travel by plane? If so, this could have a huge impact on your cycle, on top...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 18th 2012, 10:19 AM
Replies: 2
Female Advice Preferred: pregnant???help!!!
Views: 1,300
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant???help!!!

Hi there,

As stated above, it's very unlikely that you're pregnant. Ovulation doesn't occur when you're pregnant. There is no point: an egg would already be fertilized, and you don't get a period...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 18th 2012, 10:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 36,240
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Did I ejaculate inside my girlfriend?

I'm going to agree with the others. Don't simply rely on what you read from internet sources. Vaginal lubricant can be clear, milky, translucent. It all varies on the person. I highly doubt it was...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 17th 2012, 05:50 AM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: 2nd period
Views: 1,895
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 2nd period

Irregular doesn't always mean that your periods come one month, and then skip a month. Irregular could mean horrible cramps, or heavy periods one month and then a light period the second month....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 13th 2012, 12:17 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Not sure if pregnant or not?

I can't say whether or not these symptoms are associated with pregnancy, at least in your situation. What you're experiencing CAN be associated with pregnancy, but they are also associated with other...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 13th 2012, 02:10 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,776
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Questions about the pill (+ regulating my period)

1. Absolutely. The pull should help, but remember: everyone reacts differently to different things. Weight gain IS a side effect of most birth control pills, but that doesn't mean you'll experience...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 12th 2012, 12:13 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,785
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 week long period... ugh.

With the birth control like Seasonale or Seasonique, it's normal to have spotting or bleeding in between actual periods. The commercials I see for these particular birth controls mention it all the...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 10th 2012, 10:06 AM
Replies: 13
Female Advice Preferred: period cramps
Views: 1,849
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: period cramps

Orgasms do work: try masturbation. As far as tips go, we can't go into detail, but using the internet is helpful for something like this. Even using experimentation is also helpful. Just see what...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 10th 2012, 10:01 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 818
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Girlfriend or boyfriend?

^ To the user above: even though it's been posted in the wrong place, we can still give advice. The mods can still move the thread.

To the OP: Do what's in your heart. Do you have a crush on the...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 9th 2012, 12:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,378
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Scared of being pregnant..

Hi there,

While some might say 15 is too young to have sex, there are plenty of teens younger than you indulging in sexual intercourse. Nobody here is going to judge you, and certainly not...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 4th 2012, 04:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,293
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant Question

Absolutely. If he was infertile, then there wouldn't really be a chance but it has been known to happen. Infertile means they have VERY little chance of actually getting pregnant or getting someone...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 3rd 2012, 08:03 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 12,293
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Oral sex while a girl is on her period?

Personally, I wouldn't allow my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me while I was on my period. Not only is it extremely unsanitary, but I think I'd be grossed out by it, and so would he.
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 3rd 2012, 10:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,859
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period and Pregnant

Not necessarily, but the chances are already slim since she was on her period anyway. As I mentioned above, if she's on birth control, she isn't experiencing ovulation since that's what birth control...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 3rd 2012, 02:55 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,859
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period and Pregnant

I do agree that the chances right now are there, though slim since she was on her period. Anytime you have unprotected sex you risk the chance of pregnancy. Since you had unprotected sex, there is a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 3rd 2012, 02:53 AM
Replies: 4
Female Advice Preferred: Late period, help?
Views: 2,423
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Late period, help?

As already mentioned, the chances of you being pregnant are basically non-existent. You mentioned being stressed out over your boyfriend and other issues, which could be a huge reason as to why your...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 28th 2012, 10:16 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,922
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Sex even though hasn't had period?

Yes, it's okay to have sex even if you haven't had your period yet. And, yes, protection is still a must. Just because you haven't had your period YET doesn't mean that you are protected against...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 20th 2012, 05:14 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,535
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Super stressed about period and possible pregnancy

Stress, along with other factors, can indeed make your period very irregular. Sometimes, it could even make your period stop completely. Due to the fact that you're worried about your period, and...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 18th 2012, 02:21 PM
Replies: 8
Female Advice Preferred: first period
Views: 1,814
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: first period

While an app on the phone might work, it's very generalized instead of personalized. When I got my first period, I was about 11. I was excited, and it lasted about a week. The next month, I never got...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 11th 2012, 07:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,168
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Female struggling with porn addiction and sexuality

1-Am I normal? (keep in mind that I essentially will watch anything porn related in order to get off even when it gets fairly sick and twisted)
ABSOLUTELY. Don't think you aren't normal just...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 10th 2012, 11:45 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 80,600
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can sperm survive like this?

If she was pregnant, she'd likely be showing already. The baby doesn't stay a bean the whole time. It would roughly be around 3 or 4 pounds by this point if she were pregnant, which means, her...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 10th 2012, 05:59 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,372
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: tattoo advice

Many tattoo parlors have limited who they tattoo in terms of age now. When my boyfriend was your age, he was able to get a tattoo because he had his parents permission. Now he has 7, but then again,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 8th 2012, 11:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 80,600
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can sperm survive like this?

Question 1: If you washed your hands, then no. Even with a little bit of washing, there is literally no chance for the sperm to have possibly gotten inside your girlfriend's vagina.

Question 2:...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 25th 2012, 02:27 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,681
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My girlfriend is a prude?

When I first began having sex, or becoming sexually active with a partner, it was difficult for me to open up to that person and have sex with the lights on. I've never had the perfect body, and it...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 13th 2012, 03:23 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,470
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

If you were pregnant, your body wouldn't even know it yet. So, the weight gain and missed period are probably due to other factors, like stress and your recent change in diet. Nobody can tell you...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 3rd 2012, 12:43 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,685
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are my chances of being pregnant?

You said it's been about 2.5 weeks since you first had sex without a condom, using the pull out method. This has left you enough time to take a pregnancy test, and long enough time to get an accurate...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 30th 2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,459
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: could i be pregnant??

It's hard to tell. Of course, there is a chance of pregnancy because you've been having unprotected sex with your fiance. Whenever you engage in sexual intercourse, there is ALWAYS a chance of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 30th 2012, 10:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,745
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: period while still on active pills?

Stress can absolutely be the cause. Stressing can cause our periods to do some crazy things...even come a bit early, late or not at all.
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 29th 2012, 09:01 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 841
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is my girlfriend pregnant?

Hello there, and welcome to TeenHelp!

Based on the information you gave me here, I would say she isn't pregnant. You had sex only about 4-5 days ago. Morning sickness, and any other kind of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 28th 2012, 05:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,732
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period after pregnancy

You may bleed for a while after pregnancy only because you haven't had a period for 9 months. The bleeding may be heavy, it may not. It all depends on the person. Everyone is different in terms of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 28th 2012, 05:39 PM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: Period help
Views: 1,813
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period help

I just came right out and said "I think I have gotten my period". So, she went into the hall closet, and brought me a pad. You have to remember: your mom was your age once, and is going through...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 28th 2012, 05:34 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: Period Pains
Views: 1,992
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period Pains

You could talk to your school nurse. Inform your teacher that you're having some bad cramps, and you'd like to visit the school nurse. Ask her for some Advil or Ibuprofin, and just wait it out....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 24th 2012, 03:42 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,363
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 17, pregnant & boyfriend problems HELP!

Alright guys, let's keep things civil here. The point of this thread was the OP asking advice on what she should do. We are not here to judge her for her decisions, and what she wants to do with HER...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 23rd 2012, 10:26 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,363
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 17, pregnant & boyfriend problems HELP!

Abortion won't make you a terrible person. What would is bringing a child into the world knowing you couldn't take care of him/her. However, you wouldn't have to "always" rely on your parents. They...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 23rd 2012, 10:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 8,414
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How to tell my girlfriend I have a foot fetish?

How long have you been together? If it's been a short time, you don't have to open up to her about it right away. If you've been together for a while, then I'd just be honest with her. If she finds...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 22nd 2012, 03:22 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,363
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 17, pregnant & boyfriend problems HELP!

I completely agree with everyone. If he's making you choose, is that really the kind o guy you'd want help in raising your child. If your parents are going to help you, and support you know matter...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 19th 2012, 04:08 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 74,681
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Reasons why girls find it hard to get wet

Sometimes, I'm not fully aroused when my boyfriend and I start to become intimate. Usually because we don't indulge in foreplay (at least, I don't get any foreplay) beforehand. Maybe it's because...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 14th 2012, 10:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,035
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Maybe be pregnant still a teenager

Hey there,

Stressing isn't going to help the situation. If you're pregnant, stress can cause some serious health problems for your child. If you're not pregnant, it could cause problems with your...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 14th 2012, 02:39 AM
Replies: 10
Female Advice Preferred: How to tell you're pregnant on the pill?
Views: 63,898
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How to tell you're pregnant on the pill?

You would have to take a pregnancy test, the same as you would if you weren't using birth control. The hormone won't keep an HPT from giving you an inaccurate reading. It will still tell you if...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 11th 2012, 10:10 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,305
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 2 negative preg tests and a late/missed period?

What your describing is called implantation bleeding, and if that were the case, it would have happened a while ago. However, you're still fairly young and your periods could still be a little crazy...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 10th 2012, 02:14 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,346
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Im on a break with my girlfriend... I need advice

From the sounds of it, a future sounds very dull for the two of you. She's been un-tagging photo's of the two of you, and a month into the relationship she wants to take a break. It sounds like she...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 10th 2012, 02:10 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,082
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I think she is pregnant..

The only way to know for sure if she's pregnant or not is to have her take a pregnancy test. If it's been longer than two weeks that is. If it hasn't, have her wait a few days or until her period is...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 10th 2012, 05:44 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,691
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Birth Control and Period?

While I'm not sure exactly how birth control helps with the symptoms of your period and/or PMS, this link may be helpful to you:...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 10th 2012, 05:38 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,305
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 2 negative preg tests and a late/missed period?

Anything could be going on with your period. As much as we'd like to think our periods are always on our side, that's another matter. Anything from stress, changing your diet or changing your...
Forum: Birthdays! May 7th 2012, 10:14 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,621
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: birthday

Instead of just a generic "Happy birthday!" on their wall, inbox her and give her a more personalized message.
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 7th 2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,022
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating someone older - 8 years

I disagree with the above. I answered "Yes, it's illegal" and another "yes".

My beliefs are this: the minor is 14, the adult is 22. How can a relationship survive 4 years (until the minor is of...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 5th 2012, 10:14 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 916
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: i need dating help

Hey Alex,

Unfortunately, there really isn't anything you can do to get a girl to like you. You can't force that, feelings just can't be forced. Just be yourself and the right girl will come along...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 3rd 2012, 05:42 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 7,879
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Really want my girlfriend to orgasm

Leg twitching is a good thing. Maybe your girlfriend doesn't know this!

However, something the above poster didn't mention, a lot of woman CAN'T orgasm through intercourse or manual stimulation...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 27th 2012, 05:04 AM
Replies: 21
Female Advice Preferred: I hate my period.
Views: 6,768
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I hate my period.

Pregnancy actually only gets rid of your period for a minimum of 9 months, max 10. Not 12. I've never heard of anyone being pregnant for an entire year. That would be one BIG baby.

Anyway, I...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 26th 2012, 10:10 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,691
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant.

Off-brand tests are just as accurate as name-brand ones. Which many of us have already established with the OP.

If the test came out negative, then you should be fine. If you want, wait until...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 25th 2012, 04:20 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,691
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant.

Why not call them and ask? Maybe there is a way you can pay in cash instead of billing it to your dad's medical insurance. Just to be on the safe side. Of course, they WILL NOT send out any...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 23rd 2012, 03:12 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,691
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant.

The longer you wait, the worse it could be. Birth control might not hurt the baby, but lack of proper medical care can! Finding out sooner rather than later might be the best idea for you, instead of...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 23rd 2012, 02:34 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,691
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant.

If you can't afford a name brand test, you could always buy one of the non-name brand ones from the dollar store. Scrounge around for some loose change, and buy one. Especially if you don't want your...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 20th 2012, 10:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 36,839
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Should you give oral before or after sex to last longer?

Doing so BEFORE sex will help him last longer. I use this method when my boyfriend and I haven't done the deed in a while, that way, it's a more enjoyable experience for the both of us. It's not...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 12th 2012, 03:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 17,948
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My girlfriend never wants to have sex...

In my honest opinion, it sounds like she's lost that physical attraction to you. If she isn't wanting to have sex, especially as constant as it was before, there probably isn't enough attraction...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 10th 2012, 10:16 AM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: Im worried i could be pregnant.
Views: 1,329
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Im worried i could be pregnant.

It's unlikely if you had your period just a week ago, however, when you have sex, protected or otherwise, there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy. Condoms should be a must! Not only do they protect you...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 10th 2012, 02:09 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,813
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant...for the third time.

It could be a benefit, but it might not. What happens if he doesn't want to be involved? This could very likely be the case if they weren't dating for very long. But, my sister and her boyfriend who...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 10th 2012, 01:42 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,813
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant...for the third time.

The decision on whether or not to tell her boyfriend is entirely up to her. However, you can steer her in the right direction. A secret is only a secret for so long, and as much as we'd like to try,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 9th 2012, 01:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,360
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: am i pregnant

You cannot get pregnant from having anal or oral sex. The only WAY that could happen is if sperm slipped down and made it's way to the vagina during any of these sexual encounters, which is very...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 8th 2012, 03:38 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: pregnant or stressed?
Views: 1,568
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant or stressed?

If the test you took came back negative, the chances of you being pregnant are slim. Of course, you're emotional because your father faces a seriously traumatic life ahead of him. Car accidents...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 6th 2012, 03:09 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,633
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Am i pregnant?....help!

I can assure you that the nausea and dizziness you are/were experiencing wasn't a product of pregnancy...at least not yet. Symptoms don't hit you that soon after conceiving. It takes anywhere from...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 5th 2012, 12:12 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering: i want 2 get pregnant
Views: 1,657
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: i want 2 get pregnant

Is it normal? Yes. Is it right? Not really. Wanting a baby is something I think ALL girls go through, whether or not they really want to have kids (in the future, that is). Having a baby, giving...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 5th 2012, 01:56 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,883
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could my girlfriend be pregnant?

Hey there!

Morning sickness isn't just limited to the morning. "Morning" sickness is a common, and expected part of pregnancy, and it's also not uncommon to experience bleeding during pregnancy....
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 5th 2012, 01:48 AM
Replies: 42
Female Advice Preferred: panty type and colr for period time
Views: 4,981
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: panty type and colr for period time

I wear regular cotton bikinis. It doesn't matter what color they are, since nobody is going to see them but me.
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 3rd 2012, 10:11 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,560
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Irregular period?

She's 13, so of course it's going to be normal. A girl's period can be irregular for a while. It doesn't mean anything is wrong.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings April 2nd 2012, 10:30 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 5,792
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: getting a tattoo.. help?

I also like "She flies with her own wings", but as the others have said, this isn't something WE should be deciding on. Tattoo's take time and planning, and it's a good thing you've stuck with a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 2nd 2012, 10:14 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,967
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I am seeking a good girl on a dating site!

Hey there!

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce! I'm sure that isn't an easy thing to go through.

As said above, the internet is a decent place to meet new people, whether it's a prospective...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 1st 2012, 07:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,455
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant?

As was already said, you can't get pregnant simply from an erection. In order to become pregnant, the penis has to enter the vagina, and sperm and an egg has to be present. You are perfectly fine.
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 20th 2012, 09:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 5,828
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Suicidal thoughts and self harm urges before period

It definitely sounds like something the hormonal changes are doing to you. Of course, I can't diagnose, so this might be something worth bringing up with your doctor.
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2012, 10:07 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,355
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Haven't had my period for 2 months!!

It could be the pill, or it could be the fact that you're stressing about missing your period...now twice. There are a lot of factors that could leave your cycle screwed up, and you're 16 which is...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 12th 2012, 04:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,852
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are the odds that I'm pregnant?

Hey there!

Firstly, you mentioned that you had unprotected sex about a week ago. You won't be able to take a test for another two weeks. Two weeks is the standard time before you can take a test...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 12th 2012, 04:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 6,033
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Extremely worried about whether I'm pregnant

Stressing can definitely make your period go off course. Even for women who have had their periods forever can easily have their cycles easily screwed up due to stress, changes in exercise and diet,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 10th 2012, 10:31 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 839
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Work Place Romance?

To find out if she's single or not; just get to know her better. Find out her background OUTSIDE of work. You can't just jump in and say "Are you single?" That's pretty obvious, dontcha think?
...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 9th 2012, 09:45 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

I'm going to go ahead and close this thread since the OP has started a new thread.
Forum: General Health March 9th 2012, 10:54 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,283
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Doctor lying bill

Don't even need to read the article. This is basically going against the doctor's Hypocratical Oath, which they take once they've graduated medical school and are ready to practice. If one state is...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 9th 2012, 10:22 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,007
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Girlfriend of 3 years has self-image issues

You see, having sex once a week is pretty standard for a couple who has been in a relationship as long as you have. In fact, I am lucky if I get that once a week, but then again, my boyfriend and I...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 8th 2012, 08:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 76,241
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Difference between implantation bleeding and periods?

Yes. You've made several threads asking basically the same question, and the answers haven't changed. The chances of your sperm making it inside her vagina are slim to none. There is no reason to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 8th 2012, 07:26 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 76,241
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Difference between implantation bleeding and periods?

If it lasts 6-7 days, it's most likely her period. However, why not ask her how her periods normally are? Each girl is different. My periods last only about 4-5 days, while others can last up to 7...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 8th 2012, 07:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 76,241
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Difference between implantation bleeding and periods?

The bleeding isn't a period, however, women mistake bleeding during their pregnancy as their period. The bleeding itself isn't a period.


If the bleeding lasted for 6-7 days, it was most likely...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 8th 2012, 06:19 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 76,241
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Difference between implantation bleeding and periods?

Woman CAN bleed during their pregnancy. For some women, they don't know they are pregnant until they are about 6-12 weeks into their pregnancy, because they mistook implantation bleeding as their...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 8th 2012, 12:33 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,284
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pill- no period...

Unfortunately, not letting yourself have those breaks in between pill packs is most likely the result of your limited period this month. I've done this a few times, where I skip the break, and begin...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 4th 2012, 08:09 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 761
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I want this to work!

If you just think you're over him, it's likely that you aren't. It's normal to feel weird. Your ex was a part of your life, and now he isn't. Trying something new with someone new is going to be...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 4th 2012, 08:06 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 363,480
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How deep does a guy have to ejaculate to get a girl pregnant?

Seriously, the answers aren't going to change OP. Nothing is going to keep the sperm out of the vagina: Not water, not peeing.

AND, again, I'd like to point out that a girl CAN GET PREGNANT NO...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 4th 2012, 01:48 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 761
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I want this to work!

It's not wise to date someone while you're still trying to get over someone else, as Nicole said. It's not fair for everyone involved: You're still reeling over your break up with your ex, so you...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 4th 2012, 01:41 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 363,480
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How deep does a guy have to ejaculate to get a girl pregnant?

Everyone has answered your question amazingly. It doesn't take far, but obviously, the deeper the better. When you're engaging in intercourse, there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy. Using a condom...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 1st 2012, 03:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,463
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How to break up with my girlfriend

You need to just to be honest with her, especially if you have feelings for someone else who likes you back. I can't exactly think of any "funny" comments since this isn't exactly a funny situation....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 28th 2012, 09:53 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

If the nausea goes away in a few days, it's not associated in any way towards pregnancy. But, as I said before, her nausea is probably not associated with pregnancy at all. Since you're both worried...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 28th 2012, 10:07 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

I answered this, and I'll answer it again to ease your mind. It's natural to be paranoid, so don't worry about it :)

If you engaged in activity on the 20th, and she began experiencing nausea on...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 27th 2012, 09:21 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

If she gets her next period, there is no problem and she would not be pregnant. AGAIN, if she gets her period, NO PREGNANCY.

I also agree with the above. If you can't easily get your hands on a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 27th 2012, 08:49 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

No. Usually, an early pregnancy symptom would be a missed period. Since she got hers, and it lasted a normal amount of time, I'd say she's not pregnant.



No. Woman usually don't find out they...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 27th 2012, 08:25 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

Since it was only ON her vagina, I highly doubt that she'd be pregnant. When sperm hits air, it usually dies off pretty quickly. Also, since you're unsure of whether or not you actually ejaculated,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 26th 2012, 08:04 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 46,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is fever, vomiting, diarrhea/loose motion an early sign of pregnancy?

When you're pregnant, your body can have a slightly higher body temperature than what is normal. Although,not a feverish body temperature. Vomiting is DEFINITELY a sign of pregnancy (morning...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 23rd 2012, 01:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 732
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: The girlfriend delema

You'll need to be compliant of his relationship. No matter who he dates, you may not like that person. Yes, she said 'I love you' too soon in the relationship, but that happens ALL the time. Love is...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 22nd 2012, 03:45 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,461
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

I'm so happy things are going well for you!

Since this seems to be resolved, I'm going to close your thread, Julie! Of course, you can PM me or Kelly if you'd like it reopened, or begin a new...
Forum: Loneliness February 20th 2012, 04:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,949
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Lonely :(

Communication. In order to fix this problem, you'll need to identify it. If you think he's drifting, talk to him about that. Get to the bottom of things before you make any hasty decisions, like...
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 20th 2012, 04:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,698
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I think me and my girlfriend have herpes?, HELP!

Herpes can only be given to you or your partner if YOU or HER were carriers of the disease. If you didn't have herpes before you had sex, it's likely what you're experiencing isn't herpes at all. You...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 20th 2012, 02:41 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,461
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

Thank you Julie!

I wish you the best of luck with this, and never hesitate to shoot me a PM if you have anymore questions!
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 19th 2012, 05:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,160
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My best friend is pregnant

If she's made the choice to have an abortion, you're going to have to comply with that even if it's something you don't necessarily believe in. It's her choice, so that's something you'll have to...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 19th 2012, 05:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,461
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

Like the others said, you've been very safe with using both birth control and condoms. Of course, there is always a chance of pregnancy when you're in a sexual relationship, but with the care you've...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 17th 2012, 07:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,414
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period pain

As said, these pains you're experiencing are completely normal. We're all different, so just because your friends don't experience the kind of pain you do doesn't mean they aren't feeling pain at...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 17th 2012, 03:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,709
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant and husband in the army

I understand that this is an incredibly scary time for you. This is something you didn't expect, especially now when your husband is being shipped out in a few weeks. I'd honestly tell him before he...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 16th 2012, 10:22 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 3,278
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Such thing as a pregnant virgin?

Honestly, no. You can't get pregnant without having sex unless you're the Virgin Mary.
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 16th 2012, 10:32 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 701
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My girlfriend

I'm a bit confused, as well. Is the next step for you having a monogamous relationship with someone, as in you're both only seeing each other? Maybe if you re-worded your post, we could answer better.
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 14th 2012, 08:20 PM
Replies: 13
Female Advice Preferred: when your on your period....
Views: 2,281
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: when your on your period....

I've never had this problem. I LOVE spicy foods, any time of the month! I've also never heard of "burning tongue" either, so I can't really put any input on that. I tend to eat spicy foods MORE on or...
Forum: Loneliness February 13th 2012, 11:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,509
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Lonely

Firstly, you should come to terms with being single. That doesn't mean you'll NEVER find a relationship, but in order to have a happy, healthy relationship with someone, you'll need to accept the...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 9th 2012, 06:14 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,130
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Who to tell? Just found out I'm pregnant?

If you choose not to tell him, you might want to consider what he might do if he finds out from someone else. Of course, the decision is entirely up to you. I'm just trying to make sure you consider...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 5th 2012, 10:11 PM
Replies: 4
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Can I get pregnant from this?
Views: 1,693
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can I get pregnant from this?

The only time you could get pregnant from him rubbing you down there was if there was sperm on his penis from a previous ejaculation. However, sperm dies when it hits air, therefore, you wouldn't...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 5th 2012, 01:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,130
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Who to tell? Just found out I'm pregnant?

Even if things aren't going well between you and your ex right now, I do believe that it would be fair that you let him know. That way, you both can go over the options of either raising him/her...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 4th 2012, 05:11 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,438
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: can she be pregnant

The chances are slim since pre-cum doesn't always contain semen. The only time it contains semen is if there was any left over sperm in the urethra from a previous ejaculation. Urinating could...
Forum: Fashion and Style February 3rd 2012, 10:21 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

teal blue converse, ripped skinny jeans, Chicago Blackhawks t-shirt and my boyfriend's red Army hoodie.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings February 3rd 2012, 06:04 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,352
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pawprint/ butterfly tattoo

YAYYY It worked! That's lovely! :) It's definitely something original! :D
Forum: Birthdays! February 3rd 2012, 05:49 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,894
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Happy birthday, Rob! =D (3rd Feb)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB!
Seriously, 24?! Gettin' old, eh? (Please don't kick me off staff for saying that!I kid, I kid).
In ALL seriousness, I hope you have a wonderful birthday today! :D
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings February 3rd 2012, 05:32 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,352
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pawprint/ butterfly tattoo

I unfortunately couldn't get to the link. I clicked on it, and it just went straight to the Google homepage! D: I'm sorry. Maybe you could try linking it a different way?

I think either tattoo...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 3rd 2012, 04:22 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,635
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it at all possible I could become pregnant?

Since this thread has received ample replies, and the OP has created several new threads, I'm going to go ahead and close this thread.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 3rd 2012, 02:03 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 9,450
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it possible to get pregnant like this?

It's been a few days since this thread was re-opened, so I'm going to close it now as it has ample responses!
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 2nd 2012, 03:01 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,635
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it at all possible I could become pregnant?

Yes. I'm not kidding when I say that Plan B honestly pumps a serious amount of hormones into your body, and really DOES mess up your cycle. Here are facts for you:...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings February 2nd 2012, 12:42 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,352
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pawprint/ butterfly tattoo

You could get the paw print with the colors of the butterfly. Or, you could get the butterfly with a kitten's face as it's colors. Something like this:...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 2nd 2012, 12:33 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,635
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it at all possible I could become pregnant?

If he's infertile, that doesn't mean he no longer has sperm. His body still produces sperm, but they cannot fertilize an egg in order for you to get pregnant. Now, since you took Plan B, and I...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare February 1st 2012, 12:09 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,504
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: i dont know if i might be pregnant

The chances of you being pregnant are slim, but they are there. Since you engaged in intercourse, there is ALWAYS a chance. Under these circumstances, I highly doubt you'll end up pregnant,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 31st 2012, 03:33 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,761
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What would u do if u found out u were pregnant and still a teenager?

I honestly don't know what I would do. I mean, obviously, I'm not a teenager, but personally speaking for myself (if I were a teenager), I'd probably either keep him/her or put him/her up for...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 30th 2012, 04:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,362
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can I get pregnant like this?

As Angel said, anytime you engage in vaginal intercourse, there is a risk. Birth control is never 100%, but taking precautions is a good way to start, like using a condom. However, he needs to remove...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 29th 2012, 09:14 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 9,450
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it possible to get pregnant like this?

At the OP's request, I re-opened the thread.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 29th 2012, 07:43 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 9,450
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it possible to get pregnant like this?

Since the OP's question has been properly answered with thorough answers, I'm going to close this thread.

OP, if you'd like the thread reopened, just shoot me a PM and I'll gladly reopen it for...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 29th 2012, 06:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,866
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: what is wrong with my period?

If the discharge was bright orange, I think it's time to see a doctor. Discharge isn't meant to be all the colors of the rainbow. Anything that isn't white or clear is something to be worried about....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 28th 2012, 03:59 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 9,450
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it possible to get pregnant like this?

As we've ALREADY mentioned to you a few times, no. In order to get pregnant, you'd have to ejaculate inside the woman. Here's an equation to remember: Sperm + Egg = Baby. When sperm hits air, IT...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 27th 2012, 05:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 9,450
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it possible to get pregnant like this?

Both lovely ladies are right; there is very little chance that the sperm had found it's way inside. Once it hits the air, most of it dies off after a short time, and dead sperm can't fertilize an...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 27th 2012, 05:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 174,636
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dry Humping my Best Friend?

Since it's been a week and he's had some time to mull over what happened, I would try to speak to him in person or over the phone and explain that things are okay. Or, just try to figure out what's...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 27th 2012, 01:46 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,243
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Vote on the font for my tattoo?

I'm stuck between 4 & 6, leaning towards 6 more. It's a newer font, and absolutely unique in my eyes!
Forum: Fashion and Style January 26th 2012, 09:53 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Black leggings & an R&W Cycle sweatshirt
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 22nd 2012, 11:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 52,143
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Does precum have sperm?

There is NO sperm in precum. A study that was done recently actually confirmed that precum doesn't contain any sperm, however it CAN have sperm in it if there is any sperm left over in the urethra...
Forum: Fashion and Style January 21st 2012, 09:55 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Ripped skinny jeans, purple/black/white tank top, Cougars hoodie
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 21st 2012, 06:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,548
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: We may have gotten pregnant

Kelly has pretty hit everything spot on.

The Plan B pill, when taken correctly and within 72 hours (depending on the emergency contraception you had gotten), will prevent pregnancy. However,...
Forum: General Health January 21st 2012, 06:32 PM
Replies: 25
Male Advice Preferred: Guys opinion of stretch marks?
Views: 50,281
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Guys opinion of stretch marks?

I've had stretch marks on my breasts, hips and thighs for as long as I can remember. I know I got them around puberty, and when I was your age, I'd lie to people and say they were cuts from a really...
Forum: Fashion and Style January 21st 2012, 12:49 AM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Black long sleeved flannel shirt, light color skinny jeans
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 20th 2012, 06:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 18,723
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My girlfriend is way too passive in bed

I'm going to have to agree with the others; maybe she likes to be controlled or is unsure of how to initiate sex. In my opinion, I'd stop initiating sex to see if she responds to that. I know if I...
Forum: General Health January 18th 2012, 08:21 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,052
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Age of consent/going to the doctor?

If they feel something is life threatening, they may report it. However, I doubt they would if you just mentioned you were sexually active. They probably will ask you this question anyway, regardless...
Forum: General Health January 18th 2012, 06:52 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,052
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Age of consent/going to the doctor?

http://www.enotes.com/healthcare-reference/treatment-minors

This website I've provided for you will give you more detailed information on the treatment of minors. Since both of you are 16, I don't...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 17th 2012, 10:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,492
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could I be pregnant or not!?

Actually, there is a possibility. While the possibility is low, it's still there. He ejaculated near your vagina, and then later fingered you. There might be a chance he pushed some of his sperm...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 16th 2012, 01:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,823
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant, or just stressed??

That could be normal abdominal cramps. My stomach feels hard around my period, even if I don't feel the cramping in my stomach.

If you're pregnant, you'd notice it around the 3-4 month mark,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 16th 2012, 01:08 AM
Replies: 18
Female Advice Preferred: Does your period has a smell?
Views: 11,400
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Does your period has a smell?

Mine has a smell, though I've never asked anyone about their own. Blood is supposed to smell when it hits air, so I think you're fine.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 15th 2012, 09:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,823
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant, or just stressed??

Of course, there is a slight chance of pregnancy because you're having sex. No birth control is 100%. But, you aren't aware of any condoms breaking, and you're aware that he used them properly....
Forum: Fashion and Style January 14th 2012, 01:42 AM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Dark blue skinny jeans, white tank, bluish-green cami, brown boots
Forum: Fashion and Style January 13th 2012, 07:08 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Dark blue jeans, white cami and a gray t-shirt with black lace.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 13th 2012, 06:53 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,736
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: First Tattoo!!

That's a wonderful idea for a tattoo, especially since it's so meaningful to you.

As for some tips, just remember to follow the artists advice on caring for it afterwards. You'll have to keep it...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 13th 2012, 06:48 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,250
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Ithink im pregnant

The first step is to take a test, as the above poster said. It's normal to freak out, but you need to remain calm. Stressing out and other factors could be to blame for your missing period. But,...
Forum: Fashion and Style January 12th 2012, 10:16 PM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Navy & light blue striped sweater, dark skinny jeans
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 12th 2012, 05:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,876
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: getting a tattoo!

I'm going to disagree with some of the others.

As far as the tattoo goes, it shouldn't take so long. I have a tie-dyed peace sign on my hip which only took about 30 minutes. A simple wrist tattoo...
Forum: Fashion and Style January 12th 2012, 05:39 AM
Replies: 2,594
Views: 73,228
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What are you currently wearing?

Grey sweatshirt, light pink tank top, and black with pink zebra print trim on the waist band shorts
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 12th 2012, 03:50 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,374
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: chances of being pregnant?

You're welcome. I wish you the best of luck, and if you need anything or have any more questions, please feel free to PM me.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 12th 2012, 03:36 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,374
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: chances of being pregnant?

The only way to know if you're truly pregnant or not is to take a pregnancy test. The chances of you being pregnant are high, since you're not taking the pill as directed. If you're having a hard...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 11th 2012, 08:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,784
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: First tattoo idea..

Tattoo's are meant to be meaningful, and if you think this one has great meaning to you, you should go for it. I can't tell you "yes, get it" or "no, don't get it" because the decision lies entirely...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 11th 2012, 08:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,066
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Tattoo over scars,

The pain tolerance depends completely on the person. My hip tattoo didn't hurt as much as the one on my ankle did, but none of my piercings caused me any pain. Everyone has different pain tolerances,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 11th 2012, 05:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,594
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I'm Pregnant....

No problem! I hope things work out for you in the end! Keep us updated, or feel free to PM (just click on my name on the right hand side) if you have any more questions!
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 11th 2012, 05:20 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,594
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I'm Pregnant....

Abortion pills could be really dangerous, so I wouldn't advise using them. There is also a chance that pill wouldn't even work so your best bet would be to get a medical abortion done by a doctor or...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 10th 2012, 07:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,470
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant from grinding??

Since the OP's question has been answered, I'm going to go ahead and close this thread.

OP, if you'd like the thread reopened, contact myself or Kelly (escape_thereal_world) to have it reopened,...
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