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Search: Posts Made By: Harmony♥
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 10th 2012, 04:27 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,735
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant from grinding??

The chances are slim to none. If his semen somehow crept it's way into your vagina, granted this is if he had any semen on or around his parts, then yes, there might be a chance. However, I don't...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 7th 2012, 03:55 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,576
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Rainbow Tattoo?

I have a rainbow peace sign on my hip, and it's not very small. I've had it for about 3 years, and the colors haven't bled together nor has my tattoo faded in any way. I think you'd be fine to get...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 3rd 2012, 09:06 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 110,459
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it wrong to masturbate if you have a pet in your room?

Animals aren't stupid, but I highly doubt your cat would know what you were doing. If you're masturbating TO your cat, that would be weird. But, seeing as this isn't the case, you should be fine....
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 3rd 2012, 02:04 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,974
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My newest Tattoo!

I feel this has gotten some accurate replies & compliments, I'm going to go ahead & close this thread.

OP, please share with us the finished product after you've had it fixed in a new thread or...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 3rd 2012, 01:58 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,921
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Should I send my boyfriend this web address on how to treat your girlfriend?

I'm going to have to agree with Lissa. You've tried to get his attention in the past, and he's done nothing. Sending him this link probably wouldn't make a different either.
Forum: Education and Careers January 2nd 2012, 05:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,193
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: college females: do I have any chance?

As I said in your post in Sex & Puberty, it all depends on the female. Being a virgin in college isn't a big deal, but some people think it's a bigger deal than it is. It really is not. If those...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 2nd 2012, 05:33 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 8,971
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: HELP HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS I GOT MY PERIOD?

Telling your mom won't be as hard as you think. Remember, she's a female too and at one point, she had to tell HER mom that she had gotten her first period as well. You can't put this off forever....
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 2nd 2012, 05:30 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,793
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin

It depends on the girl, but personally, if they care that you're a virgin, they won't be worth your time anyway.

To me, it wouldn't be a big deal though I prefer a guy with more experience than...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare January 2nd 2012, 05:03 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,508
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

Since the OP has since found out the truth behind her late period, I'm going to go ahead and close this thread as a new one has begun.

OP, feel free to PM if you'd like this particular thread...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 31st 2011, 06:44 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: why don't doctors regulate when you enter puberty?

Well, our physical appearance doesn't begin to change until we hit puberty. So, you may see some 11 year old's that look older than they are, or some that look younger than they are. My sister's...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 31st 2011, 06:35 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: why don't doctors regulate when you enter puberty?

Everyone starts puberty at different times; anyone who went through health or puberty education classes will know this.

All of my friends started maturing at different times. A friend of mine got...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 31st 2011, 01:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,508
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: pregnant?

There is always other explanations for late periods such as changes in diet, being stressed, and other factors. Pregnancy is also a big one. The only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test....
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 31st 2011, 12:42 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: why don't doctors regulate when you enter puberty?

Of course when your body changes it's going to feel foreign to you. That's what puberty is about. Your body is changing, but since this isn't a rare case, a doctor won't do anything to stop the onset...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 31st 2011, 12:13 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,524
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: why don't doctors regulate when you enter puberty?

Puberty is out of the hands of doctors. It's a natural process that EVERYONE goes through. We HAVE to go through puberty. We can't stop it. There is just no way. Female's tend to mature faster than...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings December 30th 2011, 10:35 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,791
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Holly Leaf Tattoo, Need Opinion

Your tattoo's look fantastic! I bet the one on the foot hurt, huh?

As far as the Leaves go, I'd get them on just one side. I was thinking of getting another peace sign tattoo on my left hip (I...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 30th 2011, 07:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,290
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period Issue and my Reproductive System

Now, as we're not doctors, the information I gave you is DEFINITELY NOT a diagnosis. It just sounds like you may have PCOS, that's my unprofessional opinion. I had a friend who suffered from it, and...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 30th 2011, 06:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,290
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period Issue and my Reproductive System

Period's can often be irregular, and sometimes birth control doesn't even help.

As always, you should consult your doctor about this. You may Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, which causes you to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 29th 2011, 04:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,578
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Starting pill pack first day of period???

It depends on the pill. As Barbara has said, if it's the COMBINATION PILL, you can assume you're protected, but it's wise to use an extra form of protection the first couple of times. You don't want...
Forum: General Health December 28th 2011, 10:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 24,991
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What can my doctor tell my parents?

The doctor can't tell your mother anything without YOUR permission. There is something called patient/doctor confidentiality. They take this oath when they become doctors, and if they break it, are...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 28th 2011, 08:50 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,259
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: could i be pregnant?

It looks like you have a slight chance of being pregnant. You've been late, but from what you've said, it doesn't sound like you've MISSED a period. Usually, missing a period is a key sign in...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 28th 2011, 06:05 PM
Replies: 19
Poll: Triggering: How common is Sibling Incest
Views: 78,201
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How common is Sibling Incest

I answer "None Siblings Don't Do This". Where I come from incest isn't heard of, unless it is a rape situation between family members. I've never experimented with my sister, and I've never heard of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 28th 2011, 04:40 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 142,904
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Girls: How often do you masturbate?

I masturbate daily, unless I'm on my period. I'll do it even if I'm staying at my boyfriend's, but that's if he isn't home. :P
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 27th 2011, 07:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 16,614
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: bleeding one week after period help

Periods can be funny sometimes. Even if you've been regular you're whole life, a lot of factors can cause your period to come late OR early. If you've recently changed your diet, have been stressed...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 27th 2011, 03:02 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 16,614
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: bleeding one week after period help

Since the blood is brown, and not a bright red, I'm thinking this could be left over blood from your period last week. This is a normal, natural thing, and there is no reason to be concerned....
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 27th 2011, 02:58 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,187
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: so do I have precocious puberty?

You're going through puberty. The thing is: All of us start puberty at different times. What your friends & peers may have been experiencing could have been completely different from what you began...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 22nd 2011, 06:15 PM
Replies: 7
Male Advice Preferred: I had a dream about my girlfriend.
Views: 5,660
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I had a dream about my girlfriend.

Dreams are just dreams. They don't really mean anything. We can't help what we dream about and if we could, we'd have a lot more happier dreams to talk about. It's probably because she's your...
Forum: Birthdays! December 20th 2011, 04:01 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,312
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Happy Birthday, Acheron!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUN! Enjoy it! :)
Forum: Sport and Fitness December 19th 2011, 07:05 AM
Replies: 2
Male Advice Preferred: Does jelking/kegels work
Views: 3,451
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Does jelking/kegels work

This is the first time I've ever heard of a man doing Kegels. I don't think my boyfriend has, but I do them daily since they're good for you.
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 15th 2011, 07:43 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,016
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating- questions

Generally speaking, I'd say no. You've never met in person, and have never Skyped or video chatted, so you have no idea if pictures match up to the person you're talking too. Why don't you try asking...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 14th 2011, 08:58 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: I might be pregnant, help!!
Views: 1,718
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I might be pregnant, help!!

Hey there.

Stop worrying. I highly doubt you're pregnant. You've had PROTECTED sex every time you've had sex. As long as the condom wasn't broken, you will be okay. Wait until you're meant to get...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 13th 2011, 04:21 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: Period question. >.<
Views: 2,017
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period question. >.<

It could be many things. If you've changed your diet, stress and of course, pregnancy. But, since you said the last two are out, I'd take yourself to the doctor just to confirm nothing is going on.
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 12th 2011, 03:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,021
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Like my guy friend who has a girlfriend...

Firstly, just because they aren't alike doesn't mean they can't be together. My boyfriend and I are utter opposites, and we're going on 3 years together next month. Opposites really do attract,...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction December 9th 2011, 06:01 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 8,637
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Do you drink alcohol...?

I do drink; and your friends are right. Drinking can cause you to gain weight. You'll see that most older people who have been drinking most of their lives (and may even have drinking problems) have...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare December 9th 2011, 05:22 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,018
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant.

It's going to be an incredibly difficult time for you, that's for sure. I'm also unsure if I should say congratulations or not. :\. These types of forums always make me feel awkward.

Anyway,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 9th 2011, 05:19 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,689
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: sex on her period

As long as you are both okay with it, there is no problem. However, as people said in your previous forum, it could be incredibly uncomfortable for her. I know it was for me when I tried it. It was...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 8th 2011, 06:01 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 45,291
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Feeling of getting blowjob

Definitely not. There are more nerve endings in the penis than there is in the toe. The motions are the same, but the feeling, nope.
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 7th 2011, 04:31 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,248
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: so can you be done with puberty at 14?

Your body will continue to change throughout your life. Such as breasts will grow and shrink, and they'll be sensitive. But, after a while, you'll begin to notice not much of anything is happening...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 7th 2011, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,248
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: so can you be done with puberty at 14?

Puberty can start early. I know a young girl who got her period at 8, and started wearing bra's at the tender age of 9. She's going to be 12 this upcoming year.

It takes time to develop, and many...
Forum: Birthdays! December 7th 2011, 01:12 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,051
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: her birthday is coming up...

I think the third idea is cute, and doesn't seem too much like an anniversary gift. You could put the candy INSIDE the box, that way when she opens it, she has a surprise inside, and the roses you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 6th 2011, 07:23 PM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: period very late :(
Views: 1,904
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: period very late :(

Actually, periods are meant to be regular. Some people don't have the luxury of having them regulated without the help of birth control, while others get theirs the same time every month. Just...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 6th 2011, 03:55 AM
Replies: 20
Female Advice Preferred: Could this work?
Views: 1,482
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could this work?

Complimenting the eyes will work better than complementing her shoes. A girl likes confidence, and if she sees you lowering your head to stare at the ground, or anywhere else but her face, she's...
Forum: Sex and Puberty December 5th 2011, 11:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,115
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Period was late now not stopping

I'm glad you've made an appointment with your doctor to have this figured out. If you were pregnant, this definitely seems like an abortion, but the fact that you've been bleeding for nearly 3 weeks...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 3rd 2011, 04:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 963
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: girlfriend troubles

What is it that her friends do that you don't like so much? You didn't really give specifics so I can't really figure out what to say here.

So early on in the relationship, it's probably best not...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 10:43 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,410
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

I would talk to her about this. If it bothers you so completely, then I would speak to her about it. Communication is very important, and without it, there isn't much of a relationship there.
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 09:07 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,410
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

I totally missed have of this thread, and I didn't read through all the answers, so I'm just going to reply to the first post.

I've been in a committed relationship for nearly 3 years. My...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 30th 2011, 08:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,227
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: my friend could be pregnant

I'm glad things have gotten sorted out! I wish you and your friend the best of luck, and remember, you and your friend can always turn to us if you have any problems.

Since this has been...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 28th 2011, 06:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,424
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Whats the best way to start getting into the dating game??

She probably did this because she was nervous, and in a group, things are less likely to be awkward.

As Nicole said, I would start off as being friends first, and getting to know people. Don't...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 27th 2011, 05:35 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,009
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Parents and me dating

Having girls over for means the maturity to do so. When you get upset and angry with them for not allowing it, you're showing them that you aren't mature enough to have girls over. This leads to a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 20th 2011, 11:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,227
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: my friend could be pregnant

Just because she's sick in the morning, and even throws up doesn't mean that she's pregnant. Morning sickness isn't always limited to just 'mornings'. Morning sickness could go on ALL day. The only...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 03:18 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 82,538
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Where do young people have sex?

I didn't mean to sound pessimistic. I guess I'm a bit adventurous. I've been having sex since I was 16, and have sex while my parents or my boyfriends parents are home, as long as they're in their...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 18th 2011, 03:30 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 82,538
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Since your apartments and summer homes and hotels are out of the question, there isn't much you can do. You'll just have to wait until one of those options become available to you. The first thing I...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity November 17th 2011, 09:15 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 5,633
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 10 year old girl in Illinois commits suicide over LGBT bullying

Poor child. What really got me was that in the comments on the article, not one person mentioned the girls death, but their own experiences. It's great that they want to share, but there was a more...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 16th 2011, 04:07 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,711
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you date (or are you dating) someone you've never met in person?

I'm personally iffy about anyone I meet online. Here, not so much since I talk to most of you every day and you've learned to build my trust. However, with people I randomly meet online (like on...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 15th 2011, 04:58 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,721
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 17 and pregnant?

Well, first things first, I would take that pregnancy test to determine whether or not you're pregnant.

Hypotheically here, if you are pregnant, here's some advice on what you do:

Tell...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 14th 2011, 01:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,112
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Im not sure if I'm pregnant or not help?

There is no way for us to tell you that you're pregnant. We're not doctors, and it's simply impossible to tell whether or not you are over the internet. The only way to know for sure is to either...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 12th 2011, 08:13 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 6,600
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I found out I got a girl pregnant on prom night

Since you couldn't find her via Facebook, and none of your mutual friends know where her location is, it's best to wait until she turns up again.

This could have happened to anyone, and I know it...
Forum: Games and Things November 11th 2011, 05:12 PM
Replies: 5,207
Views: 206,480
Posted By Harmony♥
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 11th 2011, 02:54 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 958
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating part 2

Pointing out flaws is a good thing, especially since he pictures you as WonderWoman. Nobody is 100% perfect, not even him. Maybe you could have a special message session where you point out some of...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 10th 2011, 02:27 AM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: I might be pregnant :'(
Views: 1,463
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I might be pregnant :'(

Agreed with the others. You took a test that came up negative, and you have gotten your period. Spotting can happen for all sorts of reasons at any time. It doesn't automically mean that you're...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 9th 2011, 03:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,786
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How to get pregnant with PCOS

As others have said, visiting an OB/GYN about this sort of thing would probably get you more answers. An OB/GYN who specializes in fertility.

I would also take a look at those links that Kelly...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 7th 2011, 11:07 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,527
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant :)

I'm not pregnant, but my sister is. She was rushed to the emergency room back in July for bleeding she was experiencing, and she was 8 weeks along, and they could hear the babies heartbeat.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 6th 2011, 11:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,829
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I might be pregnant, help!!

Well, as previously mentioned, a period could be late for several reasons OTHER than pregnancy. You're stressing about the fact that you might be pregnant, which could trigger your period to be late....
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 5th 2011, 06:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,200
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: He Doesn't notice Wee'd Work great together

I agree with Jake. Out right tell him that you have romantic feelings for him. If he doesn't realize it, then, his loss. He'll eventually learn what he's missing. But, since you are really great...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 5th 2011, 06:14 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 838
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating

Picking a time to date again is completely up to you. There is no right or wrong answer to that. My ex-boyfriend whom I dated for two years broke up with me (3 days before Christmas, no less), and I...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 5th 2011, 01:06 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,829
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I might be pregnant, help!!

I agree with both above posters. Since it's been nearly a month since this encounter, you'd get an accurate result on a pregnancy test. That's the only way to know for sure if you're truly pregnant...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare November 4th 2011, 06:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,627
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant?

I agree with Brittany. Firstly, taking birth control that isn't yours could mess up your cycle, and could over-ride the birth control you normally take. Even if it is your mom's, you should refrain...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 4th 2011, 03:40 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,766
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Why hasn't my period come yet??

It's only been a few hours; you shouldn't be worrying yet.

It could be that you've switched pills, and it could take your body months to get used to it. I would read up more about the pill...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 2nd 2011, 07:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,101
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating.

Haha. I can understand why patience isn't playing a part right now. It's exciting; the possibility of a new relationship. But, patience needs to play a BIG part right now. Things will come as they'll...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 2nd 2011, 07:04 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,101
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating.

Parents may find it difficult getting over the age difference. But, the thing is: you're 20. That makes you a legal adult, no matter where you live. 5 years isn't that big of an age difference, and...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 2nd 2011, 03:16 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,101
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating.

Hey April,

I'm glad that even after a failed attempt at online dating, you've decided to give it another try. I'm also happy that safety is first on your mind as well. I can go into it, but since...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 25th 2011, 03:51 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 38,223
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pain When Masturbating?

The pain could be resulting from lots of things: not being turned on enough (not being 'wet'), the fact that your new to masturbating (you'd be very tight). If it hurts, don't force it. Obviously,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 24th 2011, 04:41 PM
Replies: 4
Male Advice Preferred: Sometimes it doesn't work...
Views: 2,198
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Sometimes it doesn't work...

Normal. There isn't anything wrong with you or your girlfriend. When you become frustrated, it's pretty obvious you'll lose your erection since you're distracted. Don't let little things frustrate...
Forum: Why Me? October 14th 2011, 06:00 AM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 381,439
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Complaint of the day

Went to a training class for a job...that turned out to be a scam. fml.
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings October 14th 2011, 03:17 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,829
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My tattoo's & piercings

Thanks guys!

An even bigger thank you to Justin! I thought I'd put them in places where it isn't easily noticed unless I'm wearing shorts. But, even then, you can only see the flower tattoo on...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 13th 2011, 10:27 PM
Replies: 41
Female Advice Preferred: Why Did Your First Period Suck?
Views: 5,002
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Why Did Your First Period Suck?

I was 11, and thankfully, I had softball practice that day that required me to wear my navy blue softball uniform pants. Had I been wearing anything else, it would have soaked through. It wasn't bad,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 12th 2011, 02:29 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,606
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Should I tell my friend I'm dating her ex?

I agree. The longer you wait, the worse it will be. If you think she's going to hurt you, I'd bring J or another friend of yours to ensure this doesn't happen. However, if she is going to continue to...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings October 10th 2011, 06:20 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,829
Posted By Harmony♥
My tattoo's & piercings

Haha. I completely forgot this forum existed. I thought I'd note what piercings and tattoo's I have. I don't have any pictures of any of my piercings, but I can name how many I've had.



...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 9th 2011, 04:27 AM
Replies: 7
Male Advice Preferred: Puberty question for other guys
Views: 2,564
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Puberty question for other guys

You may be uncircumsized, but I would definitely think about what Bobby said, and consult a doctor as well.
Forum: Books and Literature October 7th 2011, 05:45 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 120,948
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What I'm reading now.

An American Tragedy by Theodore Dreiser
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 7th 2011, 01:09 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,389
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Vaginal bleeding- shouldnt be period?

Definitely. The morning after pill can screw up your cycle, but not forever. This could definitely be what it's from. You could look up some extra information on the Plan B pill, and see if random...
Forum: General Health October 7th 2011, 01:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,491
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: The doctor was wrong

This thread can be closed.
Forum: General Health October 7th 2011, 01:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,491
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: The doctor was wrong

I didn't say I was assuming anything. This new doctor is in an actual doctor's office, not a teaching clinic (she at first attended a doctor within the teaching clinic). I said we were having to wait...
Forum: General Health October 7th 2011, 11:55 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,491
Posted By Harmony♥
The doctor was wrong

So, apparently, my sister's new doctor thinks she is farther along than we had first gathered. Her first doctor said she was about 8 weeks (at her first doctor's visit in July) and her due date was...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 7th 2011, 11:51 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,756
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: jeep disease, part of puberty?

Well, since I'm not a doctor, I can't answer these questions. I wish I could. You should contact your doctor again, the one who diagnosed you with this and see if they could answer any remaining...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 7th 2011, 11:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,389
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Vaginal bleeding- shouldnt be period?

Are you sexually active? If so, this could be called implantation bleeding, which occurs during a pregnancy. If you are sexually active, you should get your hands on a pregnancy test, take it and see...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 6th 2011, 08:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,756
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: jeep disease, part of puberty?

Just because it's more common in men, doesn't mean that females can't get it. Disease usually means that it doesn't go away, but here is a link with a bit more information:...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 5th 2011, 03:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,512
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: would anyone else do this in college?

I did this, but it lasted about two weeks and we got together. Have been together ever since.
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 4th 2011, 04:42 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,797
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Soon to be marine boyfriend, marry young? Move on base? Put college on hold?

Lissa said it right on. Usually, I'm very supportive of military couples, however, you are young. You're 16 years old, and your boyfriend is nearly 18 and choosing a life for himself. Is he expecting...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 29th 2011, 04:46 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,887
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: maybe pregnant? too early to tell?

In all honesty, you wouldn't be experiencing any pregnancy symptoms yet. You didn't even have time for conception to take place, really. Usually, it takes about 14 days before a pregnancy test could...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 26th 2011, 09:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,020
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating an ex

The choice is completely up to you. For me, I was seeing this guy, J, from November of 2006 until December of 2008 when he broke up with me. We were both going in different directions, but it wasn't...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 26th 2011, 07:35 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,414
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Am I likely to be pregnant?

You're right. You wouldn't be experiencing any sort of pregnancy symptoms right now. It's only been about a week. I also would like to commend you on taking action against the man who did this to...
Forum: Neurodiversity September 22nd 2011, 03:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,917
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: ADHD Makes You Have To Work Harder

ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, usually tends for people to have to work harder than others, much like ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder). It's not a bad thing. You didn't ask for...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 20th 2011, 11:02 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,158
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: O.M.G Dating my friends EX-Boyfriend

You have nothing to worry about. Your friend gave her blessing, so why do you need advice?
Forum: Games and Things September 20th 2011, 07:31 PM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Ew. No. Even though they are distant relatives, they're still relatives.

Would you ever pour hot wax (like candle wax) on your partner?
Forum: Games and Things September 20th 2011, 06:27 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

No. I don't use any sort of contraceptive except birth control. It would be a waste of money.

Would you go to a swinger's party?
Forum: Games and Things September 20th 2011, 05:51 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

If I were in an open relationship, yes. Nobody tying me down. However, I'm not, so XD

Would you ask your significant other to wear edible panties/boxers?
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 08:22 PM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Totally XD It's a fantasy of mine.

Would you ever use strange trimming styles down there?
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 08:03 PM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Nope.

Would you ever have sex with a complete stranger?
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 06:52 PM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Hell yeah! I mean, other than the normal just changing from clothes to PJs or vice versa. But, I've done this to my boyfriend a few times in the past. He says it's better since I'm playing a...
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 06:17 PM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Definitely not.

Would you ever accompany your significant other (male or female) to a strip club/private dance (from stripper)?
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 06:03 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

I have in the past, and I'd certainly do it again.

Would you have sex with other people in the same room?
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 05:19 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Yus! For fun. Not for other people to see. Hence why it's on my cell phone :D I can't upload it to any websites, and can't send the video out. So, I have a video of me and my boyfriend doin' the...
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 04:46 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

I just had to answer this question since it's come up in my relationship before!
Probably not. I've said I'd try it, but whenever I think about it, I get scared. I don't like sharing my boyfriend,...
Forum: Games and Things September 19th 2011, 04:28 AM
Replies: 747
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Would you ever...?
Views: 33,919
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Would you ever...?

Hm. That's a hard question. I like a guy with more experience than me, so probably not XD I'd keep it in mind though if I really cared about the person

Would you ever try anal sex if you haven't?
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 18th 2011, 07:37 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,300
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online Dating Sites

Maddie hit the nail right on the head! Just nonchalantly ask if she wants to meet up sometime, that way, it makes it easier to ask for her number to keep in contact about said meet up. I know it's...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 18th 2011, 02:37 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,113
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating multiple people?

There isn't anything wrong with it. You aren't in an exclusive relationship with either of them, therefore, you may choose to date who you want and how many people you want. You just need to explain...
Forum: Books and Literature September 17th 2011, 02:28 AM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 120,948
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What I'm reading now.

a stolen life by Jaycee Dugard
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 13th 2011, 12:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,153
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Back into the Dating Scene?

Defining where is subjective. It depends on the type of girl you're looking for. Do you want a party girl? Or someone who likes to sit at home and watch movies? Where can be a difficult question to...
Forum: Birthdays! September 10th 2011, 06:06 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,078
Posted By Harmony♥
Happy birthday Kaveri (Concrete Angel)

Today is my girl's birthday! I hope everyone takes the time to wish her a happy birthday, whether it's here or on Facebook or any other social network you might have where Kav is a friend! I'm sure...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 8th 2011, 03:55 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 4,962
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Do you/Would you only date someone of the same religion (or lack of)?

Their religious views wouldn't matter to me. I personally WOULDN'T date someone who took religion so seriously however. I only went to church for about a year when I was 5, and haven't gone back...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 8th 2011, 02:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,620
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: would you stay with your girlfriend if she got pregnant

For whatever reason, TeenHelp wasn't letting me answer the poll so I'll just put the answer here.

I know I'm a female, but if I was male and got my girlfriend pregnant, 'Yes I would stay with her...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 5th 2011, 02:47 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,210
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Interracial dating.

For me, personally, I haven't dated anyone of a different race nor have I ever been attracted to someone of a different race.

I'm not sure why, but I have no problem with people who do chose...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 2nd 2011, 10:59 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 5,468
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is my girlfriend pregnant?

It's also too soon for her to be experiencing that many pregnancy symptoms, so I think she's psyched herself out into believing that she is pregnant. The test next week my be accurate, but it's best...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 31st 2011, 03:37 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,730
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant

Do you have a source that says that pregnancy can cause a mental condition? If so, I'd really love to see it. :nosweat:
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 22nd 2011, 06:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,792
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I need help. I am 16 and pregnant and I am deciding if I should tell the father

I agree with the others. Unless he poses a risk to you and the baby, he has a right to know. If he has been violent in the past, you don't have to tell him. But, he does have the right to know that...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 19th 2011, 09:42 PM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: I may be pregnant and he wants abortion
Views: 2,117
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant and he wants abortion

What you explained is called an Open Adoption, and they do exist. She would just need to find a family that wants an open adoption, since once she gives the baby up for adoption, the choice is no...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 18th 2011, 09:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,730
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant

There isn't much you can do to help whether or not you try as hard as you can. Just be supportive of the decision she has made. It's going to be a difficult time for her so be her shoulder to cry on,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 18th 2011, 03:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,730
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: My friend is pregnant

To be there for your friend is to just be supportive of her and the decisions that she's going to make toward her future and the babies future. She might be considering options that you might not...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare August 15th 2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: I may be pregnant and he wants abortion
Views: 2,117
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I may be pregnant and he wants abortion

Regardless of what he wants you to do, the decision is ultimately up to you. It's your body, and you shouldn't be forced into having an abortion if you don't want one. Abortions could be extremely...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 11th 2011, 02:30 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,266
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Courting vs. Dating??

I don't think there is a difference. Courting was a term used during the 'olden' days. It's just a formal way of saying dating.
Forum: Sex and Puberty August 6th 2011, 02:37 AM
Replies: 10
Female Advice Preferred: Getting Eaten Out... :/
Views: 81,883
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Getting Eaten Out... :/

Of course the first time is going to be a bit awkward. There is no getting around that. Just do what makes you feel comfortable.

You just lie there, and you don't have to make noises unless you...
Forum: Books and Literature August 2nd 2011, 03:16 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 120,948
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What I'm reading now.

The Rescue is a great book <3

I'm not reading The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger.
Forum: Books and Literature August 1st 2011, 10:29 PM
Replies: 2,009
Views: 120,948
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What I'm reading now.

Catch-22 by Joseph Heller
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 28th 2011, 05:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,197
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online dating

Move down there. Of course, having your parents support is always a great thing, but you don't need it to move to live with your boyfriend/live near your boyfriend. You are 18 now, which makes you a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 27th 2011, 03:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 41,530
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is it ok to take birth control 10 minutes late?

Angel is right, there is usually a 12-hour window when you are allowed to take the pill. Ten minutes is fine. You can always bring up your concern with your doctor though; making a habit of taking it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 21st 2011, 06:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 12,997
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Opinion on 16 year old girl dating 20 year old guy

I agree with the others. He sounds like a great guy, but even guys you think are perfect aren't. In all honesty, the age different isn't that big of a deal. It's only 4 years. However, there is the...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 20th 2011, 05:19 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,252
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: alcohol urges

Hey! I am so sorry that it took so long for you to get a reply!

Anyway, you can breach that 'contract'. Once you are 21 years of age, you are allowed to do what you want. It is your life. I know...
Forum: Music July 14th 2011, 11:20 PM
Replies: 360
Views: 17,233
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: What Song Is Stuck In Your Head Right Now?

Dirt Road Anthem - Jason Aldean
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 13th 2011, 04:04 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 12,476
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating Younger Women. 23 Male + 18/19 women

I don't find it strange at all. I met my current boyfriend when I was 16. I believe he was either 18 or 19 at the time. I can't remember. It was a while ago. But, when we first started dating, I was...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 11th 2011, 08:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,307
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating for a year, we are only friends?

I'm not exactly sure what is going through his head, but it sounds like he might have some commitment issues. He loves you, but he sometimes doesn't feel romantic feelings toward you. To me, that...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare July 11th 2011, 08:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 6,156
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I dont know if I'm pregnant or having a miscarriage

Regardless of knowing whether you are pregnant or not, which we cannot tell you because we aren't doctors, you should see a professional. You said the bleeding you were experiencing wasn't normal for...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 29th 2011, 01:59 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,964
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant

Adding on to this, if you're worried about cost, as mentioned above you can always do a dollar store bought pregnancy test. They are just as effective as name brand tests, cost a lot less, as long as...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 28th 2011, 05:17 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,964
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant

Yes, I understand the point of the comment. My point is that no matter what the result of the pregnancy test was, they cannot legally tell you if there is someone else in the room unless the person...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 28th 2011, 04:27 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,964
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant

They will not say the results of a pregnancy if another person is in the room, considering the person might not want that said person to know. It's common courtesy, and part of the doctor/patient...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 27th 2011, 06:48 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,964
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant

I agree. You should try to obtain a pregnancy test without her knowledge and administer it yourself. If this can't be done, try seeing if a friend will be able to help you, and take the test there.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 27th 2011, 04:19 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,964
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Possibly Pregnant

There is a little something called doctor/patient confidentiality. Your aunt doesn't need to know. Ask her to go into the exam room alone, and then speak to your doctor about it then.
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 09:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,510
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Erection Problems,

You aren't supposed to try the anti-depressants to help. What Stephen was saying that if you are on them, that could be the problem. Since you aren't on them, this isn't the issue. Taking...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 04:29 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: puberty question..
Views: 2,089
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: puberty question..

Well, we usually continue to grow until about the age of 18, when puberty normally ends for woman, whereas boys continue to grow in height until about the age of 21.

You might get a little bit...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 04:21 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: puberty question..
Views: 2,089
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: puberty question..

There are ways to make it seem as if you've got a bigger chest, like wearing a padded push up bra. I'm smaller than most of the females in my family, and this is what I do, especially when I want to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 04:05 PM
Replies: 9
Female Advice Preferred: puberty question..
Views: 2,089
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: puberty question..

Hi there,
Everyone is different. You aren't going to be the same size as some of your peers. Some girls are naturally larger than others, while others are going to be much smaller. A lot of it has...
Forum: Loneliness June 21st 2011, 11:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,953
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I'm lonely

Hey Anthony,
Acheron hit the nail right on the head. You just need to get over your fear of rejection. You might not believe it, but all of us girls aren't outright b****s. Try finding a girl that...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 21st 2011, 01:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,536
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I feel as though I'm not going through much of puberty?

Yes, we understand this. You can't expect to be done with puberty when everyone else is done with puberty, especially when you either started before or after they did. We are saying that if you...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 21st 2011, 12:54 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,536
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I feel as though I'm not going through much of puberty?

Myss is right. If you haven't reached puberty by the age of 18, there is something wrong. If you are truly concerned about it now, also talk to your doctor.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 20th 2011, 05:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,067
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is she pregnant ?

Also, just to add on to this: Although it's more effective to take it earlier, you can take Plan B up to 72 hours after unprotected sex.
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 20th 2011, 11:40 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,536
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I feel as though I'm not going through much of puberty?

Everyone goes through puberty at different times. We don't all start at the same age and then that's the end. It will happen for you.
Forum: Birthdays! June 13th 2011, 02:47 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,371
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Best birthday ever!

:)!
If you guys want to see the photo's from the night, they're up on their Facebook profile. Just search Maggie Speaks, and they should come up. The pictures are under their 'St. Fabians' photo...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 13th 2011, 02:19 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 45,089
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Condoms at the gas station?

Hey Alex,
Condoms you buy from the gas station are just as effective as the ones you'd buy from say, CVS or Wal-Greens. You just have to make sure that they're expiration dates are okay. If the...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 12th 2011, 09:25 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,787
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Could pregnancy symptoms start earlier if you get pregnant on the pill?

Hey Dani,
Pregnancy symptoms are different for everyone; they show up at different times for everyone. When was the last time you had unprotected sex, or the condrom broke, or there was some sort of...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 11th 2011, 01:24 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,067
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is she pregnant ?

Hey there,
Myss is right. You're supposed to take a pregnancy test 14 days after an accident has occurred. If she took the Plan B, or emergency pill, then there is little chance that she might be...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 9th 2011, 11:41 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,888
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Bestfriends pregnant??

I agree with this. There is a difference between being lazy and knowing whether or not you can truly provide for a child at a tender age. Pushing beliefs on people isn't going to get them to agree...
Forum: Birthdays! June 9th 2011, 10:25 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,371
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Best birthday ever!

Thank you guys so much. It was a very great birthday! :) One I'll always remember.
Forum: Birthdays! June 9th 2011, 07:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,371
Posted By Harmony♥
Best birthday ever!

Hey guys,
As some of you may know, I turned 21 on Tuesday. Wednesday, I went to this local festival and carnival where my favorite local band was playing. They're called Maggie Speaks, and I've...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 8th 2011, 04:41 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,030
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Is Dating Your Friend's Ex Ever Okay?

Hey Zara,
For me, I would never date a friends ex. It's not exactly my thing to have someone else's sloppy seconds.
But, if you get your friends permission to date him, then I would go for it. If...
Forum: Relationships and Dating June 8th 2011, 12:01 AM
Replies: 37
Poll: Female Advice Preferred: Dating a guy..
Views: 1,806
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating a guy..

Hey there,
I agree with the above poster. I was in the 11th grade when I had my first, serious relationship that lasted for two years. There can be real relationships at that stage, it all depends...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 7th 2011, 12:21 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,530
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: im pregnant....

Hey Amanda,
I know this is going to be a very difficult and scary time for you, but the first thing you've got to do is to tell your parents. You need to seek medical attention immediately. They'll...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 7th 2011, 12:16 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,888
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Bestfriends pregnant??

Hey Carter,
Sweetie, the baby is technically a baby yet. When getting an abortion your friend and the baby won't be able to feel anything. It's just an embryo. After the third trimester, they don't...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 5th 2011, 04:37 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 4,059
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Pregnant again!!!

YAY! I'm so happy for you :)
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction May 27th 2011, 06:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,332
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Sex problems/ addiction?

Hey there!

I wouldn't say that you are addicted to sex, but if you don't take things down a notch, it could head into that direction. It's okay to have sex with someone you aren't in a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 27th 2011, 04:19 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,315
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Polyamorous Dating?

It's pretty obvious that you are going to be judged and labeled. That's how society is. It's your choice what you decide to do with your body, but don't just assume that because you use protection,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 26th 2011, 03:22 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,416
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: could i be pregnant?!

I would definitely agree with Amber.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 25th 2011, 08:07 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,986
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I'm Pregnant o_O

Hey there!

I am so surprised at how well your handling your situation. Lot's of teens, and even adults wouldn't know what to do. I am so proud of the fact that even though it wasn't your fault,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 23rd 2011, 08:27 PM
Replies: 10
Male Advice Preferred: trying 2 understand puberty
Views: 2,334
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: trying 2 understand puberty

What Justin means is that your penis is the last part of your body to go through puberty. Everything else will happen first, as in your voice will begin to change and you will start growing hair in...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 23rd 2011, 10:50 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,315
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Polyamorous Dating?

Polygamy takes a lot of work to maintain multiple partners.
It can get nasty, but if it's done right, you should have no problem.
Firstly, make sure that all parties involved know the situation,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 22nd 2011, 03:03 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,605
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Am I pregnant ? HELP

To the above poster, it said that her period is now 22 days late.
It's safe to say that you could be pregnant.
Any time you have sex, there is always a chance.
Take a pregnancy test; nobody...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 19th 2011, 08:34 PM
Replies: 10
Male Advice Preferred: trying 2 understand puberty
Views: 2,334
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: trying 2 understand puberty

Everyone goes through puberty at different times in their life. Just because you haven't reached puberty yet, doesn't mean you haven't. It also starts differently than others two. I'm guessing what...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 19th 2011, 02:35 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,578
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating multiple people at once

We already had this conversation :)
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 19th 2011, 12:46 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,578
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating multiple people at once

I think it could go either way, but from my own personal experience, it's easier for women to date multiple people as well. We don't have to put too much effort into going up to guys or to grab their...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 18th 2011, 11:21 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,578
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating multiple people at once

First question: No, I don't really view it as cheating. Nobody can really be upset, or get mad about the situation because there was no definition of the relationship before hand. Neither party...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 18th 2011, 10:55 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 7,387
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: How do I deal with the fact my two best friends are now dating?

Hey Courtney,

I'm so sorry that this happened. It's really got to hurt to see your best friends dating, and now you feel like a third wheel.

But, all you have to do now is be supportive of...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 18th 2011, 12:54 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,578
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating multiple people at once

It depends.

I think that if both parties are consenting that it's okay for either one, or both, to date other people or multiple people at once, it's no big deal. If one doesn't know of the...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 17th 2011, 05:11 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,592
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Head of International Monetary Fund Arrested For Attempted Rape

That's what I thought! I didn't know whether or not he would have to be sent back to France or not (And I didn't say that just because of his nationality, I really thought that was what was supposed...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 17th 2011, 01:18 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,592
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Head of International Monetary Fund Arrested For Attempted Rape

I believe he would have to be taken back to France to be tried, but I could be wrong. I thought I heard something similar to this but I don't know how true it is.
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 17th 2011, 12:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,592
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Head of International Monetary Fund Arrested For Attempted Rape

This is just crazy! I'm not exactly sure what his position really is, but for someone of 'power' (which I'm assuming is what he is) to be accused of rape, on continuous accusations, is quite...
Forum: Technology, Gamers and Gadgets May 16th 2011, 06:09 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,177
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Apple Store

Casey is spot on!

The more knowledge you have of their products the better. They'll teach you more, and do training with you, but it's always good to go into detail yourself, because they may ask...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 16th 2011, 02:50 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 5,785
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Why is it cool to get pregnant

Teens who get pregnant are whores? Wow, a little bit harsh much.

How about the teen girls that are raped and get pregnant, are they whores? How about when the condom breaks, are they whores? I...
Forum: General Health May 16th 2011, 12:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,796
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: T1 diabetes

It's possible that your Type 1 Diabetes has progressed into Type 2 Diabetes. Since your current doctor's don't know what's going on with you, I would suggest changing doctor's and seeing what they...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 16th 2011, 12:03 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,286
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Online Dating Sites

Not sketchy. That's not even remotely sketchy.

However, I would never use an online dating site, or any kind of dating on the internet. I prefer to meet people in person, which I could do on an...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 10th 2011, 09:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 119,350
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: does your bf touch your anus during sex!?

I have tried anal sex twice before, and I don't mind anal play at all. Anal sex is just a tad bit awkward and painful.

If your not comfortable with it, don't hesitate to let him know.
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction May 10th 2011, 01:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,666
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: I'm gonna go to Alcohol Anonymous..

I agree. Keep in mind; the famous actress Drew Berrymore went through a drug and alcohol problem at the age of 13, and got clean while she was still in her teens.

Don't ask someone to buy alcohol...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 9th 2011, 08:52 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Whatever. Like using that word makes me want to take it you seriously, but ok. I'm not saying people have to agree with me. I have never, ever even made that suggestion...to anyone. Not here, not off...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 9th 2011, 08:27 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

I don't give a shit if you people agree or disagree with me. It's not about that. She has doctor's to tell her the hardship's she's going to through. How do you think she found out she was having...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 9th 2011, 07:47 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

I only keep repeating myself, because so is everyone else. And, I'm not calling anyone rude, here. K? I have just as much as a right to post here as anyone else does, and I'm not stopping anyone from...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 9th 2011, 05:42 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Let's not be rude here. She's quite upset. Her religion is against abortions, and religion means a great deal to her and her family. She has already decided to go through with the pregnancy, so there...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction May 9th 2011, 03:43 AM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: Masturbation and Erotica addiction....
Views: 4,333
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Masturbation and Erotica addiction....

The hands too. It's not your mind that does the masturbation.
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction May 9th 2011, 03:14 AM
Replies: 7
Female Advice Preferred: Masturbation and Erotica addiction....
Views: 4,333
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Masturbation and Erotica addiction....

Crystal is right. You've got to think of other things to keep your mind and hands busy so you won't put yourself in that position. It's natural and even healthy to masturbate, but not when it's...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 8th 2011, 04:51 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

I couldn't have said this better myself!
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 8th 2011, 04:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 14,454
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Tips for preventing an erection?

Really? Because a lot of girls I know would be creeped out if the guy she just hugged got an erection.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 8th 2011, 12:23 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Jack, did you take the time to read the other posts? They all sound the same. This poor girl is so afraid by what we've said that she wont even reply to her own thread anymore. I don't think that's...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 7th 2011, 10:16 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

I agree. But, everyone keeps repeating the same damn shit back to her. Needless to say, we're not here to scare somebody completely off of the website.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 7th 2011, 04:43 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

I agree. I said this before, and I will say it again: She understands the dangers of what she is going through. We do not need to continue reiterating them to her. She has even become so scared of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 7th 2011, 03:20 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 14,454
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Tips for preventing an erection?

Think of something that entirely turns you off: i.e. family members, or something like might have traumatized you as a kid. It usually helps.
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 4th 2011, 09:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,554
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating younger...

That's normal, but you can always date someone who your sister doesn't even know. But, it's your choice. There isn't anything wrong with dating someone younger than you, or dating someone older than...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 4th 2011, 09:46 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Thank you Cheye, that's very much appreciated. :D. Each of you have been supportive in your own way, and I'm pretty sure she now knows that her pregnancy will be extremely high risk. We are here to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 4th 2011, 08:11 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,554
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating younger...

Is there any reason why you feel uncomfortable with dating someone younger than you?
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 4th 2011, 07:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,554
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Dating younger...

Of course. Everyone has their preferences. You like to date someone who is your age, or older. I prefer, personally, to date older guys than myself. My boyfriend is currently 23, and I'm 20 and he's...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 4th 2011, 07:14 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Just so you know, most women, even older women, have babies that are premature and/or underweight when they are carrying twins. Twins never make it to the full 40 weeks of pregnancy.
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare May 1st 2011, 02:53 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,108
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know?

Alright guys, I think she understands now that there are some dangers to being a pregnant with twins 11 year old. What she needs now is support and advice that is going to help her through this. She...
Forum: Games and Things April 28th 2011, 08:52 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 65,645
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

I know when I really like someone when I would do anything to make that person happy, other than altering myself to fit their preferences.

I'm going to answer what it's like to be on my period,...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 28th 2011, 04:42 AM
Replies: 11
Triggering (Abuse): Can I really be pregnant?
Views: 1,876
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can I really be pregnant?

Adoption doesn't mean you just give you baby to an agency and they supply the family for you. You can choose the family, meet them and make sure that they're the right people to care for your child....
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare April 27th 2011, 04:02 PM
Replies: 11
Triggering (Abuse): Can I really be pregnant?
Views: 1,876
Posted By Harmony♥
Re: Can I really be pregnant?

I agree. It's your body, and if abortion isn't something you think you couldn't do, then don't. There is, like I mentioned before, adoption. There are always options out there for you. I am so happy...
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